I've had a similar problem with men wanting to chat on different messengers... after one message. If it's not an obvious scammer, I just tell them no and if they are interested enough, they'll continue to contact you on C.S.
I think you are making things harder on yourself by over thinking it. Just browse through the area and age range of women you are looking for and see who catches your eye. If you have no problem dating interracially, then why pick one race to persue? You should choose to contact people you are interested in, not just base it on who finds you desirable in a poll. Good luck!
Did you know that some women wore their corsets so tight that it liquified their organs? That is why woman were so frail back in the day and fainted all of the time. They couldn't breathe.
haha phone call is too expensive. Most women I talk to are out of the country right now.hahaha. I am almost thinking I should ask and just go for it.:) But, at the same time I think that may be too much. Honestly I do not see what the big deal is inviting someone you like to stay with you, but women never do it. They invite you out to see them, but expect you to find your own place.:( so messed up kind of.[/quote]
I don't think it is messed up. Even if the woman finds a man interesting, it's not a good idea to invite him home for a first meeting. It is safer to meet in a public place initially.
Safety aside, if the woman doesn't like the guy (or vice versa), she doesn't want him to know exactly where she lives. Not to mention, if he were staying with her, she'd have to put up with him until he left, if there were no sparks.
It depends on your financial situation too. I didn't finish college and I think part of the reason was that I had to work at least 35 hours a week and go to school full time. If you could work and save some needed money for a year, then you could devote more of your time to classes.
I had a boyfriend over and I happened to look in the bathroom when he was brushing his teeth. I had an apartment then, so the cat litter was in there. I saw him knock over my toothbrush into the cat litter. Then he put it back. And wasn't going to tell me! I broke up with him quick
I agree. And yes men do it too. Maybe not the lingo so much, but the lack of paragraphs and correct grammer. I don't mind if it's readable, but if I have to take an extra half hour to figure out what someone is trying to say, then it becomes annoying and not worth it.
I could not be elegant all of the time. Sometimes, sure, but not all the time. I wouldn't expect it of anyone else either. But if it makes you happy, then good for you.
You said that he told you that you never get to meet his daughter? If that is so then maybe something else is going on here. That could just be an excuse for why you can't be a part of his home life. It is understandable that a single parent would not want to expose his/her children to everyone they date. However, if you have been dating a long time and he still says you can't meet her, then it has to make you wonder what his long term plans are. He's never going to make any type of commitment to you if you aren't even allowed to meet the most important members of his family.
I don't think that it is a woman's age, but more likely her personality and the environment she grew up in. Also, her experiences with relationships. My parents have been married for over 35 years, so I grew up always wanting to find someone to fall in love with and get married. So maybe a lot of different things contribute to whether or not a person is the marrying type?
First of all, why worry about being polite to him? By saying that he is married and then approaching you, he is belittling your importance. I had a man approach me on myspace in the same kind of flirtatious manner. I looked at his profile and not only was he taken, but his girlfriend was eight months pregnant. I wrote him back and told him to man up and take care of his girlfriend and child. Then I blocked him. Why be polite to such losers?
The honest and I know most annoying answer is that it takes time. In the meantime do something that will make you feel better about yourself. Have a spa day, get your nails done, go shopping, get a haircut.
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RE: Email address
I've had a similar problem with men wanting to chat on different messengers... after one message. If it's not an obvious scammer, I just tell them no and if they are interested enough, they'll continue to contact you on C.S.