Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this? ( Archived) (73)

Jun 4, 2010 1:34 PM CSTRe-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
CtheWorld2Gether
CtheWorld2GetherCtheWorld2GetherSathon, Bangkok, Central Thailand4 Threads 3 Polls 37 Posts

Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?(Vote Below)

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don't think that could happen, life must go on.
52
65%
yes, it did happened to me (share the story pls?)
10
12%
I want it to happen, but too proud to initiate it
10
12%
Others (share in your replies pls?)
8
10%
Total Votes
80
If this used to happen to you. How long was the break?handshake
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Jun 4, 2010 1:42 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Yes I did that a year after we divorced. He chased me to Portugal then Poland where I was working and asked me to marry him again.

I agreed, but it only lasted another year.

Long story. laugh
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Jun 4, 2010 1:44 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
JAN_is: Yes I did that a year after we divorced. He chased me to Portugal then Poland where I was working and asked me to marry him again.

I agreed, but it only lasted another year.

Long story.


we got time ...laugh
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Jun 4, 2010 1:44 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
The "second chances" thingy doesnt work for me Ive tried. I learned that if I end a relationship, Its for a good reason. wine
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Jun 4, 2010 1:45 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
ChiGuy
ChiGuyChiGuyChichester, West Sussex, England UK35 Posts
venusenvy: The "second chances" thingy doesnt work for me Ive tried. I learned that if I end a relationship, Its for a good reason.
i agree. you can rarely go back.
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Jun 4, 2010 1:45 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Boban1: we got time ...


No boban you´d be bored to tears. laugh hug
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Jun 4, 2010 1:46 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
I tried to re-unite with two of my three ex-wives..love
(one it lasted eleven days, the other 17 months..mumbling )
The love, closeness, honesty, trust,
and everything else was still there..heart beating
As STILL were the reasons we divorced...moping
The old saying.. "you can never go home"..
is true.. at least in my case..crying

typing---SoldierByte--- nerd
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Jun 4, 2010 1:48 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
CtheWorld2Gether: If this used to happen to you. How long was the break?



No!scold
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Jun 4, 2010 2:00 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
CtheWorld2Gether
CtheWorld2GetherCtheWorld2GetherSathon, Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 3 Polls 37 Posts
JAN_is: Yes I did that a year after we divorced. He chased me to Portugal then Poland where I was working and asked me to marry him again.

I agreed, but it only lasted another year.

Long story.



OK...I'm here with popcorn and ears up!! yay
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Jun 4, 2010 2:03 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
ChiGuy: i agree. you can rarely go back.


They say " you can never go home again" theres some wisdom in that. Once the dynamic changes its...changed wine
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Jun 4, 2010 2:03 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Ginny9264
Ginny9264Ginny9264Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 203 Posts
No way, he was a bore in bed anyway.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:03 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Seatraveler
SeatravelerSeatravelerLongview, Texas USA9 Threads 272 Posts
I don't move backwards.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:04 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
bababoboo
bababoboobababobootralee, Kerry Ireland6 Threads 2 Polls 65 Posts
if its going to work out it will work out at the first time, if its not going to work out even you give it hundreds of tries it will not work....
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Jun 4, 2010 2:06 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Ginny9264: No way, he was a bore in bed anyway.


Don`t tell me ... he used the bed for sleeping....and not as an amusement park ....grin
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Jun 4, 2010 2:07 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Ginny9264
Ginny9264Ginny9264Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 203 Posts
Boban1: Don`t tell me ... he used the bed for sleeping....and not as an amusement park ....


Sleeping? At times, when he was sober laugh

Anyway, what do you think my 'place' is, the big dipper? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 4, 2010 2:07 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Desertguy49
Desertguy49Desertguy49South Western Desert, Arizona USA7 Threads 2,259 Posts
I've never looked back on any past relationships with the intention of rekindling the old flame , so to speak. But was offered that option before, just don't think it's feasible.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:07 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
CtheWorld2Gether: If this used to happen to you. How long was the break?
Been there done that,once the trust is gone you really never get it back.once a cheater always a cheater,i moved on,life is to short to be with someone that makes you unhappy.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:07 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Boban1: Don`t tell me ... he used the bed for sleeping....and not as an amusement park ....


My first Hubby and I had a water bed...I used to call it the dead sea!!! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 4, 2010 2:07 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
ChiGuy: i agree. you can rarely go back.
i agree,what ended it usually comes back up//water under the bridge?,it can always last for awhile again
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Jun 4, 2010 2:09 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
Desertguy49: I've never looked back on any past relationships with the intention of rekindling the old flame , so to speak. But was offered that option before, just don't think it's feasible.
nopewave
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Jun 4, 2010 2:12 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Been there Donethat Not good. blues
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Jun 4, 2010 2:13 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Ginny9264
Ginny9264Ginny9264Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 203 Posts
venusenvy: My first Hubby and I had a water bed...I used to call it the dead sea!!!




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I would Knight the inventor of 'toys'.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:14 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
trulee01
trulee01trulee01lake worth, Florida USA49 Threads 1 Polls 2,406 Posts
Boban1: Don`t tell me ... he used the bed for sleeping....and not as an amusement park ....
thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 4, 2010 2:14 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
It´s not as easy as that. If you´ve been married for a very long time, and the breakup wasn´t anything more traumatic than growing apart then you may want to try again, as I did.

As I said it worked for another year only, but no hard feelings on either part and we´re still friendly, that´s the important thing to achieve after a breakup I think.
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Jun 4, 2010 2:14 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
Ginny9264: No way, he was a bore in bed anyway.

Well cupcake...love
I've been called a lot of things..blushing
but a "bore" in the bedroom....wow
Is NOT one of em..!!!scold
unless of course we talking bout
you in that catsuit with the kangaroo pocket
and me doing a lil "drilling" with
my lil Australian boomarang....banana

hug---SoldierByte--- dancing dog
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Jun 4, 2010 2:15 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
venusenvy: My first Hubby and I had a water bed...I used to call it the dead sea!!!


maybe he was sea sick .....grin
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Jun 4, 2010 2:17 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
JAN_is: Yes I did that a year after we divorced. He chased me to Portugal then Poland where I was working and asked me to marry him again.

I agreed, but it only lasted another year.

Long story.


I did almost the same Jan:

We got apart for one year and then we decided to try again and it did not work, so after a 24yr marriage, was the time to flay away.

He is a great person, a good father, and a not to good partner because he was just to bussy. A balance is required to be able to enjoy family, friends, work, etc. and I am sure I did my share to unbalance ours dunno

not looking back
bouquet
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Jun 4, 2010 2:17 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
venusenvy: My first Hubby and I had a water bed...I used to call it the dead sea!!!

with you and I it would be called the PERFECT STORM..!!hug
dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Jun 4, 2010 2:18 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
SoldierByte: with you and I it would be called the PERFECT STORM..!!
---SoldierByte---


hug hug
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Jun 4, 2010 2:21 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
I'm packing up my meds, got my parole papers,
and my extra sock and I'm heading to mexico..!!!motorcycle

love---SoldierByte--- smitten
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Jun 4, 2010 2:27 PM CST Re-unite with the "ex"…. does it work? What's your experience about this?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
lifeisadream: I did almost the same Jan:

We got apart for one year and then we decided to try again and it did not work, so after a 24yr marriage, was the time to flay away.

He is a great person, a good father, and a not to good partner because he was just to bussy. A balance is required to be able to enjoy family, friends, work, etc. and I am sure I did my share to unbalance ours

not looking back


I sensed we had things in common. hug wave
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