Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much? ( Archived) (109)

Jun 20, 2010 1:50 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mjames: if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.

Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.

It's insecurity;


how do you live with no mystery in your life

speaking of insecurity i wonder if your believing that you know everything about everything and everyone's motivations ALWAYS gives you a desperately sought sense of security?

you speak in black and white and with absolute certainty in regard to what we do, what we choose etc.

its simply not possible that life is that neat and tidy.

this is one small example but they are abundant in your posts.

you are so... oh just so many things.doh

i say i love you to my husband and sometimes, somewhat often in fact he says i know- and that is a special moment for each of us i think. you do not have the entire world sussed mjames you are just a human muddling along just like the rest of us.

you may have some strengths and talents and skills but hey, so de the rest of us. roll eyes
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Jun 20, 2010 1:52 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Amity: I actually dislike it..i feel uncomfortable when you see couples with their tongues down each others throats..its like "get a room"

But...i think thats rather prudish of me!


I'm sort of with you.

I think it is lovely to see people hold hands, give a warm embrace, if they are meeting at a train station or airport, and, yes, even a kiss can be okay...but, you know, there is a line..
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Jun 20, 2010 1:52 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
At some stage tell/told....there is no time restrictios on it....conversing
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Jun 20, 2010 1:53 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts


Thats what I had in mind...laugh

and Brazil just scored....
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Jun 20, 2010 1:56 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
Costapacket: Thats what I had in mind...

and Brazil just scored....
Rolled with Laughter watching that Scene in the Movie!rolling on the floor laughing

Heard someone blowing the Horn outside!laugh
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Jun 20, 2010 1:58 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
Yes I would be hurt if they told me it was to much and it would be only because they did not maybe feel the same and feel bad hearing it from you all the time
they dont have it like that for you

no you cant say it enough when you both feel the same in your heart for each other smitten
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Jun 20, 2010 2:04 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
mjames: if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.

Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.

It's insecurity;
If I heard him say thanks I would give a funny look but we both say it everyday to each other does that mean we are both insecure maybe it is what we both need right now I know I do heck been through hell and I just need to hear those 3 little words what is so wrong with that??dunno
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Jun 20, 2010 2:58 PM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
lovely4u7da: If I heard him say thanks I would give a funny look but we both say it everyday to each other does that mean we are both insecure maybe it is what we both need right now I know I do heck been through hell and I just need to hear those 3 little words what is so wrong with that??
nothing is wrong with thatthumbs up
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Jun 22, 2010 11:25 AM CST Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much?
lovely4u7da
lovely4u7dalovely4u7dachicago, Illinois USA32 Threads 1,337 Posts
mindfful: nothing is wrong with that
I did not think so cheering cheering cheering yay yay yay

love you wave
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