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Don't Leave Me This Way

I really enjoy watching musical video photo montages. Here is one I just found and want to share with you!! Enjoy!!



Don't worry, I won't leave you that way!

My heart is full of love and desire for you too!

I also have a fire burning within my soul and burning out of
control...I'll be there soon to set you free!

I won't leave you that way! rolling on the floor laughing


grin cool
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When will I see you again?

I am not dwelling on the past but thinking of the future.

For those who are feeling the way.

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Women, Just as bad as Men and the Adventures of Ru

It was a Saturday and I spent most of the day with my eldest daughter. After dropping her off, I decided to visit a local watering hole. I am not a big drinker, but I do occasionally, about a few times per year, go to the local, club, pub, or bar.

This watering hole was very large with a restaurant, bar, and local band. I haven't been to that place in about 7 or 8 years and it had not changed very much. It was early about 7:30 PM and there was a small crowd in the drinking area with a mixture of young and folks my age. I walked in sat at the bar and ordered a beer.

As I drank and looked around, I noticed one loud fellow sitting a few chairs away from me. You know the type, people that are loud so as to try and involve everyone into their conversations. Well, the more I can quickly figure someone-out, the sooner I start ignoring them, especially anyone making too much of an effort in trying to impress me or get my attention, of course depending how they go about it. Well, after about 3 sips of my beer, and I was taking my sweet time, then that guy catches me looking in his direction, looks at me and says “hello” to me. Now I have no choice, I have to respond, so I say hello, how are you(big mistake and habit). He quickly started verbally regurgitating his life story about how he is getting a divorce and she's getting all the money..bla..bla..bla.. Then he goes into how great this bar is and how quickly you can get laid and starts pointing-out all the female bartenders and waitresses walking around and busy working, like we where in the days of the wild west and most of the women at the local saloon were prostitutes doing wha they had to just to survive. I ask him if he has ever been to this bar before and he assures me it's his first time, now I am really irritated and can't wait for him to go away. He reminds me of those guys who thinks all the women are looking at him and want him. I suddenly blessed, he ordered something from the restaurant to go, it arrived and he had to leave, thank God.

I noticed a few pool tables and decided to play a game, I haven't played in years and thought I would just rack it up and shoot for awhile. I am not much good for sitting at the bar and bending my elbow all night(boring), I have to do something, shoot darts, pool, or my favorite pastime...dancing. As I lean over the pool table, facing the woman's bathrooms, and take a shot, I noticed a women leaving and we notice each other, not bad(cute) I thought and continued fixated on my game and moving around the table to prepare from my next shot. She comes over to me and asks me, who I was playing with and I said myself and she said why? I said, because I wanted to play and didn't need anyone else to do that. She asked me if I wouldn't mind if she joined me. I said not at all, why not I thought to myself, cute or not...I would play with anyone as I am friendly and how someone looks has nothing to do with it. To protect the guilty, I'll call her Hortensia, a 42 year old, divorced with two daughters and whom I had to constantly remind and repeat throughout the night, my age, the age of my children, and my nationality.

To make a long story short, as this blog has a 4,000 word maximum, I was in for a very interesting night. Two couples, our age, where sitting next to the pool table wanted to play and quickly befriended us both. By now the place is hopping and filled with people and Hortensia, as I quickly learned, was drunk. She was all over the couples husbands(a very secure couple that took things in stride) and me. The band started playing and she dragged me out to the dance floor saw I could move and started grinding up against me, that turned me off and left for the pool table, she followed and continued to hang all over me. At one point, I told the couple that I was disappearing for awhile and went to eat a slice of pizza.
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What would you say?

Let's take a short 20 minute mental vacation and imagine yourself with that right person...perfect for you, she/he matches you completely, in every way.

Now imagine yourself facing that person. What would you say to him/her?

Express your thoughts via video, music, pictures..anyway you like!


I prefer music video photo montages, Here's what I would say;



Now be romantic! laugh wink grin

Something wrong with the Youtube tag here's the link;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-Lp2uC_1lg&ob=av2e
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Respect

What happened to respect? No one seems to respect anything anymore. Men don't respect women, women don't respect men, children and teenagers don't' respect their parents, teachers, and public servants and visa verse. Neighbors don't respect each other, their property, or privacy.

