Ok this is why women topic (93)

Nov 26, 2010 10:28 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
jimbob47
jimbob47jimbob47adelaide, South Australia Australia21 Threads 380 Posts
But before I get into it.I will put my hand up I still have issues with my EX.But my issues are all about $$$$. So nothing is really holding me back.I am happy enjoying life and meeting people well ladies.
Why I have started this topic is kind of out of a little frustration.I have dated a couple of nice ladies from here .But both have kept saying they have issues with their exes .And not certain if they want to date anyone and may take their ex back!!
So why are women out there dating but in truth wish to return to their husbands .And from what I have heard these exes are not really nice men.Plus these ladies have been apart for much longer than me!!
Why bother to go out and date .And tell me how nice i am etc etc.When really u girls want to be back with your husbands /partners etc that treat you all like dirt !!!

There that feels betterapplause .So any one else find this!!
Nov 26, 2010 10:52 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
hatpin
hatpinhatpinfrazer coast, Queensland Australia16 Threads 127 Posts
jimbob47: But before I get into it.I will put my hand up I still have issues with my EX.But my issues are all about $$$$. So nothing is really holding me back.I am happy enjoying life and meeting people well ladies.
Why I have started this topic is kind of out of a little frustration.I have dated a couple of nice ladies from here .But both have kept saying they have issues with their exes .And not certain if they want to date anyone and may take their ex back!!
So why are women out there dating but in truth wish to return to their husbands .And from what I have heard these exes are not really nice men.Plus these ladies have been apart for much longer than me!!
Why bother to go out and date .And tell me how nice i am etc etc.When really u girls want to be back with your husbands /partners etc that treat you all like dirt !!!

There that feels better .So any one else find this!!



As we all have to do... WEEDING... I have met some nice people on here but I haven't actually MEET them.

Just take caution and ask as many questions as you have to, to prevent your situation happening again before you meet them!!!

May fave saying... IF IN DOUBT DON'T!!


* Now I know why I have been single for 10 years!!!yay
Nov 26, 2010 10:53 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
hatpin
hatpinhatpinfrazer coast, Queensland Australia16 Threads 127 Posts
hatpin: As we all have to do... WEEDING... I have met some nice people on here but I haven't actually (((MEET))) them.

Just take caution and ask as many questions as you have to, to prevent your situation happening again before you meet them!!!

May fave saying... IF IN DOUBT DON'T!!* Now I know why I have been single for 10 years!!!



Meet > MET... DOHdoh
Nov 26, 2010 11:35 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
Twodawgz: not just a pretty face aye nutso..
not even mateylaugh laugh
Nov 26, 2010 11:39 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
ohnuts1: not even matey


laugh
Nov 26, 2010 11:51 PM CST Ok this is why women topic
jimbob47
jimbob47jimbob47adelaide, South Australia Australia21 Threads 380 Posts
hatpin: As we all have to do... WEEDING... I have met some nice people on here but I haven't actually MEET them.

Just take caution and ask as many questions as you have to, to prevent your situation happening again before you meet them!!!

May fave saying... IF IN DOUBT DON'T!!* Now I know why I have been single for 10 years!!!


Yep i like that .
Nov 27, 2010 12:34 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
lolshorty
lolshortylolshortyWhoop whoop, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 416 Posts
jimbob47: But before I get into it.I will put my hand up I still have issues with my EX.But my issues are all about $$$$. So nothing is really holding me back.I am happy enjoying life and meeting people well ladies.
Why I have started this topic is kind of out of a little frustration.I have dated a couple of nice ladies from here .But both have kept saying they have issues with their exes .And not certain if they want to date anyone and may take their ex back!!
So why are women out there dating but in truth wish to return to their husbands .And from what I have heard these exes are not really nice men.Plus these ladies have been apart for much longer than me!!
Why bother to go out and date .And tell me how nice i am etc etc.When really u girls want to be back with your husbands /partners etc that treat you all like dirt !!!

There that feels better .So any one else find this!!



I dont get it either. why waste anyones time sigh Its not just a female issue, there are many men whom are the samemumbling
Nov 27, 2010 12:36 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
ohnuts1
ohnuts1ohnuts1brisbane, Queensland Australia4 Threads 2,101 Posts
lolshorty: I dont get it either. why waste anyones time Its not just a female issue, there are many men whom are the same
wave agree totallythumbs up
Nov 27, 2010 12:44 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
lolshorty
lolshortylolshortyWhoop whoop, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 416 Posts
ohnuts1: agree totally
love no that doesnt happen oftenhandshake
Nov 27, 2010 1:05 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
jimbob47
jimbob47jimbob47adelaide, South Australia Australia21 Threads 380 Posts
lolshorty: I dont get it either. why waste anyones time Its not just a female issue, there are many men whom are the same


yeah why bother to start dating when your still hung up. Or am I different from everyone else. Mine left no feelings left for her and moved on .Well ok I lie nothing a 303 couldn't fix rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing only joking girls.
Nov 27, 2010 1:08 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
jimbob47: But before I get into it.I will put my hand up I still have issues with my EX.But my issues are all about $$$$. So nothing is really holding me back.I am happy enjoying life and meeting people well ladies.
Why I have started this topic is kind of out of a little frustration.I have dated a couple of nice ladies from here .But both have kept saying they have issues with their exes .And not certain if they want to date anyone and may take their ex back!!
So why are women out there dating but in truth wish to return to their husbands .And from what I have heard these exes are not really nice men.Plus these ladies have been apart for much longer than me!!
Why bother to go out and date .And tell me how nice i am etc etc.When really u girls want to be back with your husbands /partners etc that treat you all like dirt !!!

