Here is my definition of a easy going man vs a guy who faces life with all its challenges.
I think easy going is lazy/ignorant/ at facing issues and problems/ could be deceitful at times, lacking the maturity to face problems and find solutions, or not wanting to appear to be arrogant?
On the flip side: Mature man who had to face difficult and find solutions/military trained/ had a solid family rules structures. A person who does not quit on life.
What is your opinion?
Calling all men : when writing your profiles please beware: women 63-80 years old probably do not want kids to bore just for you. The latest on the kid issue for older women is: a 35 year old woman who wants kids is referred to in the medical profession as a "geriatric pregnancy", I am telling the truth.
Not a very complimentary comment but then life can be brutal, especially if technology or procedures to become pregnant are used.
When I read a profile about a man and he is 69 years old and wants kids, I being to wonder in what reality is he living? It is sad. Surely he must understand that for a 63 woman or older, it would a very big health risk not only for his partner but for the kid. Just because he can, does not mean he should.What about a lifetime of special needs for the kid?nothing and I mean nothing guarantees a safe, healthy baby. Please be truthful.
There are thousands of kids that should be adopted, they need a family.
Seriously people, there is an end for women to produce trophy babies for some old fart! Its called "geriatric pregnancy". If you start a pregnancy for a woman at 60 please do the math. I find it a bit ridiculous.
The question on the profile is Want kids? most of answers are" not sure", really at 60 years you don't know if you want kids? what planet have you guys been visiting? Just because technology allows people to play God, is this a mentally health issue? ego? .
When I set up my profile on Cs I clearly stated I would not give out my email or phone number the reason being because in the past I have had my account hacked on two different selling sites for my quilts I make and twice on FB, all of which caused me great mental/emotional and financial stress, so after all that and a clear and concise explanation, I still get asked for my email especially and my phone number.To a hacker an email account is dessert, there is so much information to be gotten from it and used in a optional dangerous and harmful way, if you have never had this happen to you, your lucky. Believe it or not your cell phone is even worse, the only way around it with a cell phone is to purchase a "burn phone" , it gives little or no information. I work for a Federal Law firm and this is what the investigators told me. I will not give out my personal info. When people keep asking for this info, the red flags go up and I just block them because I am very tired of being disrespected.
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