jimbob47 Forum Posts (380)

Is it just me .

well im not in victoria.And really my ex stuffed it up for all you BULL girls

Is it just me .

I note a wee bit of sarcasm there

Is it just me .

I am trying shell :) think I've had my fill of Taurus ladies

So anyone out there

Is it just me .

Yep and thats how players prey on us

Is it just me .

Actually mate its her not me having problems .the last 2 I would have done whatever to either accept their lives or change mine .
Im an easy going guy accept anyone or their kids (she had enough for a basketball team ).
Just perhaps I'm not anyones type right now .
And yes i have 2 adult kids living with me so I'm a single dad as well.

Is it just me .

Id love to try one but any I have messaged on other sites say sorry not my type which is cool

Is it just me .

I didnt actaully think I was getting involved perhaps she was controlling me a wee bit to much .
Not what I really was after .
So it was just a get rid of line but keep me around by chatting good to know .

Is it just me .

oops something happened to my reply half got deleted

Chemistry wasnt there for sure. and I dont wish to be controlled like come online call me now etc

Is it just me .

Yeah I will ignore I thought it strange I was blamed for her phone bill .She is on a better plan than me and mine was still only $29 while hers had gone out to $280 .

Someone who sets the bells and whistles going yes I am looking in a different direction now .I think and dont shot me down here Taurus ladies arent for me .22yrs of marriage and dated a couple really not want this Capricorn is after no matter what they say about starsigns lmao

Is it just me .

Is it just me .I stopped dating or looking to date while we moved .A nice lady I met online was busy calling me txting message me online .Everyday and phone calls twice a week.
So i thought she must be interested .I met her last weekend for a quick drink ( was supposed to be coffee but we had a soft drink it was a hot day) .I went round to her place last night .She said she didnt mind the distance between our houses(although she told a guy abit past my house no) .And for some reason her mobile bill was huge and I politely got told it was my fault to many txts .
Thought we were getting along she was non stop talking.Anyway at 9 I thought I'll head off home been here for 3 hours .and she wanted to take it one day at a time no problem for me.

But today I get a txt sorry I'm to busy to date .thought it best to tell u now etc etc .
Lucky we didnt get to far along Im grateful for that .So have others met these people on dating sites. That are way to busy but keep calling and txting and emailing and are on online dating sites .I just had 2 more txts while I posted this topic !!!

I'm back

Thanks everyone

I feel fantastic and happy Ive moved .Now my life can begin again

I'm back

hey Ralf nice to meet

I'm back

I'm Back online yippeeeee!!!! Two weeks ago I think the ex and kids said we had to move .
So i let my fingers find this lovely town house online .We were accepted and here we are .
But its strange I arranged for Foxtel to be moved and a new phone through a new company .Foxtel was connected not on the due day due to heavy rain all day.But they came back monday and all installed .
The phone ordered the same day as fox was 4 days latter being installed.And by that I mean a guy turned a switch on an an exchange .And the net same thing took hours and hours after being activated and 2 more calls to get it working.

Now looking back on that friday a fortnight or so ago .How did we live so long or rather put up with that house .Yes we were buying it .And of course working poor it needed so much $$$. I could never fix it up or pay someone to do it. And yes my ex and myself are both to blame for the house neither of us can be blamless(to much to go into but lets say my ex had friends/family give her stuff all the time and she could not throw anything out) .

So thats it my life has taken a big step forward .Just need to sell the old house and thats it .And just found out the old place which we are selling as land was just a fraction short of an acre .So fingers crossed a developer will buy it and build on it .


So I'm sitting at my PC (which I saved as my ex was taking it and was miffed that I wanted my PC funny that ) in my nice townhouse in my tree lined street in a nice part of Adelaide .

Cheers
jimbob

Well I'm not sure but I wanna ask HELP!!!

Well yes well all sat down here today .And I was told we have to rent .Now I don't want to rent but I do have trouble keeping the place in running order .I am not the handy man type this was the wrong place for me to buy 22 yrs ago.

So bit the bullet found a nice looking townhouse online that had an open inspection today at 4.30(I had to run around photocopy drivers licence and groupcert) . That I can afford to rent. Its run by some charity(not housing trust! SA workmans cottages its called) you have to be a low income earner.Which of course I am she did ask did u have a pay rise lately yeah between 1 and 3 % no worries
We weren't the only ones looking but we are now on a list if we dont get this one we will get one within a month.Bedrooms are smaller than eldest and I are used to but not daughter .
Why didnt i look earlier oh well live and learn !

Well I'm not sure but I wanna ask HELP!!!

Yep had no intentions of using them .thats 1 thing I cant understand she left them and doesnt want them with her.Yes she has moved way on with her life .

But i just keep trying to keep things normal while miss 19 nags and nags and nags and nags and nags and nags me about moving .i did set her straight one day but didnt do any good .

Well I'm not sure but I wanna ask HELP!!!

Thats what I am trying to do .Work friend just told me not to agree with or sign anything or she will come over and bash me !!! lmao

I will just listen to what Im told .any thing needs to be signed I'll head to my lawyer

Well I'm not sure but I wanna ask HELP!!!

I have a lawyer been using her for advice .
Really end of the day we need to move .this place isnt worth fixing up .i just want to sell it to a developer and move on .To many problems to list here .
What my ex wants except her wish for me to be a renter I have no idea.

Lawyer is not costing me anything at this stage .
I just dont want to be forced into anything.

Well I'm not sure but I wanna ask HELP!!!