There that feels better .So any one else find this!!


Why the heck would anyone want to talk about their ex's on a date??? Surely there are much nicer topics of conversation.doh
And if your date does that, then they are still in some hooked on them, not let go. Run.

cheers
Nov 27, 2010 1:09 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
venere08: And if your date does that, then they are still in some way hooked on them, not let go. Run.
Nov 27, 2010 2:02 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
Newlife08
Newlife08Newlife08On the coast, Queensland Australia165 Threads 2,715 Posts
venere08: Why the heck would anyone want to talk about their ex's on a date??? Surely there are much nicer topics of conversation.
And if your date does that, then they are still in some hooked on them, not let go. Run.


Agree 100%- asking out of interest about what went wrong with your last relationship/marriage is one thing but hearing them crop up constantly in the following conversation(s) spells it out loud and clear for me - they are just not over the ex. kiss
Nov 27, 2010 2:54 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
I think that if people drone on and on about the ex, then they have issues. Personally Im not particularly interested in anyones ex. Of course if your discussing a story or such, then yes the ex might come up... as in I had a great time at Moreton, I went there last year. Really who did you go with? My ex. grin

Stories about ex's are like fishing stories.. they get a bit jaded after awhile.

As for women who have dating on their profile, and are waiting for the ex - well I think they should sod off. Why dont they just be truthful? they want friendship ... not a bloody relationship. They are already in a relationship... them and some ghost.

This is where the fine art of discernment comes into play... listen, watch, listen some more ... if she's full of anger and hate, dump her, if she's waiting at the window with a lit candle, dump her. If she's accepting and happy then go for it.



bouquet
Nov 27, 2010 3:07 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Newlife08: Agree 100%- asking out of interest about what went wrong with your last relationship/marriage is one thing but hearing them crop up constantly in the following conversation(s) spells it out loud and clear for me - they are just not over the ex.


Good grief, that's the last thing I would want to ask my date. I couldn't give a rats what went 'wrong' whenever that was hopefully way back. Unless of-course he killed and buried her in the back yard, then I'd prefer him to fess up.laugh

Geez, I really don't think I'm dating materialdoh

wave teddybear
Nov 27, 2010 3:09 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Shell225: I think that if people drone on and on about the ex, then they have issues. Personally Im not particularly interested in anyones ex. Of course if your discussing a story or such, then yes the ex might come up... as in I had a great time at Moreton, I went there last year. Really who did you go with? My ex.

Stories about ex's are like fishing stories.. they get a bit jaded after awhile.

As for women who have dating on their profile, and are waiting for the ex - well I think they should sod off. Why dont they just be truthful? they want friendship ... not a bloody relationship. They are already in a relationship... them and some ghost.

This is where the fine art of discernment comes into play... listen, watch, listen some more ... if she's full of anger and hate, dump her, if she's waiting at the window with a lit candle, dump her. If she's accepting and happy then go for it.


Thanks for reminding me, Shell...Better go relight the candle. Looks like the wind's blown it out!rolling on the floor laughing

teddybear bouquet
Nov 27, 2010 3:37 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
jimbob47
jimbob47jimbob47adelaide, South Australia Australia21 Threads 380 Posts
venere08: Good grief, that's the last thing I would want to ask my date. I couldn't give a rats what went 'wrong' whenever that was hopefully way back. Unless of-course he killed and buried her in the back yard, then I'd prefer him to fess up.

Geez, I really don't think I'm dating material


How do u think I feel a hot woman sitting across from me going on about how her ex ran off to a much younger (and she was much younger than her partner) woman . And he wants her back !!!!
Or we are separated but we live in the same rented house he wont move so y should I !!!

Or am I that desperate confused
Nov 27, 2010 3:40 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
kismat
kismatkismatWhangarei, Northland New Zealand11 Threads 1,869 Posts
jimbob47: How do u think I feel a hot woman sitting across from me going on about how her ex ran off to a much younger (and she was much younger than her partner) woman . And he wants her back !!!!
Or we are separated but we live in the same rented house he wont move so y should I !!!

Or am I that desperate


Yep but don't let it happen. heaps of strange women out there and the good ones are gone, well I reckon but we live in hope.
Nov 27, 2010 3:41 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Yeah I've been bored rigid while someone crapped on about their ex during a "date" drinking

You can only smile understandingly for a certain amount of time .. then it's like

"Erm excuse me, very happy just need to dash to my car for a sec. Seem to have left my eyeball-stabbing hot needles in there .. brb toots wink "


motorcycle
Nov 27, 2010 4:36 AM CST Ok this is why women topic
jimbob47
jimbob47jimbob47adelaide, South Australia Australia21 Threads 380 Posts
kismat: Yep but don't let it happen. heaps of strange women out there and the good ones are gone, well I reckon but we live in hope.


I just pick myself up dust myself off and go again lol
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