I hate the idea of constitutional same rights for women.
I think, there must be 1 boss and that is usually the man as the physically stronger part.
All the rest will not function. And this implicates the man's right to punish every part of the family who doesn't walk the line.
If I read in 85% of all female profiles here that women expect to be treated as a pricess or queen and that a good sense of humor is expected, then I only feel to be in the wrong film.
When seeking in what countries wordwide the beating of women was still allowed, I only found Afghanistan and Russia and maybe some neighbouring countries, or I found that women were disciplimed by starvation or by violence not coming from the man but from his family members, the mother of the man, f.ex.
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I know that it is much better if a wife learns early in her life what her man wants and doesn't wait to be beaten to execute his will.
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I am aware of the fact that most worldwide Constitutions see this topic differently - maybe my profile will be deleted now, after 12 fruitless years here.
I only think that all these Constitutions are wrong. I try to write down why I think so, later.
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My basic idea is that there can be only 1 captain on board. I know, pilots in rivers and harbours are captains too and then there are realkly 2 in charge, but the decisions then makes the pilot.
I think it is essential that lifetime marriage decisions are made as early as possible, as in old China, in early childhood. All what we do here on that site, seeking a lifetime partner with 48, and reading "Children maybe one day" is just a bad joke.
Quite like studying until the age of 30 just to find a better man, or gaining more prestige.
I see well that keeping women in the house and kitchen makes a society poorer of scientists, doctors and other high class professions.
It is a pity that the data collected here are not publicly available, as raw data, to be pulled out with a language like DBASE in the 80th. I would love to learn how many of the females here are that qualified, deserving these "same rights". All I see are estimated 80% of female Hair stylists, and other more or less low qualified activities.
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I know, it's just a minority point of view. Me, probably beeing alone the whole minority wordwide.
What Russia fights for today is the idea of a totalitarian society, where one boss rules, - the contrary of same rights for all. WWII seems to have shown that democracies definitely are the winners, We are the good ones !
Maybe we are all wrong, all-together. All these elderly singles here might prove that, but the raw data are not accessable - a pity !
It drives me mad, after 10 years of intense search of a wife on this site, that I see the following scheme in almost every female profile:
The better they look, the less they write - They mustn't, why should they ...
I once heard that there were apps, able to decide over beauty and attractiveness, what means to give a note upon beauty, (how I see it, key competence of women = key decision criteria of men upon women).
My bet is that if I asked 100 men what the most they searched in women so the vaste majority would say "beauty". And that, by way and work of evolution, is what they get. A partner half his weight and and with professions like "hair stylist / nail studio", "bureau" and "finance". As I see it, all jobs (I speak of the vaste majority as far as I could observe it) - all jobs of an inferior practical value, compared to strenght oriented jobs of men. I wondered how smalll was the number of women here on this site, using tags at all, and next to none would come up with a longer list of own tags. Maybe this is why this site doesn't advertise tags well enough. And maybe because women, the prettier they are, the less work they invest in thinking about what exactly they search. Or it could be that they know by instinct that no man would want a women that he could not shape and mould alongside his own values, so it would not be wise for a women to advertise her own preferences in detail. Most women's profile have an identical 3 or 4-line text. I would like to make a science, a field of research about that. In my eyes, all these texts are bullshit, - or I have a completly different idea of what is essential in life and partnership.
Other things than "Good sense of humor", "Layed back" and what the most used tags say here.
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I have a problem with the whole western society in terms of equal rights granted to women.
I saw in my youth only women jumping from one love and bed into the other, because their beauty, given temporarily by their youth, allowed them that. I admit that is no scientific statement, just how I saw it.
.. I continue my writing later.
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