well, i've never had that experience before, tbh. i usually tell a man straight away that it's not working for me. although i'm having problems with one stalker of late.won't take no for an answer. but that should be in another thread altogether. sorry rory
my step brother took his life last year. and the question will always be.. "why?" people handle depression differently. There's a lesson here. always make yourself available to people you care about. Listen when they want to talk and love them the best you can. Make them feel important. Make them feel they are needed. Once a person loses self-worth, things can go downhill and it's a battle trying to get back up again.
can't resist it i'm posting lyrics... think this one might suit CS
The stars lean down to kiss you And I lie awake and miss you Pour me a heavy dose of atmosphere
'Cause I'll doze off safe and soundly But I'll miss your arms around me I'd send a postcard to you, dear 'Cause I wish you were here
I'll watch the night turn light-blue But it's not the same without you Because it takes two to whisper quietly
The silence isn't so bad 'Til I look at my hands and feel sad 'Cause the spaces between my fingers Are right where yours fit perfectly
I'll find repose in new ways Though I haven't slept in two days 'Cause cold nostalgia Chills me to the bone
But drenched in vanilla twilight I'll sit on the front porch all night Waist-deep in thought because When I think of you I don't feel so alone
I don't feel so alone, I don't feel so alone
As many times as I blink I'll think of you tonight I'll think of you tonight
When violet eyes get brighter And heavy wings grow lighter I'll taste the sky and feel alive again
And I'll forget the world that I knew But I swear I won't forget you Oh, if my voice could reach Back through the past I'd whisper in your ear Oh darling, I wish you were here
ouch on that one. but really, i think we never stop loving someone once we've started loving them. We may break up and the passion has somewhat dimmed to the point that we can no longer stay together. These are choices. But the caring is still there. It was love and it is love.
for my one true love (lifetime partner), i guess i'll know he's the one if we've been together til the end of our lives. As for now, i'm searching for someone who i can be confident enough to commit to and work things out through and through. someone who can make me not want to give up...
plainlyjune Forum Posts (8,175)
sorry rory
for everyone
heard about that trulee guy 
he is fast after all. run!!
RE: Hello from London ON
welcome