So quick to pass judgement
How long have you known him/her?
3 days? 3 weeks? 3 months? 3 years?
A man spends 10 years working, taking care of his 3 children and cancer stricken wife
His wife passes
He loses his job
He networks online, while emailing resumes, meets new people, chats, blogs
He lied and said he was an accountant when really he was forced to leave his job, due to lack of work
He felt shameful enough because he was homeless and let his family down
The world on his shoulders
He failed
But hd behind what little strength he held onto behind a computer screen, carelessly typing on the keyboard at the local library
In search of caring words.... A friend....some encouragement to repair his already damaged facade
But he said he was an accountant
He lied
He is labeled as a liar, manipulater, a bad man
Was he really?
Because of one untruth?
A woman spends her whole life with negative criticism
As a child......overweight....insecure....poor....unattractive, according to society standard
Bullied to the point of being ridiculed, beaten and spat upon
Time passes, facial features change ...... Though still poor and still overweight, she is beautiful
But just not beautiful enough still for the standof society
She networks online, while emailing resumes, meets new people, chats, blogs
She edits her profile photos so she appears thinner, taking mostly facial photos to focus more on her beautiful face rather than her curvy plump body.
She wants to feel accepted by those who normally would scoff at her if they were to meet in person
In search of caring words.... A friend....some encouragement to repair her already damaged facade
But she is fake
Her photos were misleading
She is labeled as a liar, manipulater, a bad woman
Is she really?
Because of one untruth?
Many people say and do many things for many different reasons. If you don't know a man or a woman, never assume the kind of person they truly are based on a single mistake they make. Some people may say or do something randomly on impulse because its how they're feeling during that moment. There's always a reason, a purpose for our actions. There's no such thing as a bad man or bad woman because they've made a mistake. You never really know unless you've walked a mile in their shoes. So unless you're perfect, which is certainly not possible, carefully view yourself, your own misgivings and embrace your own faults before you judge others.
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