Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much? ( Archived) (109)

Jun 19, 2010 5:48 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA230 Threads 10,534 Posts
solsticemoon: well I have someone like this at the moment..n boy I just wanna head for the hills...........its too bloody scary!
Did you see "Moonstruck"? (whap! "SNAP OUT OF IT"!) Cher was born for that scene. and you know what? sometimes ya just feel like doing it that way! good luck Luv------comfort
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Jun 19, 2010 7:40 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
thedove
thedovethedovePahala, Hawaii USA10 Threads 176 Posts
MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?

Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?

If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?

Would just be interested to hear the views on this?



NO wink love smitten hug kiss heart1 heart beating purple heart heart wings lips sad flower bouquet teddybear
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Jun 19, 2010 7:47 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?

Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?

If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?

Would just be interested to hear the views on this?


I think my partner like to hear me say " i love u ", as if i dont like him, i will never talk even for joking, cant pretend to talk this word for manydays.
will not be upset if my partner tell this words too much, but all my men always talk this words not much, enough then hearing this word i feel happy, sometime feel a little moved if feel the words true, never know it is true or false grin
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Jun 19, 2010 8:29 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Veritaas: You cannot put these words into boxed of "too this and too that". Saying I love you is not a regimental thing or a statistic.


I know - I concur.handshake
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Jun 19, 2010 8:30 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
strict: it has been advised not show you deep love
BUT


Has it?

By whom?

Google?

wink
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Jun 19, 2010 8:32 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
MrInteresting: So, what would the fine balance/magic number be? What does too often become TOO often?


Once a day seems resonable, More if your gettin it on of course grin rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2010 8:36 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
venusenvy: Once a day seems resonable


Like a vitamin pill..?

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Jun 19, 2010 8:40 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
It should not be difficult to tell a partner you love, that you love them. All of us are bound to have many loves in our lives. Actually should have, say, do more of our True Love, than to love many partners. Even of that, what you love may not be the partner. laugh
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Jun 19, 2010 9:04 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Um...okay!

conversing (my god, what was that about)
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Jun 19, 2010 9:09 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
MrInteresting: Um...okay!

(my god, what was that about)
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing That was a toe curler. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 19, 2010 9:10 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Abram: That was a toe curler.


I had to read it twice, to believe the last part!

wow
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Jun 19, 2010 9:13 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
Some things don't need to be said. It is evident in the way someone treats you, or the way they look at you. The way they smile when your eyes connect, or the way their eyes follow you around the room. It is shown by actions, not words. bouquet
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Jun 19, 2010 9:16 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Abram
AbramAbramGoshen, Ohio USA9 Threads 2,077 Posts
MrInteresting: I had to read it twice, to believe the last part!
It appears she is a hunter, and it seems to be she loves to hunt, and loves to eat the game she hunts. laugh thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Jun 20, 2010 4:25 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Blues63: Some things don't need to be said. It is evident in the way someone treats you, or the way they look at you. The way they smile when your eyes connect, or the way their eyes follow you around the room. It is shown by actions, not words.


yes Blue actions do speak louder than words but to be fair, I'd have to say that both are equally important for a nice all round balance without being obsessive grin

teddybear teddybear
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Jun 20, 2010 4:30 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
SusanBoyle: Like anything...it should be said if - at that moment you genuinely want to tell your partner that you love them...

If its just said after everything, it becomes meaningless...

But if the moment feels right, even the most mundane event like driving to work together...If its how you genuinely feel...just say it "Hey, guess what.... I love you..."


I agree hansome thumbs up thumbs up

the energy becomes more natural and meaningful that way for sure bouquet lips hug
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Jun 20, 2010 5:34 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Amity: After the conversation i have had with you i find it shocking you could say that


I was speaking of a hypoethetical 'man'. If a man tells you he loves you a lot, perhaps it is just simply that he...loves you a lot!

(Not your ex's specifically, of course).

doh
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Jun 20, 2010 5:37 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
MrInteresting: I was speaking of a hypoethetical 'man'. If a man tells you he loves you a lot, perhaps it is just simply that he...loves you a lot!

(Not your ex's specifically, of course).


Then why say it?
dunno Are you getting into a debate with me again sir?
Because if so please wear protection ....tongue
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Jun 20, 2010 5:38 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Blues63
Blues63Blues63Brisbane, Queensland Australia6 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
mariespoodles: yes Blue actions do speak louder than words but to be fair, I'd have to say that both are equally important for a nice all round balance without being obsessive


Oh, I agree. I did not wish to give the impression that expressing one's love isn't necessary. But it can become an 'auto-response'.bouquet
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Jun 20, 2010 11:11 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Amity: Then why say it?
Are you getting into a debate with me again sir?
Because if so please wear protection ....


Okay, let me put it another way. If someone, in the future, loved me enough, that they felt they wanted to say it quite a lot, I would be pretty cool with that.

Better?

x

hug
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Jun 20, 2010 11:16 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
MrInteresting: Okay, let me put it another way. If someone, in the future, loved me enough, that they felt they wanted to say it quite a lot, I would be pretty cool with that.

Better?

x


I guess....though you where referring to me and not yourself.

Just saying..hug tongue
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