10 Moving in Together Before Marriage
Many people who get married have many things in life to change especially when they are living together.
1
Be ready to share space in the closet
You may not be used to sharing closet space or any space at all.Living with your partner means you will have to share the closet and drawers you use.This is a big steps of some couples
2
Always do your part
Moving in together before marriages helps you to see how it will be as a married couple.You always need to help do the household chores.Make sure you do your part of the cleaning and cooking.
3
Don't become possesive
One you are moved in togehter,you are going to wory more about your partner.If they are late from work,you will wonder about accidents.If they leave early,you will become suspicious.You do not want become possesive that you will scared your partners off.
4
Solve problem as you go
When you live together,you will be communicating more.Problems are going to arise.That is the normal parts of living together.Solve your problems before they get too far.
5
Compromise with your partner
Of course guys like to live differently than women.You want the manly decor,sports posters of womens etc,When your partner moves in compromise with her.she may want to help decorate the place differently.You have to be able to compromise to make it while living together.
6
Pay half of the Bills
Neither partner should keep the other one up.Both should pay half on the bills.If one partner keeps the other one up,it will put a strain on your relationship.
7
Make some ground rules
Before moving in together you should set some ground rules,if there are certain nights a week you do a special activity bring that up.Both partner contribute to the house rules.
8
Do not smother each other
That's is probably the biggest probably couples have when moving in together before marriage .The couples smother each other.you want to spend time together.but to much time together is not good.you will argue more.Have some alone time set aside each week,
9
Keep a date night
Even though you live together you still want to go out and do things together.Donot make your life completely routine.You need sometime out of the house.
10
Be prepared for some dissagreement
No couple is completely perfect.When moving in together before marriage,there will be dissagreements.You need to work through these spats.They are going to happen If you work through them you will see how strong you relationship truly is.
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