My mom is quite active online and spends a lot of time in a certain game site. She doesnt chat much with anyone, just plays her game. She does watch the chat and reads what people in her regular playing rooms say though. There was a woman a few years back that was disabled and her son abused her. He finally moved out of this womans house but took her computer with him. She was heartbroken because playing with her friends on this site meant the world to her. So my quiet little non talking mom asked a few questions, got this womans address and sent her a brand new computer. I don't believe she was ever told who sent it to her, and my mom didn't want her to. She just wanted this person to have her computer. I only knew about it because mom asked me to help pick it out, making sure this stranger got the best.
My grandmother was the most beautiful person I will ever know in my lifetime. This woman helped people out in the smallest and biggest ways. Not only did she help out my mom with little things such as babysitting for .25, but I saw this woman pluck name after name off those Christmas trees with the tags hanging from them. Kids who might go without if someone didn't take a tag and shop for them. I don't mean a couple...I mean hundreds each year. I helped her wrap them and deliver them. She would hear of someone who was sick or just down on their luck and "happen to be in the neighborhood" with bags of groceries, clothes, games and toys for kids...whatever the need may have been. If it had not been for her I would not have seen Disneyland, Expo 86 in Canada, been to Alaska, or even on any sort of childhood vacation. Did she hand those things to us? (my brother and I) no, She made us save aluminum cans for a year to teach us appreciation of each trip. What joy I felt when we had enough to buy our plane ticket...of course then I didn't know what it actually cost and thought we had done it all on our own LOL She was so sneaky! She was there for me when I had my babies and made sure they never went without. When she "retired" she started working at a local Wal Mart, JUST to pay for her do goodin. When she passed away....I will never forget watching 10 Wal Mart vans pull up with food. No, not something done for every employeee. She was a special lady and everyone loved her that met her. The house was filled with hundreds of people the family had never met, they brought cooked dishes for my gramps or stopped by to tell us how much they appreciated everything she did for them. It warmed my heart to see how many lives she touched with her small acts of kindness. She was dubbed "The Christmas Angel" in the local paper.
Why wrong? A biggie to me is exactly what Lilly said...more cattle treatment of women. Why do we allow things like this to happen? Do women need this attention to be accepted or seen in todays society? I think all of those women lined up to be milked like a cow so someone can get their rocks off by sampling, need to seriously THINK AGAIN!! Nothing but another example of whorism...selling body for financial gain.
And we wonder why we can't gain respect in the eyes of man
I used to vote. I stopped voting. It seemed to me as if it didn't really matter who was voted in, it was never my choice and probably wasn't the peoples first choice either. Money is what votes the politicians in, not the votes. BUT as someone recently pointed out to me, if I don't vote, I lose the right to complain about it. Even if I don't like who ends up in office, I didn't make the EFFORT to try to change that or voice my opinion. Sad really on my part since that is one of the rights given me as an American.
Or maybe it was a long ride? because now you still have the battle and an even harder one ahead of you. Once you have lost it is 100 times harder to make your point and be heard. You have been dismissed once and now you REALLY have your homework cut out for you!
Communication is key, just as the other two stated. There will come a point where you both need to talk and decide to say.."hey, lets be exclusive and see where this goes" i do believe that online or off that final choice does need to be made clear...probably even more so online because of lack of that actual physical together time that comes along with the distance most of us face with the people we meet here. Maybe im just old fashioned in a lot of ways. I kinda want that special man to say it out loud that he wants me and only me and asks me to be his sweetheart LOL
ummmm cran? google mine it brings up a beachgirl CS profile LOL it shows that because it shows an old thread of mine at the top of her page....dont think that would be much help to anyone!
for women it only shows men that viewed and for men, only the women....thank goodness LOL i admit i look at profiles of women just because a pic strikes me as odd or funny or fake lol...and i have learned to not check out the male profiles unless im truly curious or attracted or already a friend from when i had that feature turned off....sure cuts down on the weirdo mail ROFL
that was part of a point i was trying to make...badly from what i can tell as i read back on my own words.
there are just so many ways and i dont get hung up on one or the other. i just want to relax and observe and enjoy. the setting not being that "perfect, gotta impress" setting just shows more to me on a more natural field than the predesigned date.
i do the same cat...it is nice and it is appreciated and i do use my manners and say thank you...
i just...
well...no offense here to anyone
but would rather have a man that makes me laugh and smile and feel good and likes being with me...manners and respect for others...YES but...i wouldnt worry about him forgetting to open a door, seems trivial in the whole scheme of things...and honestly, i have never met a man that doesnt open doors without thinking about it, just seems natural to do so from my observations
RE: AUCTION SALE...at connecting singles...lets have your bids people...
a million hugs is my bid ya sweet lady!