So many people don't respect our mother earth, they trash the streets, plaza and mall parking lots. Large and small companies do not respect their workers and the environment. Many disrespect and don't seem to realize our beautiful animals need a place to live and need to do what comes natural to them in a healthy environment. We don't' even respect our own food, it's made of hormonally injected animals, that are brutally penned in tight quarters and slaughtered. Most of our main stream diet is composed of corn and it's derivatives.

We have more respect for the all mighty dollar than we do a human life. We don't even respect each others belief systems and religions. We don't even respect our own belief system and lie, cheat, and steal from each other and disrespect our creator.

I say, the disrespect, is at an all time high..and it's brewing and I believe mother nature is going to clean house soon and so are other cosmic forces also at work.

I don't even get respect on CS, today, I received an all time high, of not ONE, not TWO, but THREE spam internal CS emails. Give me a break!

Change your ways and start respecting everything and everyone! Give thanks for everything!
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A Visual Journey 4 U

I read some where, that our imagination is our closest connection to our soul and our soul is our closest connection to our maker.

By our thoughts, choices and actions we create our future. I invite you to sit back, relax and go on a visual and audio journey. Take the dog-out, kiss(and hug) the kids and take them to bed, and shut-off that TV for 5 minutes, that's all it will take. I dare you!

***************Read Carefully before beginning!***************

1.)Double click on the music video below so that it opens-up on the Youtube site and let it begin buffering.

2.)As it begins buffering and downloading into your system, hit the stop button and let it buffer until it almost downloads the entire video.

3.)While it downloads onto your system, take a few moments to imagine the qualities that you would really like in a companion, sweat heart, lover, best friend..etc..

4.)Turn the lights off, look at your monitor, expand the video size to full screen.

5.)hit the play button, imagine it and feel yourself being and feeling it all right next to such a person, let your imagination run wild. Ignore all insecurities and self negative doubts.

Enjoy this mental journey, enjoy the photos.

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Real Humanoid Female Robot

What if they began making these very realistic with many human qualities and features, like service in the bedroom? Would you buy one? What if they came in male version too? confused

Actroid DER2




That Cherry 2000 sure looks good! rolling on the floor laughing
Cherry 2000
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6KJtFZoflc
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Food for thought

Allow me, if you will, to stimulate your neurons, your inner world and perspective. With an increasing number of people leaning toward spirituality over religion these days, have you given any thought about the new breakthroughs in our science today? Have you explored Quantum Mechanics and String Theory for example? These theories may some day prove that we may very well exist in many alternate realities, all at the same time. That there are 11 dimensions to our universe, that indeed it may be holographic and what we see and experience is an actual perception and expression of ourselves and what we see or perceive is all a reflection of what we put in our minds. After discovering many subatomic particles within matter, within the nucleus of the atom, of which is mostly empty space, they have theorized that there may be looped or open strings of energy vibrating and responding to our very thoughts and intentions. The interesting thing here, is that if you have been following the new age movement, for the most part, they have been saying the same thing way before science was even a discipline.

Give it some thought, are you living in a holographic universe that has some predictability by reacting to your very intentions, emotions and actions? Could you be programming everyone moment of your future by what your intent, and what you think and do? Could this world that you perceive actually be a physical holographic image and a heaven on earth responding to your very hopes, dreams, and desires? Could science and the old esoteric information actually be saying that we are the masters and gods of our own physical reality? Could the real reality be, that each and every one of us are gods within our own holographic physical program and it responds to our intentions, hopes, and dreams?

Put religion aside for a moment and read the following words from an enlightened master;

Jesus answered them, “Is it not written in your Law, ‘I have said you are gods?

Once, having been asked by the Pharisees when the kingdom of God would come, Jesus replied, “The kingdom of God does not come with your careful observation, nor will people say, ‘Here it is,’ or ‘There it is,’ because the kingdom of God is within you.”

The apostles said to the Lord, “Increase our faith!” He replied, “If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it will obey you.

He replied, “Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”

If we thought of each other as gods, would we not all be completely equal, is there anything we would not do for each other? Wouldn't we all completely meet each others needs? I am not saying forsake the supreme being. “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” Jesus

Have you tried waking up in the morning and thanking God for everything you are and have? Have you tried waking up every morning and thinking throughout the day, I thank God "I HAVE A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP with a significant other?" I thank God "I HAVE ALL THE MONEY I NEED?" Get the idea? Have you tried thinking in reverse? Have you tried believing that everything you want, you already have?

