Do I take pride in being nice and helping those less fortunate than myself? You are darn right I do. I am a strong christian man. I dont help others to be nice so I can receive acceptance or love. I could care less if I found a woman to love me or not. Really is not whats important to me. I try to live my life the way Jesus did. DId he not be nice and help others? Was he persecuted for being nice and kind? Yes he was. SO you see being nice and helping others does not mean we are wanting acceptance or being how did you say "pathetic"? Myself personally I help others out and be nice because I feel good about doing that. I know it is what jesus would want me to do. So your theory may be right in your personal experiences. However, You have got me pegged all wrong lil' Darlin'.....I am a southern Gentleman. I have had several people tell me that I am a sweet kind caring sincere guy. My pastor says I have a kindred spirit. SO I am not a self proclaimed "nice guy".... This is what I am told by just about everyone that gets to know me. Women do not like it. Not all women. Most..
Do I take pride in being nice and helping those less fortunate than myself? You are darn right I do. I am a strong christian man. I dont help others to be nice so I can receive acceptance or love. I could care less if I found a woman to love me or not. Really is not whats important to me. I try to live my life the way Jesus did. DId he not be nice and help others? Was he persecuted for being nice and kind? Yes he was. SO you see being nice and helping others does not mean we are wanting acceptance or being how did you say "pathetic"? Myself personally I help others out and be nice because I feel good about doing that. I know it is what jesus would want me to do. So your theory may be right in your personal experiences. However, You have got me pegged all wrong lil' Darlin'.....I am a southern Gentleman. I have had several people tell me that I am a sweet kind caring sincere guy. My pastor says I have a kindred spirit. SO I am not a self proclaimed "nice guy".... This is what I am told by just about everyone that gets to know me. Women do not like it. Not all women. Most..
IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time. I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????
I disagree. I am a very secure man. Very confident. IF my partner is in love with me, I like to hear it as much as possible. Insecurity comes from, having relationships where you later found out that your partner did not really love you like she/he said they did. I know for myself if I am in love, I will tell her when I wake up. I will call her once through out the day and let her know i am thinking about her. WHen I get home from work I will give her a hug and a kiss and let her know how much I missed her and love her. It has been my experience women do not like a nice guy. They do not like a guy who is sweet and treat them right. Most women would rather have a guy that treats them like trash. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!!!!! Hey I think this may be a good forum topic.
I know for myself, that if my woman is actually in love with me, she could not say it enough for me. I like hearing it if it is actually meant. Now I have been in relationships where later on in the relationship she did not actually mean it. This is when it becomes irritating. If you dont mean it then it gives the other person a false sense of how his/her partner really feels. Like I daid if my woman really truly deep down loves me and is in love, then and only then I like hearing it as much as she can tell me.
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Why do the nice guys finish last?
Do I take pride in being nice and helping those less fortunate than myself? You are darn right I do. I am a strong christian man. I dont help others to be nice so I can receive acceptance or love. I could care less if I found a woman to love me or not. Really is not whats important to me.I try to live my life the way Jesus did. DId he not be nice and help others? Was he persecuted for being nice and kind? Yes he was. SO you see being nice and helping others does not mean we are wanting acceptance or being how did you say "pathetic"? Myself personally I help others out and be nice because I feel good about doing that. I know it is what jesus would want me to do. So your theory may be right in your personal experiences. However, You have got me pegged all wrong lil' Darlin'.....I am a southern Gentleman. I have had several people tell me that I am a sweet kind caring sincere guy. My pastor says I have a kindred spirit. SO I am not a self proclaimed "nice guy".... This is what I am told by just about everyone that gets to know me.
Women do not like it. Not all women. Most..