mjames: if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.
Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.
It's insecurity;
how do you live with no mystery in your life
speaking of insecurity i wonder if your believing that you know everything about everything and everyone's motivations ALWAYS gives you a desperately sought sense of security?
you speak in black and white and with absolute certainty in regard to what we do, what we choose etc.
its simply not possible that life is that neat and tidy.
this is one small example but they are abundant in your posts.
you are so... oh just so many things.
i say i love you to my husband and sometimes, somewhat often in fact he says i know- and that is a special moment for each of us i think. you do not have the entire world sussed mjames you are just a human muddling along just like the rest of us.
you may have some strengths and talents and skills but hey, so de the rest of us.
Amity: I actually dislike it..i feel uncomfortable when you see couples with their tongues down each others throats..its like "get a room"
But...i think thats rather prudish of me!
I'm sort of with you.
I think it is lovely to see people hold hands, give a warm embrace, if they are meeting at a train station or airport, and, yes, even a kiss can be okay...but, you know, there is a line..
Yes I would be hurt if they told me it was to much and it would be only because they did not maybe feel the same and feel bad hearing it from you all the time they dont have it like that for you
no you cant say it enough when you both feel the same in your heart for each other
mjames: if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.
Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.
It's insecurity;
If I heard him say thanks I would give a funny look but we both say it everyday to each other does that mean we are both insecure maybe it is what we both need right now I know I do heck been through hell and I just need to hear those 3 little words what is so wrong with that??
lovely4u7da: If I heard him say thanks I would give a funny look but we both say it everyday to each other does that mean we are both insecure maybe it is what we both need right now I know I do heck been through hell and I just need to hear those 3 little words what is so wrong with that??
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Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.
It's insecurity;
how do you live with no mystery in your life
speaking of insecurity i wonder if your believing that you know everything about everything and everyone's motivations ALWAYS gives you a desperately sought sense of security?
you speak in black and white and with absolute certainty in regard to what we do, what we choose etc.
its simply not possible that life is that neat and tidy.
this is one small example but they are abundant in your posts.
you are so... oh just so many things.
i say i love you to my husband and sometimes, somewhat often in fact he says i know- and that is a special moment for each of us i think. you do not have the entire world sussed mjames you are just a human muddling along just like the rest of us.
you may have some strengths and talents and skills but hey, so de the rest of us.