i someone doesnt appreciate or like that about me? then pppppppppppffffffffttttttttttt they probably arent my friend or family or lover anyhow. this type of person is who id normally welcome and get close to. who wants to hang with a drag?
I tell people I love them when i feel it. some people i knew passed away without ever knowing how i felt about them...i swore long ago that would never happen again. i am a sap and a romantic on top of that, so i often tell these people that i love them, rather than just every now and again.
im almost done with my shopping. just a few more things for the kids and some stocking stuffers and ill be done...most is wrapped but i ran out of paper and have to wait till its out in the stores here.
im not in the spirit this year and just want it all done and over with
I have actually watched a few of these...Amazing race...i watched because i thought some of the things they made them do was funny as all get out (like watching a big tough guy trying to drive a bus through a traffic cone maze without hitting a cone)
a watched Rock Star because I love music
I watched Survivor a few times, but i really didnt care for it.
my mom and dad are addicted to big Brother, i cant figure out why.
I had not watched tv for MANY years and this was the type of show that was on when i decided i had time to watch the tele again
now its pretty much background noise...and its usually on court tv... id rather be online or doing something else
if i feel someone is hiding things or isnt comfortable with me enough to talk openly and on a deeper level(or myself not feeling that comfort level with him)...im outta there
through lessons learned...life lived. and decided what qualities i wanted and wouldnt settle for less of. no, i didnt always have ALL the same qualities listed in the beginning...its through personal growth and knowing where i want my life to be and how i want that same life to be lived from here on out, that made me strong in my final choice.
and i expect him to expect the same high standards of me. i dont believe its a one way street and we can expect the other to be all these things, and not be the same in return.
i did take it to email....and i can say im not ashamed one bit. i meant what i said and i didnt do the slither as others seem to enjoying doing.
ya got a problem? write me LOL ill answer anything and tell it like it is
there is a place and time for such things and i agree, that thread wasnt one of them. as so many others werent either. theres enough hating threads to go post the ick in.
as much as i know i shouldnt have responded to what was said in there, i also wont hide or lie about my end of things or what i did say or do...
thanks for your support Cris...not just to me but the others around here too
i have met a lot of people on here that live with parents for various reasons. it really shocked me how many. people of all ages, even men and women in their 40s. i think a lot of the time when we divorce, we arent quite sure where else to go or what to do. we have lost what we think of as our family dynamic...so either for the simplicity of it, the break in being alone, or for financial reasons, we end up right back where we started.
i love the weather here in florida and i swore id not go back to the cold winters...BUT love wins, hands down..id rather be cold for a few months and live with warmth in my heart and life.
there are people who live in that way and believe in those things. if that is the type of person you are...then dont give up. just keep being you and eventually the stabs and hurts will end and into your life one day, someone will come along that has the same morals and you will live happily ever after!
so you believe that if we all judged with the exact same standards, the world would be right? whether it be a judgement of self or a judgement of another person?
Rob....sometimes we need to pay attention to the things not said...
silence doesnt mean we dont care, just that we are comfortable enough with you not to feel the need to jump in...we read what you say, i know i do...even if i dont chime in with something
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the feeling i got when leaving there still brings a sadness to me. to know where home is and take part in all we did...
RE: the loser
oops sorry lori...im not single anymore...want me to leave?