solsticemoon: well I have someone like this at the moment..n boy I just wanna head for the hills...........its too bloody scary!
Did you see "Moonstruck"? (whap! "SNAP OUT OF IT"!) Cher was born for that scene. and you know what? sometimes ya just feel like doing it that way! good luck Luv------
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
I think my partner like to hear me say " i love u ", as if i dont like him, i will never talk even for joking, cant pretend to talk this word for manydays. will not be upset if my partner tell this words too much, but all my men always talk this words not much, enough then hearing this word i feel happy, sometime feel a little moved if feel the words true, never know it is true or false
It should not be difficult to tell a partner you love, that you love them. All of us are bound to have many loves in our lives. Actually should have, say, do more of our True Love, than to love many partners. Even of that, what you love may not be the partner.
Some things don't need to be said. It is evident in the way someone treats you, or the way they look at you. The way they smile when your eyes connect, or the way their eyes follow you around the room. It is shown by actions, not words.
Blues63: Some things don't need to be said. It is evident in the way someone treats you, or the way they look at you. The way they smile when your eyes connect, or the way their eyes follow you around the room. It is shown by actions, not words.
yes Blue actions do speak louder than words but to be fair, I'd have to say that both are equally important for a nice all round balance without being obsessive
SusanBoyle: Like anything...it should be said if - at that moment you genuinely want to tell your partner that you love them...
If its just said after everything, it becomes meaningless...
But if the moment feels right, even the most mundane event like driving to work together...If its how you genuinely feel...just say it "Hey, guess what.... I love you..."
I agree hansome
the energy becomes more natural and meaningful that way for sure
mariespoodles: yes Blue actions do speak louder than words but to be fair, I'd have to say that both are equally important for a nice all round balance without being obsessive
Oh, I agree. I did not wish to give the impression that expressing one's love isn't necessary. But it can become an 'auto-response'.
Amity: Then why say it? Are you getting into a debate with me again sir? Because if so please wear protection ....
Okay, let me put it another way. If someone, in the future, loved me enough, that they felt they wanted to say it quite a lot, I would be pretty cool with that.
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
MrInteresting: Okay, let me put it another way. If someone, in the future, loved me enough, that they felt they wanted to say it quite a lot, I would be pretty cool with that.
Better?
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I guess....though you where referring to me and not yourself.
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