I moved to FL with someone from CS...yup yup...and we are great friends. He is one of the most wonderful, awesome, sweetest men I have ever had the honor of knowing. I am happy with my life here and I love the sun and pool and surroundings. We live together but are not hooked up and are free to date whoever we want to.
I hope this clears it up for you, I was as simple in my explaination as possible...
im not scared..i just want my ONE dammit!!! or hell TWO so the twin Alex brought out in me has a mate too! the voices are on their own though...
i just want to find someone perfect for me...not perfect, but perfect for me...and live happily ever after IS THAT TO MUCH TO FRIGGIN ASK FOR????????????????
oooooooooooooooh theres that evil twin showing herself again!!!
I do believe there are men out there that can treat us as equals...BUT...what exactly do we consider equal? my man may be better at one thing than i am...or me than him...would we feel that if he takes over the yard work that we are being treated as unequal? do we want him doing the laundry and making the whites pink? (yes i know men can do laundry, this is an example people dont flip ur lids) or are you basically talking about money and decision making? seems to me thats usually where marriage problems come from.
if anyone can put up with me...italian temper and all...then i KNOW theres someone out there perfect for you....hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....time to play matchmaker....whooohooooo....i have a new goal!!!
no matter what that woman said...i know you to be of a kind heart with much love and appreciation of your child and family and friends. we dont have to have ever been married to know and understand what it is we desire in our hearts for love to be.
I believe with a good marriage, a loving one with respect and honesty...the bumps and mountains we face each day...the changes we go through as the years pass...enhance and bless us. A couple should embrace these changes. grow with them. appreciate them, just as each accepted when first married. marriage IS an effort sometimes, if it was easy, we wouldnt oh and aw over that 50 year mark. sad that these days we cheer someone for a mere 10 years...
Oh poppycock! support this man in his decision and tell him you are proud of him. love is making things work, even if it SEEMS impossible...NOTHING is impossible!
honest, loyal, respectful, a good communicator, brings a flower home for no reason other than thinking of me, patience even when he wants to yell, loving arms, a shoulder to cry on when im sad, a wink across a crowded room, a pat on the butt while cooking, holds my hand, a good parent...and about 500 other things
and this real man would expect no less than the same from me
i would take care of my kids and family...buy myself a little home with that damn white picket fence...and invest some so i could retire and not have to work 70+ hours a week anymore.
why assume when someone says beach it means an ocean beach? i often spent time walking the beaches at the lake. spent my childhood there and as a teen i learned to appreciate the serenity i found
now that sounds perfect really...my second husband and i wrote our own "vows" and if he hadnt been a drunk, it would have been all true it did mean more and was more personal and emotional at the wedding...no matter how things turned out, it was one of the best days of my life.
i fully believe in marriage and the marriage vows. i would love to be married again...but to the right man this time that believes in those vows as well.
RE: I am a diabetic
Um HELL NO!!...lots here are hooked up...but their profiles reflect that...as for the thread...many in my family are diabetic and control it with diet instead of the drugs...