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While viewing a profile I was reading....and yes, I do actually read what's written on a profile lol... but something did catch my attention and wished to share it because it kinda struck a cord with me. I always wondered... yes, I've dated, but it seems to me, not many are really interested in someone who's normal, down to earth, isn't afraid to love, takes relationships for what they are, doesn't cheat, doesn't lie, just wants to be happy being me. They'd rather have a woman who's just wild...or is a risk taker...or is just gorgeous, so to speak (in their eyes)...oh heck, I'm just me and I get left behind every time. Each time alone once again. They don't stick around, they're always looking for something better, more enticing...something different. I don't know, I guess what I'm trying to say is....well here is the little bit I have to share from this particular profile. I hope you don't mind, but I thought it was worth sharing...maybe others may agree...

"we all are searching for what we call our "perfect love", and some of us will find it and then there are those that can never have it for some reason maybe they are meant to help bring something special to others and show them that they can love again and be loved."

Maybe I'm just one of those that can never have it....maybe it is for a reason, one never knows dunno

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Anything whether good or bad is made or done for a reason , Trust these few words and you will live happy .
What is our perfect love?
When I look back at previous relations and/or crushes I've had.. I see different types of girls. Some very openminded, some wild ones, some very closed very quiet.
I like all kinds, even tought i loved some of them.
But when I met my lady.. I just knew it, everything fell in place. I can't describe what i like most about her, because we connect perfectly on every single level. It's the kind of love I never could believe in until it found me. I didn't expect it to ever happen. But now i know all of us just might get Lucky and love might come to each and everyone. All we need to do is be patient, and keep our eyes and heart open.
Wouldn't it be nice to say you were instrumental in someone else discovering love? I think if I could help others find what might be elusive to me, I would be happy.
Dear Serenity.Kogda we want to be loved and desired, we have to reflect that can give to that person who will love us. We women are often confused in the desires. That we want the silent man as a kitten, but thus we admire the rigid man when we watch the movie. And often women want to be imperious, that is to dominate. But I know one. Any man, even the idiot will be grateful for fidelity and devotion, as well as for care. When people leave not because one good, and other executioner's block. It is simple to eat the phrase, don't refer character. I wish you to find the love.hug hug handshake
Ok Omda, I'll take your word for it wine
Teddy....what you have described to me is what I've felt in the beginning. Over time, sometimes a long time, sometimes not...but over that time, they seem to stray, just looking for something else. I won't say all ... but, well, ya know dunno doh lol .... don't misunderstand though, I'm truly happy for ya! Enjoy it, it's a good thing thumbs up wave
Would most certainly be a very selfless view Abagail...I sometimes think I believe the same....but it can be frustrating. wave
Ummka...I really do appreciate your responses, well thought out and make a lot of sense. Very smart lady thumbs up Thank you wave
Serenity, I believe you do. I believe you wish for others, what you want for yourself. And ... You have much to offer, so I wish you luck finding your shimmer, the person who makes you be everything you can be. rose
Serenity. Mind of the woman is defined not in the told words, and in her acts. But if to consider that I never to accuse men, I not clever, but clever.handshake
Abagail yes....for once to be treated the way I treat another....never really expected it though because either way I am who I am and will treat another well, regardless. wink ...some day. I just don't really look anymore, if things happen, they happen cool wave
Ummka thumbs up handshake wave
Good morning Red wave Someday Perhaps !
Hello non, my favorite blogger....oh dear did I say that outloud? giggle ...anywho, yes, someday I suppose wink
Red, Why thank you.
Compliments are always welcome. laugh
I shall send some your way soon.
psssttt non....if you haven't already, read my blog "But I won't tell..." On that note, I am off to bed. Goodnight everyone wave
Sometimes life just isn't fair and our expectations will not be met.
Sometimes we need to travel to new places in order to change the odds.

Just don't give up or life will beat you comfort
lonely.... my family..children have taken precedence over travels to find any loved ones. And I'm not really trying to find anything - life happens when it happens, naturally. And one day, love will happen. I'm not in any hurry, just not to thrilled with the "back and forth game" in the meantime wave
Thank you, good.......makes so much sense. Twas a nice read though, as well. hug wave
Serenity, long time no see wave glad to know I was right on your last blog laugh hang in there, you'll find what you're looking for one day, looks like it could mean moving across the pond thoughdunno laugh rolling on the floor laughing
hmmm Z? Right on my last blog? confused Do refresh my memory please....Nope, no crossing "ponds" for me, dear. I seldom even cross the state's border, let alone leave the country. And that is once in a blue moon when Red actually takes a vacation lol ... my kids roots are here. wink
Same here. I'm only 19 which is very young, but.every guy I have been with left me an id is now happily in a relationship. Oh well...
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