safe to ASK on the first instance. who feels the urge first can initiate... definitely love stolen kisses tho, and kiss stops, and passionate ones, and smack kissing, kissing is good all over!
maybe you should try to find looking for SOMEONE WHO IS GOOD FOR YOU and GOOD TO YOU. It's a test of time really. If you found one who sticks with you through the worst times, you got yourself a treasure! KEEP IT!
New here too and have yet to see it for myself. Guess we're all cautious. But i'm optimistic that in a place like this, decent people could meet and actually talk without bounds... something amazing ought to happen.
RE: Initiating the kissing