Why do the nice guys finish last? ( Archived) (109)

Jun 19, 2010 4:25 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
Shepherd02
Shepherd02Shepherd02Albion, Maine USA1 Threads 5 Posts
IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????
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Jun 19, 2010 4:28 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
deadbutwhy
deadbutwhydeadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia9 Threads 2 Polls 1,295 Posts
Shepherd02: IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????
She was trying to be nice to youcomfort
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Jun 19, 2010 4:31 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Even though you had some bad experiences with women, never give up who you are. Being a nice guy is what a woman really wants deep down inside.handshake

Best of luck to you.cheers
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Jun 19, 2010 4:34 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
The nice guys don´t "finish last" as you say. Most of them are taken, and I don´t think the majority of women really mean it if they say a man is too nice and sweet. Perhaps that was her get out clause?
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Jun 19, 2010 6:02 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Shepherd02: IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
........ Why is the nice guys finish last???????


Nice guys who are sweet and kind are ALWAYS first!!!
wine
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Jun 19, 2010 6:09 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
deadbutwhy: She was trying to be nice to you


I know what you mean it is something that has always baffled me.

cheers
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Jun 19, 2010 6:09 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
bittersweet28467
bittersweet28467bittersweet28467Calabash, North Carolina USA18 Threads 2 Polls 467 Posts
Maybe you're picking the wrong girls...
My experience with guy friends has been that the nice guys pick girls who look good but treat people like crap or are unavailable in some other way...
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Jun 19, 2010 6:10 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
Shepherd02: IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????


I meant to answer to this thread.
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Jun 19, 2010 6:13 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Nice guys don't finish last in a meaningful relationship,most woman only want bad boys to play with,not to take them home to mom.wine Keep being nice you will find the right lady some day. hug bouquet
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Jun 19, 2010 6:17 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
demonfairy: Nice guys don't finish last in a meaningful relationship,most woman only want bad boys to play with,not to take them home to mom. Keep being nice you will find the right lady some day.
Nice guys always finish lastwink grin cheers
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Jun 19, 2010 6:19 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
Shepherd02: IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????


Probably the question should be why is it that all these 'nice' guys never seem to pick 'nice' ladies.wine
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Jun 19, 2010 6:19 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
jeffc320
jeffc320jeffc320burnley, Lancashire, England UK11 Threads 461 Posts
demonfairy: Nice guys don't finish last in a meaningful relationship,most woman only want bad boys to play with,not to take them home to mom. Keep being nice you will find the right lady some day.


I bloody hope so. i'm bursting with love fora special lady heart beating heart beating heart beating heart beating heart beating heart beating
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Jun 19, 2010 6:25 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
jeffc320: I bloody hope so. i'm bursting with love fora special lady




awwwwww Good luck to you.wave hope you have let her know..
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Jun 19, 2010 6:27 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
Faithfulness
FaithfulnessFaithfulnessWaukesha, Wisconsin USA2 Threads 1,056 Posts
Shepherd02: IT has been my experience that women do not like a guy who is sweet and kind. A guy that treats them right. Most women I have dated have been drawn to the guys who treat them like trash and beat them all the time.
I one time had a woman break up with me because she said I was too nice and sweet. I am a guy who can not be the a.. hole type. I believe in respect. I believe that a woman is meant to be cherished and always loved. Never to be left feeling lonely, and not cared about. What are your thoughts? Why is the nice guys finish last???????


Maybe the question can asked, "Why do the nice ladies not get the nice guy?"
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Jun 19, 2010 6:27 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
jeffc320
jeffc320jeffc320burnley, Lancashire, England UK11 Threads 461 Posts
Merriweather: awwwwww Good luck to you. hope you have let her know..



When i find her or she finds me i'll let ya know x
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Jun 19, 2010 6:30 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
It boggles the mind that we've had tons of posts from nice guys who complain they can't find women who want them - yet, YET there seems to be no shortage of quite lovely ladies right here. Is there a blockage in the pipeline?dunno
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Jun 19, 2010 6:32 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
oldfoxyguy
oldfoxyguyoldfoxyguyLarnaca, Cyprus12 Threads 5 Polls 513 Posts
Laura25: If that's what she said,

she lied to you, OP.

No such a thing as too good of a man.

Nice guy... maybe...



Laura, I want to hand it to you, You have put this "nice guy" situation in it's proper light. I have never heard a better, more insightful perspective on the condition. For many years in my youth, I felt I was rejected for being "too nice". Yes, there are girls who are captivated by the "bad Boys". Those fellows have charisma and can appear like an exciting challenge for a girl and they often believe they can change the bad trait. Unfortunately that "bad Boy" may also turn out to be a really Bad Boy who treats her horrible and perhaps is physically and mentally abusive. It may be years before she can escape from his clutches and the scars can last a lifetime.

Remember guys, the young girls are experimenting with their choices just as you are and we all screw up from time to time.
If you are a "nice guy" you will find the girl who wants a "nice guy" and you will be her perfect choice. heart wings
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Jun 19, 2010 6:35 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
oldfoxyguy: Laura, I want to hand it to you, You have put this "nice guy" situation in it's proper light. I have never heard a better, more insightful perspective on the condition. For many years in my youth, I felt I was rejected for being "too nice". Yes, there are girls who are captivated by the "bad Boys". Those fellows have charisma and can appear like an exciting challenge for a girl and they often believe they can change the bad trait. Unfortunately that "bad Boy" may also turn out to be a really Bad Boy who treats her horrible and perhaps is physically and mentally abusive. It may be years before she can escape from his clutches and the scars can last a lifetime.

Remember guys, the young girls are experimenting with their choices just as you are and we all screw up from time to time.
If you are a "nice guy" you will find the girl who wants a "nice guy" and you will be her perfect choice.
Well said mate...thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up grin cheers
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Jun 19, 2010 6:37 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
patmac: Nice guys always finish last
Nice guys end up with the lady in the end!wave hug
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Jun 19, 2010 6:39 PM CST Why do the nice guys finish last?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
demonfairy: Nice guys end up with the lady in the end!
doh i just figured out what you meant pat...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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