How did you know my weakness??? (scratches his head and wonders....)
A gift like yours was surely meant to be shared. For every person who gives you a hard time about it, 10 more wish they could do what you do, so please don't give up.
I think alot of times we have our heads up our butts and don't realize the moment is taking place.
But sometimes the clouds part and the sun comes out, and we realize you just scootched up next to us on the couch for no apparent reason except to be a little closer...
Stuff like that really does stick in your mind sometimes :)
I agree on those points entirely prettywoman. Maybe it just came out wrong. I meant 'work for a better picture' since she couldn't just post one outright, by getting talking and getting to know each other better. I'm about half a pot short of my quota today, so I prob botched it up when I said it :\
I merely suggested a little creative effort to attract attention when a regular picture wasn't an option!! Besides, generally speaking, most relationships take work and effort, sometimes even when it doesn't seem worth it at the time.
If you ever had a fight with a friend, one of you had to work a little to make things right. Love is the same way (only much more tolerant..) And anything worth having is worth a little work.
Relationships don't land in ones lap and just stay there forever. They often require care, work and attention, just like flowers or cats or kids.
Certainly didn't mean to offend anyone....very sorry :O(
Mach, one thing I've learned from experience is not to worry about looks.
I don't consider myself a great looking guy, and posted a pic more because people like to have a face they can associate with the 'person' they are talking too. (I know that I do anyways...) SOMEBODY SOMEWHERE will find you attractive, pretty much no matter what everyone else thinks anyways, since everyone has their own personal tastes. (try it, it works!)
As for not being able to post a picture, olaim, you could try being creative. I've seen boots, dogs, etc etc..... That might work just as well as an icebreaker as anything else.
Just have fun, the rest will come if/when it does.
Just like being around people in a social setting, eventually you may hit it off with someone and go from there. If it doesn't, at least you can say you had a little fun!
At the very worst, you could end up making some friends, and that's a pretty good deal in itself.
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RE: ARE MEN NECESSARY??
If I cook for you, then do the dishes afterwards, would it change your thinking a little?? *grin*