don't contact me as we won't be a match because so much emphasis is on looks. It makes me wonder, if you are hoping that I am better looking than the ones that I have posted OR if you are worried that I am much uglier, than the ones I have. Well, if you hope that I am better looking, I think I AM (well not the bunny one anyway), and if you are worried if I am uglier I am not (or confident enough to THINK so LOL,) but look at my age, if you worry if I have more wrinkles or gray hair etc. I will, eventually,
and I have enough money to either send me or my plastic surgeon on a trip but not both so I will NOT be having plastic surgery and if getting older, bothers you so much than we do not need to meet. If you are near my age you do not look as ¨hot¨ as when you are younger either and I am hoping (against all hope I guess) that in this stage of our life, we have gone beyond that. The other blog explains why the bunny photo looks different is on the other blog.
The reason for why that silly bunny photo as my main one, was NOT to fool anyone, but I wanted someone who actually READS the profile and not just be reacting in a Pavlovian way to the picture and has a sense of humor so is not mad, but rather amused at this explanation! (And if you don't read this, well..at least I have't changed THAT much, after all I'm in my fifties NOT my nineties!)
The main pic was taken ahhh...let's say about the time McCain left the Hanoi Hilton, and for those of you, not ...cognizant of current events that was NOT during the last presidential election (which I KNOW which is what some men thought in the past so I guess the pic is also a litmus test for one's intelligence and men, PLEASE don't take umbrage, NOT an indictment of ALL men, operative word is "SOME'.")
who actually reads a profile and NOT just ogle pics! Please do not contact me if you LACK MANNERS, examples are: standing me up on a date without cancelling, contacting me wanting to meet then never trying to meet, having long phone conversations or going out on a date where in both cases it seems it's going well and then drop out of sight, without sending me an email saying we are not a match (why would be nice but, sigh, not expected). I do NOT mind if one wanted to start out as friends first so if you do not feel romantically inclined towards me that shouldn't preclude us getting to know each other. I do have good manners thus I answer EVERY email (but then again I am not deluged with them as say, a 20 year old nubile blonde!) Also NO smokers please, I put it there but still some men do not bother to read the facts and are just looking at the pics...
I wanted to write much more about me in my profile but since there is a character limit (and NO, I am not as long winded as this, I actually AM a good listener) I have to post it here so hope it can stay, if you live a long way away and want to just chat, email, etc. please, PLEASE do NOT waste both our times writing, I am not looking for a "fantasy" relationship but a REAL one with someone I can actually go out and DO things with. And especially do NOT write me if you are in another country and waiting to get back to the U.S. (if you ARE in another country sign up in couchsurfing and maybe I'll visit you ;)!
What am I doing with my life
I'm at a crossroads, not rich but financially independent, thinking of traveling worldwide, with nothing tying me down, but I would like to be in a loving relationship so open to ALL possibilities...
What I like to eat
Although I would LIKE to eat a healthier more vegetarian diet with no sugar (so don't mind guys that are), but hey, I'm Chinese and we eat everything with 4 legs except the kitchen table and sigh, unfortunately sweets don't taste like vegetables which would make it MUCH easier to give it up.
Ideal First Date
We can always take that clicheish walk on the beach and if you so desire followed by happy hour (i.e. cheap) drinks and appetizers nearby or if you want a longer or more profound discussion with me, we can go to a restaurant that I have coupons for-my way of going Dutch-LOL- as I don't like coffee dates (I'm a chintzy not a cheap date!)
Or we can skip food and go on a completely gratis date, just the walk, art gallery openings (with free food-my two favorite four letter words beginning with an F that's non vulgar!) an outdoor concert, ethnic festival, or a museum's free day, although I shall NOT turn my nose up at men who like to dine in a five star restaurant and going to the theater afterwards!
Hobbies, etc. we can discuss when we meet, which I hope we do, am NOT looking for a penpal, so guys far away who contact me, I will go out and meet you!
Instead of Car 54, yes, I would consider RVing with you but PLEASE unhide your profile, because I can't respond and you just wrote me!!!! Can't respond to you, but you can write to me, email me with your own email.
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