I think that untill you do serve the divorce papers he is gonna live in hope that you both get back together, which is why he is jealous of other men staying. Personally I dont believe ex's can be friends
You are all missing it .. he has told her to keep her nose out and wont allow her to meet the child or make comment on the situation. So she cant become friends with the child and it is not for her to arrange any counselling .. it has nothing to do with her and her interference will not be welcome by the father or the child.
She needs to move on and find someone else worthy of her. He cant be worthy of her or he would sort the child out and not be scared of the child.
He MUST remind the child that she is the child and he is the one in charge. He must not hide his life from her. But you dont need to be involved in this .. I think you know this or you wouldnt be asking the question. If he wont stand up to her then that is his problem and he ends up with a brat for the rest of his life
Been there done that and got the tee shirt. You will always be - at best - 2nd best in everything. Move on darlin and find someone who will put you first. Is not worth the heart ache and the animosity which will come. The child will hate you and be more and more demanding .. and cause trouble between you and her father .. not worth it
RE: would you date
Not a chance in hell. I will have no one insulting my country. If they dont like my country then they go home or leave my country alone