The poster... I have been dating for a while. Most of the single women out there have children. And They say they have a problem finding a man that can love their kids too. I am a single father that has a problem with those same women felling like they can't get enough attention just for them and their kids cuz I am alwys here for mine. I am a damn good father and can get more then 2 min's of time to talk and other. So the shallowness of the female reply on here just rubbed me wrong..
Yup not all men will take the time to read about how selfish and selfcentered you are. Some times all it takes is an ok pic to get them to click. like with you...
I have been driving about 100 miles every weekend to spend time with a woman. Then I drive 100 miles home. Love sick the whole way. This week end I am moving there so we can spend all the time we want together.
being open and honest not being judgemental always remembering that she is mine to loose always remembering to think about how I would feel if the situation was reversed befor I do somthing. Having dinner ready for her when she works late. Never Never argueing in the bed room. Remembering that If I am not perfict why should I think she should be.
I have found that many women have children, and that is not a problem. Yet being a single father does not work the same.. I found that "most" women want me to except that they have kids, but have a problem with the fact that I have them too. My biggest problem is the way women treat and talk to there children. I want nothing to do with a woman that can not talk to there kids like the blessing they are. If you can talk to your kids that way, you will talk to me even worst....
3 times for me, hell I even married the second one again. What i learned is people are people. And everything changes, even if I don't... And the biggest thing.... when they leave they take the kids you fall in love with with them, and that hurts most of all..
Anger fills my empty soul, and cooks me from with in. I feel myself letting go, my skin is way to thin. How could I get in to deep, in such a shallow pond? Now I'm fighting for a breath, with no want to carry on. The silence seems to scream at me, and never seems to end. The blackness has over taken me, evil is now my friend.
The sun has set on another long day. So many things done and out of the way. I lay my head down after a prayer. When I wake your still not there. The thoughts of not knowing just what to do. When all I want is to make things better for you. On your journey I just need you to know, My love will be with you, where ever you go.
I don't figure on getting much just chatting. I look for those answers on the phone. The way they answer a question. Do they have to think of the answer. " lieing". If they have kids, do they yell at them or talk to them. Can they have a conversation with out talking about there ex's. I was talking to one girl and her kids set something on fire. She never put the phone down, yelling and screaming the whole time. And the way she talked to them, was sickining...
Man between the two of you two beauties, I don't know if I could keep my answers straight, even if I was being honest. The whole EGO thing would kick into high gear. The need to make the answer seem more and more interesting for you, would take over. But then your right, there are alot of freaks out here too.. lol
In her eyes I have seen such pain. And in my arms she will never feel it again. In her eyes I have found a place. And in my heart I have made her space. Never to have thoughts of perfection. Never to feel lost or with out direction.
Yes you can keep the t.v. and couch For all that matters you can keep the house. No I don't the ring back, it was bought for you. Remember when we got it, and love seemed to be so true? Well yes this really hurts me, but just what am I sapposed to say? You said you would love, honor and charish me untill our dieing day. So give me a few and we'll be gone.. Just need some cloths for the kids. Don't worry it wont take long. I hope he will be good to you, and I don't say that to offend. Why would I do that, your my wife and he's my best friend. Why are you yelling, I said I would go. And theres not much more I really need to know. You say I'll never find another woman like you? You say it like that a bad thing. And I really hope it's true.. Well this is goodbye, and don't worry I won't call. I've got my girls qand thats what matters most of all..
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RE: What's up with this????
The poster...I have been dating for a while. Most of the single women out there have children. And They say they have a problem finding a man that can love their kids too.
I am a single father that has a problem with those same women felling like they can't get enough attention just
for them and their kids cuz I am alwys here for mine.
I am a damn good father and can get more then 2 min's
of time to talk and other.
So the shallowness of the female reply on here just
rubbed me wrong..