Can you ever be told/tell someone you love them too much? (109)
Amity: I guess....though you where referring to me and not yourself.
Just saying..
Just saying..
Of course I didn't mean you!
Are you going to be a handful for me, later?
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MrInteresting: I hope you see a spider.
With eyes the size of plates.
With eyes the size of plates.
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Amity: asshat
Asshat?
Can I borrow that one?
Never mind, I am borrowing it.
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Shepherd02: I disagree. I am a very secure man. Very confident. IF my partner is in love with me, I like to hear it as much as possible. Insecurity comes from, having relationships where you later found out that your partner did not really love you like she/he said they did.
I know for myself if I am in love, I will tell her when I wake up. I will call her once through out the day and let her know i am thinking about her. WHen I get home from work I will give her a hug and a kiss and let her know how much I missed her and love her.
It has been my experience women do not like a nice guy. They do not like a guy who is sweet and treat them right. Most women would rather have a guy that treats them like trash. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!!!!! Hey I think this may be a good forum topic.
I know for myself if I am in love, I will tell her when I wake up. I will call her once through out the day and let her know i am thinking about her. WHen I get home from work I will give her a hug and a kiss and let her know how much I missed her and love her.
It has been my experience women do not like a nice guy. They do not like a guy who is sweet and treat them right. Most women would rather have a guy that treats them like trash. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!!!!! Hey I think this may be a good forum topic.
Sir, you are definitely on the right track with your positive attitude on finding love from the right girl. When you find a gal who is healthy secure emotionally, you can better believe that she won't put up with a guy treating her like trash. Nice guys may finish last because they are the ones to find the nice girls who also finish last and I believe they both in turn have healthy longer lasting loving relationships with each other.
However, in some unhealthy relationships, people are fooled with the physical appearance of a person much of the time and don't spot very quickly the serious mental flaws that destroy relationships. It is true that people are attracted to a person's physical appearance and can be blindsided by that.
On a positive note, observe and talk to loving older couples who have been married for many years, still hold hands and have that twinkle in their eyes for each other. They will tell you it is not about treating each other trashy throughout life but about true love that they shared throughout life.
Being a geriatric nurse in nursing homes, I very often get a chance to speak with couples and ask them what is their secret to building and maintaining a lifelong loving relationship with each other.
Some common answers were: Telling each other everyday that we love each other, never going to sleep mad at each other, kissing everyday, talking through our spats and resolving the problem, letting the other person have their way in a spat as it is not critical to win every argument--sometimes letting the other person have their way and try out what they argued so hard for is OK.
Yesterday, I was sitting in my vehicle in the grocery store parking lot and had the opportunity to watch a couple in their 80s stroll hand in hand and smiling, up to the outside flower displays and pick out flowers together. They were so sweet and gentle to each other you would be amazed. That is how we should be to our partner.
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LILLYLADY: Some common answers were: Telling each other everyday that we love each other, never going to sleep mad at each other, kissing everyday, talking through our spats and resolving the problem
Excellent guidelines for anyone to live their life by, imo.
I definitely aspire to be all of those things, esp the not going to bed on an arguement thing.
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MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.
Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.
It's insecurity;
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LILLYLADY: Good one Costa!! Is there really such a thing as TOO MUCH SCREAMING IN BED? THE MORE SCREAMING...THE MORE REASSURANCE YOUR PARTNER IS DOING IT RIGHT!!!!!
I guess ill go along with that...
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MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
if someone is constantly saying it they are insecure; they are constantly needing the other person to say it over and over too.
Try this; if they say I love you and you dont' say it back and just say thanks, I guarantee they will flip out.
It's insecurity;
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MrInteresting: Within a relationship, can you ever really tell your partner, that you love them, a little too much?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
Or, the other way around, if they are telling you several times per day, can that become an irritant, for you?
If your partner said that you were telling them too much, would you feel offended by this, very much?
Would just be interested to hear the views on this?
Its not what I say ore what she says ....its what we do ,whats important , in my opinion
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Boban1: Its not what I say ore what she says ....its what we do ,whats important , in my opinion
Of course - actions are a given, fella.
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Boban1: Its not what I say ore what she says ....its what we do ,whats important , in my opinion
Hi Boban, Very true, actions are important, but hearing those 3 words whispered in my ear just melt my heart. I also give them right back or say then before he does, because just looking at him makes me want to tell him he rocks my world and I love him to pieces.
Been way too long to hear those words or say them
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sassy49senior: Hi Boban, Very true, actions are important, but hearing those 3 words whispered in my ear just melt my heart. I also give them right back or say then before he does, because just looking at him makes me want to tell him he rocks my world and I love him to pieces.
Been way too long to hear those words or say them
Been way too long to hear those words or say them
yep... I believe that s true
but for me, saying those words ,ore hearing them (in public ore in front of some one )is just inappropriate ( not acceptable)
what we do are say in private (showing affection to each other) is a completely different thing
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Boban1: yep... I believe that s true but for me, saying those words ,ore hearing them (in public ore in front of some one )is just inappropriate ( not acceptable)
what we do are say in private (showing affection to each other) is a completely different thing
what we do are say in private (showing affection to each other) is a completely different thing
Oh I don´t know boban, it´s nice when someone isn´t afraid to show their love in public. I don´t mean here by the way...
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Costapacket: Look what happened last night, I said you was pretty for the 2nd time and you *farted in my face* and walked off...
So the lesson here is once is enough (for Amity)...
So the lesson here is once is enough (for Amity)...
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The eyes and the vibes
JAN_is: Ah yes, the eyes say much more than words alone.
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JAN_is: Oh I don´t know boban, it´s nice when someone isn´t afraid to show their love in public. I don´t mean here by the way...
I don`t mind others , to see ,showing their feelings on the streets .... but its just not for me
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Boban1: I don`t mind others , to see ,showing their feelings on the streets .... but its just not for me
I actually dislike it..i feel uncomfortable when you see couples with their tongues down each others throats..its like "get a room"
But...i think thats rather prudish of me!
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Apart from the written notes, you were receiving vibes coming from him towards you,me thinks.-
demonfairy: I like to hear i love you,if they mean it...it shows in the things we do for each other every day.My deceased husband used to leave me little notes saying i love you,like on my pillow,on the mirrow and i never got tired of it.
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Costapacket: I guess ill go along with that...
Remember "PORKY's"?
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guess its the same as too much screaming in bed is just about reassuring each other your having a good time.....
Good one Costa!! Is there really such a thing as TOO MUCH SCREAMING IN BED? THE MORE SCREAMING...THE MORE REASSURANCE YOUR PARTNER IS DOING IT RIGHT!!!!!