Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much? ( Archived) (109)

Jun 19, 2010 4:04 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?

Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?

If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?

Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
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Jun 19, 2010 4:07 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?

Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?

If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?

Would just be interested to hear the views on this?


Telling I love you several times a day suggests insecurity, not saying it at all suggest inablity to commit or a dozon other things.
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Jun 19, 2010 4:08 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
All depends on the type of person you are if this will become an annoyance.
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Jun 19, 2010 4:09 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Costapacket: Telling I love you several times a day suggests insecurity, not saying it at all suggest inablity to commit or a dozon other things.


You may be right.

Once a day is good though.
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Jun 19, 2010 4:10 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
So, what would the fine balance/magic number be? What does too often become TOO often?

dunno
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Jun 19, 2010 4:10 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
no am too harsh and afraidgrin
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Jun 19, 2010 4:10 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Veritaas: All depends on the type of person you are if this will become an annoyance.


Go on...
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Jun 19, 2010 4:11 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
viva007: no am too harsh and afraid


What do you mean?

confused
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Jun 19, 2010 4:12 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
JAN_is: You may be right.

Once a day is good though.


Once a day is good,

guess its the same as too much screaming in bed is just about reassuring each other your having a good time.....laugh
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Jun 19, 2010 4:13 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Costapacket: Once a day is good,

guess its the same as too much screaming in bed is just about reassuring each other your having a good time.....


rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Jun 19, 2010 4:14 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I like to hear I love you....grin
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Jun 19, 2010 4:14 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Bit of a twist on the theme.

Were you with someone, and had grown used to them saying this a great deal, how soon would you notice, if they began to say it a LOT less? And, having noticed, would this shift concern you?
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Jun 19, 2010 4:15 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
wave
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Jun 19, 2010 4:15 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Shepherd02
Shepherd02Shepherd02Albion, Maine USA1 Threads 5 Posts
I know for myself, that if my woman is actually in love with me, she could not say it enough for me. I like hearing it if it is actually meant.
Now I have been in relationships where later on in the relationship she did not actually mean it. This is when it becomes irritating. If you dont mean it then it gives the other person a false sense of how his/her partner really feels.
Like I daid if my woman really truly deep down loves me and is in love, then and only then I like hearing it as much as she can tell me.
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Jun 19, 2010 4:16 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
MrInteresting: Bit of a twist on the theme.

Were you with someone, and had grown used to them saying this a great deal, how soon would you notice, if they began to say it a LOT less? And, having noticed, would this shift concern you?


Sounds like things need spicing up
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Jun 19, 2010 4:17 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
not really bothered about saying or hearing it...
as long as i can see it in his eyes...and the things he does for me...same as i think of him all the time,when we are apart...
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Jun 19, 2010 4:17 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
mbcasey: I like to hear I love you....


Don´t most people? Being loved is the best feeling in the world, whether it´s love from friends, family or lover. I´m lucky, I get told it every day, not from a lover unfortunately. laugh

Hi Ken. wave
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Jun 19, 2010 4:17 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
MrInteresting: So, what would the fine balance/magic number be? What does too often become TOO often?


Imagine if they died, but before death it was mentioned by your partner you do not tell me you love me enough........

How many times do you think it is appropriate you tell someone you love them. Personally I do not think you can put a number on this at all. It is a matter of choice and like I said in my first post, really depends on the person themselves.

Do you think people could actually say it more often without questioning this fact of "too often, not enough".

You cannot put these words into boxed of "too this and too that". Saying I love you is not a regimental thing or a statistic.
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Jun 19, 2010 4:18 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?

Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?

If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?

Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
it has been advised not show you deep love
BUT
typical advice is for typical people
rather to have a charachterheart wings
to answer you:
i DO
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Jun 19, 2010 4:18 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
MrInteresting: Bit of a twist on the theme.

Were you with someone, and had grown used to them saying this a great deal, how soon would you notice, if they began to say it a LOT less? And, having noticed, would this shift concern you?


Do you have any answers to all these questions you ask?
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