living in a world of simply click to get paid many still struggle with their monthly mini pay cheque i thought of instead of just siting with my computer for hours dyving and swemming inside facebook and twiter i can simply be doing a serouse search on how to make little dol on the internet so i stumble into this link, i know there are countless fake ones but amidst of them there are still cool ones why not give this one a try it could give a better result just as i am still trying to prove it
we could prove it together
I was about 11 years of age when we were preparing to write our elementary school final exams when Temi walked up to me and said that she has something to tell me, before this time i was avoiding her because all my friends always make jest of me that i am dating a ugly girl even though we do not know what dating was all about, although i admire her a lot and she was very intelligent but i never show it to her and because of the jesting i never wanted to come near her nor her to me, so i ignore her and left not knowing that she was a patience of a terminal decease and what would have helped her to at least live beyond that day and the next was finding someone who will just show her a bit of love and sense of belonging, she found me to show her that love because she already love me but i fail to do that, her parent's love wasn't enough for her because her parents was poor and they don't know what showing love to their kids was all about. after that day they told us in school that she has died, suddenly i got freeze, i felt so bad and wept bitterly knowing that i would never see her again, that made me loose one year in my elementary school because i could not continue in that school. one night i saw here in my dream and she said "i never knew you care about me i could have still be alive now".
appreciate people while you still can, most times, simple concern and appreciation can give somebody the reason to live beyond that day and the next but most times we fail to do that when they are alive and around us but start to feel bad and sometimes even cry when they are gone, that looks hypocritical to me.
I was on a phone conversation one day with a friend and we were about to discourse some very important thing when suddenly the line went down i try reach him again several times but could not go through then it got done on me about the pain of disconnection from real people, disconnection hurts, its the reason and the opposite of addiction, it may not hurt who disconnect but will hurt to whom its being disconnected, yes you can not be a friend of everybody but i believe that any one that comes across your way is not by mistake, you got something to learn from him/her or he/she got something to learn from you and you can never see that until you are connected and accepted
i had a friend in which when we were close friends she was well behaved and disciplined but two weeks after i got disconnected from her she gave in to bad behavior, not quite long i hear from people that she said i was the one that drove her into that behavior, i never new disconnecting from her will result to that so it could happen to anybody else, of a truth you never can tell where you are driving someone into by disconnecting from that person.
i think the best way to understand the pain of disconnection is network breakdown during important conversation. you have everything to gain by connection and everything to loose by disconnection, i think its better not to connect at all than to connect and disconnect suddenly after all its connection the reason we are all here and i am so happy that i know so may of you here.
Anytime you think about someones' bad side or the bad someone has don, you just feel some level of hatred for that person, while not pause a bit and just think about one tiny good side of the person, you will get a whole different feelings about that person, i think that helps to deal with hatred and enmity
PURPOSE AND DREAMS
There has been a great confusion about purpose and dreams, so many writers took them both to mean the same while some who try to differentiate them end up making the whole thing most complicated, this being the fact that some write out of feelings or out of experience but not as a result of thorough study about it, it is quite simple to some other writer to quickly give the definition of purpose and dreams but never bother about who is responsible for the fulfilling of them both, but some who bother end up saying that we are all responsible for the fulfillment of both, this gave the reason for this writing, to clear the burden and worries in the mind of many about purpose and dreams and to whom the responsibility of each is vested upon.
In this part I will go straight to give a simple straight forward definition to them both so I don’t get to bother this page over much writings as been the fact that there already exist so much definition of purpose and dreams of which my may or may not be much different from.
Purpose is what God created you for, what God want you to become, while dreams is a mental picture of what you want to become, sometimes they both agree and some other times don’t. Purpose can be revealed to its subject and as well may not be revealed, the decision to reveal it or not is soly for the ONE who gave the purpose, in other to make you understand the difference between them both I would like to give this illustration;
The sole purpose why mobile phone manufacturing company produces phone is to be able to send and receive information of any kind, be it browsing with it, call or send text messages with it. Despite the fact that there is game inside the phone but it is not met for games (in fact our old men and women understand this better). But the buyer of the phone has the choice or will or can decide to use it for games only (like buying it for your children for games purpose), but he cannot access the game without inserting a sim card inside the phone, so before he can access the game he must insert a sim in it, and the moment he insert the sim a message must be delivered to that phone by the sim network for activation, and the moment he receive that message the purpose of the phone has been fulfilled irrespective of what the buyer will continue to use the phone for (games).
Therefore, the main difference between purpose and dreams is that purpose does and cannot die and must be fulfilled but dreams may die without being fulfilled and that is while a writer once said that the richest place on earth is the grave because there lies abundance of unfulfilled purposes, now there may be so many questions in your mind now as to purpose being from God and as well a must “fulfilled thing”.
You may ask, what about a baby that is born within the next seconds/minutes is dead, what about a young talented man who struggle for life/survival at the verge of his breakthrough he end up dead, does this means that God is wicked and what is their purpose? Now everything that happens on earth does not take God for a surprise, and all things that God created He has a purpose for it, and as well He wants to show forth His power, and to teach men to give Him praise and trust completely on Him, a child that is born and within the next minute is dead, maybe God wants to teach the family how to handle pains and how they can keep their trust on Him, so the purpose of the child is to bring pain to the family to see how the family will react in such pain and as well the people around them, sometimes when such family hold on still on God, end up victorious by having other wonderful kids who will restore or bring back their joy, a young man in his limelight gave up dead could be a lesson to the whole world that to God only has the power to turn things around within a twinkling of an eye.
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