How far has, thinking that you are lonely get you? How far has thinking in poverty gotten you? How far will thinking that I am alone and lonely get you? I suspect more of the same.

Expand your mind, try thinking differently. Is the way you are thinking now getting you nowhere!!! Think about it, I know this is extremely radical, but this is food for your thoughts. Dare to be different, dare to be yourself!
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Are you ready?

In contemplating a relationship!

* Being in-between relationships are you looking inward?

* Do you understand what happened with your last relationship?

* Did you accept responsibility for your bad choices or are you still blaming your ex? Are you ready to make better choices?

* Are you still angry?

* Have you buried your anger and feelings or do you understand them and released them?

* Do you really know and understand what kind of relationship you really want?

* Are you expressing yourself as you really are, to the best of your ability?

* Are you honest with others and looking to make someone happy or are you always only thinking of yourself.

* Do you realize that love and happiness comes from within you, not from the outside?

* Have you faced and acknowledged your insecurities and are working on them?

* Have you improved your social communication skills?

Did I miss any?

If your answer to most of these are NO! Then you ARE NOT READY to have a meaningful and long lasting relationship and if you get involved with those that are seeking such a bond with a person, you will be wasting their time and yours and you are being dishonest with them!! TJMHO!


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A female divorce lawyer!

If your a man, don't ever...ever...ever let anyone talk you into letting a women represent you in a divorce matter, its a huge mistake. There is nothing I abhor more than my own hard care stupidity!! frustrated grin cool
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Think and Feel in Reverse, Food for Thought

Food for Thought

I am lacking in nothing as I live in a world of plenty!

I am happy, secure within myself as like everyone else, I am deserving!

I am not alone that special someone is with me! I can feel it so deeply that I can taste it! I am making beautiful friends and some day I know a love will take root and bloom.

I am deeply thankful that GOD has set up such a beautiful environment, so I can co-create every moment into the future by thinking and feeling my hearts desires. I am thankful that I can understand and apply the concepts of intention and attraction to achieve real conscious co-creation.

I am thankful that I am no longer in a loop of self created misery, loneliness, and negative circumstances. I am no longer a victim or like a leaf floating down a river completely influenced by and at the mercy of it's current. You are living within God's Holodeck, changing your future is within your grasp by changing how you think, feel, and by applying a little faith until you see results.

Stop thinking and feeling alone, broke, or miserable. Change your thinking and emotions and a better future will follow. Think the reverse of your childhood programming, stop just reacting to your circumstance, take control of your future by finding the instrument panel and using it. Wake up and snap out of it!!

How do I know this works? My financial, emotional, psychological, spiritual, and social situation as completely changed since I have started practicing these universal truths. And my situation continues to improve and I see evidence all the time as my faith also increases.

Good luck and God bless, may the force be with you all!! gift grin cool
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Amy Grant - Every Heartbeat

Lyrics

Hear me speak what's on my mind
Let me give this testimony
Reaffirm that you will find
That you are my one and only
No exception to this rule
I'm simple, but I'm no fool
I've got a witness happy to say
Every hour, every day

Every heartbeat bears your name
Loud and clear, they stake my claim
Ask anyone, and they'll tell you it's true
And ev'ry heartbeat belongs to you

Classic case of boy meets girl
Moving in the same direction
You're not asking for the world
I'm not asking for perfection
Just a love that's well-designed
For passing the test of time
I'm here to tell you, I'm here to stay
Every hour, every day

Every heartbeat bears your name
Loud and clear, they stake my claim
Ask anyone, and they'll tell you it's true
And ev'ry heartbeat belongs to you

Every heartbeat bears your name
Loud and clear, they stake my claim, yeah
My red blood runs true blue
And ev'ry heartbeat belongs to you

Oh, oh, oh, oh
Yeah, sure; maybe I'm on the edge
But I love you, baby; and, like I said
I'm here to tell you, I'm here to stay
Every hour, every day

Every heartbeat bears your name
Loud and clear, they stake my claim
Ask anyone, and they'll tell you it's true
And ev'ry heartbeat belongs to you

Every heartbeat bears your name
Loud and clear, they stake my claim, yeah
My red blood runs true blue
And ev'ry heartbeat belongs to you

Music link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MB_UBuPmWO4
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