I was being sarcastic venere .And no u havent put me of I'm rather thick skinned when I'm online .You should see me stir things up on football forums . As I wrote above I'm suddenly getting attention from ladies .That like a man who doesnt drink .I did however mention I wasn't religious someone once had the idea I was due to not drinking And you were correct by the way I dont always think with the head on my shoulders
Well verne I'm a bloke .A pretty woman like yourself says lets meet I get stars in my eyes etc etc .Turn into a teenage boy with a my tongue hanging out cant be a pretty sight lmao
Thank you serene 56 I think in my case we were living separate lives for perhaps a year or longer.Just I had blinkers on and didnt see what was wrong. I keep telling people wish she left me earlier .
Blondeozchik Personally I dont have a problem with ladies having kids ,access etc.That part of finding or starting a new relationship I can accept.That alone surprises my female co workers!!! quote blondeozchick you say you are NOT SURE if they want to date and may take their ex's back... then you make an assertion about them dating and wanting their ex's back quote Well I'm batting 2 for 2 on this one .One told me via txt(and Facebook) and one told me on the phone.First one well I think she was telling porky pies from the start.Two different stories about length of separation plus we are apart. But live in the same rented house neither of us will move out (that alone I should have walked away) .I honestly can not or should not need to deal with a lady crying upset etc on a mobile phone for 10 minutes . Because shes torn between being with the old man and a new man .The second lady I understand a wee bit better but think she needs a friend as a friend .Then when she is totally over her ex to step in I think.(this ones harder english is a second language) Now back to me Blondie .I still maintain my problems with my ex are 2 things 1 being money .The other being she lied to me and i woke up from my sleep of 20 odd yrs to late to see.And I now can see she is still lying to me and taking my grown up kids money .I've told them to take care of their money but its their mum they trust and need her more than me.And I'm the one who does almost everything for them .yes I understand how some mums feel when dad leaves lmao. Just for the record Blondie .I have never felt happier since pre my marriage days .I walk around work singing humming smiling.I am much friendlier than I have ever been .I have my life back .and I love smiling at pretty women in shopping centres and sometimes getting a hello back . Now Blondie if u were in Adelaide I'd invite u out for coffee for a real chat .Thats something I can do now go out for coffee!!!
That would be me .But when my ex left I felt sad for about 2 weeks then thought no way .and have been a changed man ever since . So happy again its funny .
How do u think I feel a hot woman sitting across from me going on about how her ex ran off to a much younger (and she was much younger than her partner) woman . And he wants her back !!!! Or we are separated but we live in the same rented house he wont move so y should I !!!
yeah why bother to start dating when your still hung up. Or am I different from everyone else. Mine left no feelings left for her and moved on .Well ok I lie nothing a 303 couldn't fix only joking girls.
But before I get into it.I will put my hand up I still have issues with my EX.But my issues are all about $$$$. So nothing is really holding me back.I am happy enjoying life and meeting people well ladies. Why I have started this topic is kind of out of a little frustration.I have dated a couple of nice ladies from here .But both have kept saying they have issues with their exes .And not certain if they want to date anyone and may take their ex back!! So why are women out there dating but in truth wish to return to their husbands .And from what I have heard these exes are not really nice men.Plus these ladies have been apart for much longer than me!! Why bother to go out and date .And tell me how nice i am etc etc.When really u girls want to be back with your husbands /partners etc that treat you all like dirt !!!
There that feels better .So any one else find this!!
You know I may have felt the same way after 23(i think or 22 and a bit ) yrs of marriage . My wife left me "offically" on June the 1st this year .She was gone way before that she just never bothered to tell me.
Any way best thing to do is to move on .Thats what I've found .I feel happier in myself .Hey meet people make friends be better friends at work.God the people I work with can not get over the change in me since she left.Of course we still have things to work out .And come Jul 1 I'll be filing for the divorce .
But I am happy and better off . After the last few months I wished she had left me years ago(from a happiness point of view).
Ok this is why women topic
Sorry people there are more than dating forums out there that useLMAO,PSML,IMHO
Go forth and visit football forums fishing forums etc etc etc