Ok so my Ex hasn't been talking to me(no idea if It is or isnt my fault) just through our adult kids .
She did answer some of my txts when I told her we needed to talk about selling this house.And that I wished to move out of this area.
Now a couple of weeks ago.I had a really bad Saturday one thing that happened my Sim died .They managed to save it but I decided to jump on a plan .And u guessed it this sim was out of a phone my ex and kids gave me in happier times.And it was in her name so I needed a new sim and lost her number .
I asked our youngest to TXT her mum .I wanted to talk to her about her signing a form so I could access my half of the equity (it took me ages to work my courage up to contacting a mortage broker ) .But she txt our youngest back with no .She wont talk to me until my next RDO .Which is now tomorrow.
She has told the kids stuff like we have to rent and she will give a large part or her part to us to buy furniture and to use a s rent.
Now I might be a wee bit dumb but theres no way I am totally stupid .I for 1 don't believe what I have been told by the kids(bits of information have been told me over the last couple of weeks) .How can I trust this woman who walked out on me .And what little money we had saved up and the kids money she went through it all .With no signs of remorse .
If we go to some real estate place (I have no idea who what why or how at this stage but the kids say we are).I can not be forced to accept any deal or anything can I .I can take any documents to my lawyer surely.
Sorry to ask for advice but I really dont have any friends .Co workers I have confided in have told me not to sign anything and not trust her.
All I want is to leave this place with my fair share.She has left me with adult kids either who are still at school or recently lost their job.They still trust her I've told them nicely that they cant .But I saw our joint account with just a cheque in it .She can no longer touch my earnings .But i feel she is still trying to control what I do where I live.
Damn I feel stupid !!

RE: Red says....

Way cool red

RE: have you any unusual phobias?

doppelganger if I have spelt that right

I was having a good day

I can understand that newlife .

RE: So, what is it you are looking for?

sxc666 you raise a very good point .One of my coworkers after my last shall we say dates.Said to me why dont u meet someone in teh real world .
Where does one go to meet someone around my age ?
And you know what she looked at me with this stunned look and said "I have no idea"
So dating sites will continue as we have no idea where the real world is .

I was having a good day

Damn u cant edit what u write that reading of 8.8 and 4 or 5 is during the working week .
And the closer to 4 I'm pretty sure I'm dehydrated I know what it feels like.

I was having a good day

Funny thing this diabetes I'm not certain it is playing up .My reading was the lowest for the week in the morning today 6.6 highest was 8.8 .But hell thats not high.I did notice its around 8 at 5.30 am and between 4 and high 5 by 12noon .so i thought it was ok
Junior was telling me all week it was playing up .I have been sweating all the time (its been hot and humid here)falling asleep in front of tv and supposedly in a bad mood .
I dunno will see my GP np good there I phone the diabetic clinic .Hell I know to be careful I was on a drip in the middle of winter due to dehydration still think it was my diabetes .

Vodaphone are useless half hour in their shop go phone our technical side half hour there and they couldnt help me .

crazy john same company nicer staff

I was having a good day

I was so having a good day today.Went over and visited the oldies had lunch with them.
Then went off to West lakes mall for my eye test.And hoping to pick out my new glasses .So what happens yes I can tell your diabetic and your sugar levels arent under control .They arent i said .He tried 5 lenses and 3 were the same to me .oops he wouldnt make me glasses until my sugar levels were more settled .so back to my gp then back to him in two weeks .
Then I thought my phone has been playing up I'm near carzy johns .i walk in and see them .I bought the phone from them and was using my prepaid vodaphone sim .Where vodaphone weren't any help or nice to deal with crazy john(same company) have always been great.
Yep the young lady ( yes male hormones were racing ) was very helpful.but we werent having much luck .I said u get it to work and I'll join crazy johns plan .So phone fixed main problem we think was vodaphone didnt recognize my phone as i bought it from crazy johns .
A quick swap of sims working I signed up costs me the same as my prepiad was a month get more calls and txts .!!!

So a few txts latter and everyone knows my new phone number except my parents oh well tell them next week

still hate those sugar levels

RE: Talking to ones self

Yep guilty as charge talk to myself when working .
Also have 2 kids who dont always answer me .I even have co workers who dont answer as well!!

RE: Your first ...........

Well let me see I havent been to many .Oh nuts none at memorial drive.
1 Ricki Lee Jones she sang chuckies in love.Saw her at Thebarton Theatre .And you could have got high with all the dope smoke .
2 David Bowie Adelaide oval .next door to oh nuts memorial drive .They rioted outside and pushed in the gates .Didnt know that until latter .I did see them setting fire to the oval.But it rained Bowie may have done 1 encore or none.
3 A mates girlfriend dumped him and he said come along and see Joan Armatrading .Never heard of her before .
4 My last concert was Alanis morrisette jagged little pearl tour .Fantatstic .

I enjoyed them all. My now 19 yo daughter freaked out that I was at a Bowie concert .Was a bit sureal her saying "you were at a bowie concert dad " YOu DAD" You lmao!!

Well perhaps I'm taking the next step

u maybe right

Well perhaps I'm taking the next step

Yep will do .Also will be asking my lawyer to draw up a document of some sort about the settlement .Re she or myself have no claims on the other after settlement. if that makes sense.

I get this feeling if she knows what I'm about to do with the settlement money she will want half of that as well.
But thats a worse case scenario .
From what I'm hearing she is doing dodgey stuff and trying to rip off centrelink/Govt tax dept .Or attempting to and I want no part of that!! hopefully she will caught .

Well perhaps I'm taking the next step

Well my ex didnt want the house until I stopped my pay going into our "jointaccount ".Which of course I couldnt access .
Now she'd like me to rent in this area .

Nope I could fix this place up and buy her out .But y she wanted to live here near her parents .I want a smaller place that doesnt need any work done to it .So I can be happy .

Of course what she dont know wont hurt her .