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Bread - Baby I'm A Want You

Bread - Baby I'm-A Want You - Lyrics

Baby, I'm-a want you
Baby, I'm-a need you
You the only one I care enough to hurt about
Maybe I'm-a crazy
But I just can't live without...

Your lovin' and affection
Givin' me direction
Like a guiding light to help me through a darkest hour
Lately I'm a-prayin'
That you'll always be a-stayin' beside me

Used to be my life was just emotions passing by
Feeling all the while and never really knowing why...

Lately I'm a-prayin'
That you'll always be a-stayin' beside me.

Used to be my life was just emotions passing by
Then you came along and made me laugh
And made me cry...
You taught me why...

Baby, I'm-a want you
Baby, I'm-a need you

Oh, it took so long to find you, baby

Baby, I'm-a want you
Baby, I'm-a need you


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Breathe - Faith Hill - lyrics

I can feel the magic floating in the air
Being with you gets me that way
I watch the sunlight dance across your face
And I've never been this swept away
All my thoughts just seem to settle on the breeze
When I'm lying wrapped in your arms
The whole world just fades away
The only thing I hear is the beating of your heart

Cause I can feel you breathe
It's washing over me
Suddenly I'm melting into you
There's nothing left to prove
Baby all we need is just to be
Caught up in the touch
The slow and steady rush
Baby, isn't that the way that love's supposed to be?
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe...

In a way I know my heart is waking up
As all the walls come tumbling down
Closer than I've ever felt before
And I know and you know there's no need for words right now

Cause I can feel you breathe
It's washing over me
And suddenly I'm melting into you
There's nothing left to prove
Baby all we need is just to be
Caught up in the touch
The slow and steady rush
Baby, isn't that the way that love's supposed to be?
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe...

Caught up in the touch
The slow and steady rush
Baby, isn't that the way that love's supposed to be?
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe...

I can feel the magic floating in the air
Being with you gets me that way

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jS3AQzKSGA
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Define dating, establish honest commmunication

I think the problem lies in the definition of dating. Not everyone's definition is the same. When you meet someone you should establish honesty and that definition before proceeding further.

Some people think sleeping with those you date is ok! I don't! When your intimate with some one, you made a choice and a commitment. Commitment involves the responsibility of being transparent to your partner and their feelings and emotions.
Sleeping with more than one person is not dating!! At least in my book. It's playing around.

As everyone is looking for the perfect person(perfect for them) then dating should be about meeting several people for coffee, tea, lunch or dinner as a platonic way to get to know them. So is chatting with different people on different dating sites! Then as time gos on and people are added or drop from your dating list then it suppose to be slowly dwindling down to the best choice. Then you make a commitment and then if you decide it's right, you begin the intimacy stage.

I know you all know all this already, but the problem lies in that this definition is not defined and transparency is not established in the beginning. Then it's doomed to fail from the start. I am not talking about real players, this can happen with two good decent people. The communication is not properly established and one person thinks he/she is committed while the other person still thinks they are dating!! So, of course your going to catch them chatting with someone else on another site.

Perfect example; Two people meet and begin chatting and phoning daily sometimes for many hours. One person seas this as a match and commitment while the other is doing the same with another person. Both are so caught up they do not fully communicate what they are doing and both are assuming. Then either the communication is abruptly stopped or one is caught chatting with another on another site. Throw in some sexually charged flirting and you have a perfect mix for disaster just waiting to happen.

What is the problem with telling someone, "your great, I like you allot, but I am not ready to commit yet and I am dating others?" It takes time to know someone and you can't commit until you know them well. It's like buying a machine without the manual. Of course again, it's about the communication, you don't say this to someone after having had an intimate encounters with them. Again, it's the honest communication and the definition of dating that is important, at least to get off to the proper start. Honestly defining dating can match the players with the players and the real daters with the real daters. People need to spell it out "I am committed to you," "I am not sure yet, give me more time, I am dating others." The problem also lies in that most people want to be exclusive without communicating it, that is not realistic and also set's them up for failure.

I know, I know, easier said than done, that's just the way I see it and I can see all failures can be traced down to that lack of honest transparent definition of dating from the beginning.
I think a large percentage of beginning relationships never get off the ground due to poor communication. But, I am just like you all, I am learning all the time and all the above is subject to change, it's the only way to keep growing. That's JMO!!dunno grin cool
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She's All I Ever Had

She's All I Ever Had by RICKY MARTIN

Here I am. Broken wings, quiet thoughts, unspoken dreams.
Here I am. Alone again and I need her now to hold my hand.

CHORUS:
She's all, she's all I ever had.
She's the air I breathe.
She's all, she's all I ever had

It's the way she makes me feel.
It's the only thing that's real.
It's the way she understands.
She's my lover, she's my friend.
And when I look into her eyes it's the way I feel inside.
Like the man I want to be.
She's all I ever need.

So much time, soo much pain (but) there's one thing that still remains.
(It's the) The way she cared the love we shared.
And through it all she's always been there.

She's all, she's all I ever had in a world so cold, so empty.
She's all, she's all I ever had.

It's the way she makes me feel.
It's the only thing that's real.
It's the way she understands.
She's my lover, she's my friend.
And when I look into her eyes it's the way I feel inside.
Like the man I want to be. She's all I ever need.

Song link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NEZcXlgkJeQ
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It Takes Two and It Takes Only One

IT TAKES TWO

It takes two to rub noises and look deeply into each others eyes.

It takes two to share each others deep dark secrets.

It takes two to share each others painful experiences.

It takes two to share a bottle of wine under the stars over a campfire.

It takes two to share a romantic movie close together arms rapped around.

It takes two to have dinner, laugh and dance all night.

It takes two to walk along the pier, stopping to embrace under the moonlight.

It takes two to make love everywhere in the house, car, woods, and the beach.

It takes two to make an effort, to compromise and meet each others needs.

It takes two to do, so many things, to make a relationship work.

IT TAKES ONLY ONE

It takes only one act of selfishness to ruin everything.

It takes only one lie to destroy all trust.

It takes only one act of deception to destroy a good bond.

It takes only one act of infidelity to destroy a relationship completely.

Remember what it takes to keep a relationship, when you find a good one.

"Those who forget the past are condemned to repeat it" George Santayana
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Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman

Bryan Adams : Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman Lyrics

To really love a woman, to understand her
You gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought, see every dream
An' give her wings when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her, that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cuz she needs somebody
To tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really, really ever loved a woman?
Yeah

To really love a woman, let her hold you
Til' you know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her, really taste her
Til' you can feel her in your blood
An' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cuz she needs somebody
To tell her that you'll always be together
So tell me have you ever really
Really, really ever loved a woman?

Oh
You've got to give her some faith, hold her tight
A little tenderness, you gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
You really gotta love your woman, ya

And when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
'Cuz she needs somebody
To tell her that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really, really ever loved a woman?
Yeah

Just tell me have you ever really
Really, really, ever loved a woman?
Oh
Just tell me have you ever really
Really, really, ever loved a woman?

http://www.connectingsingles.com/video_3675_1/bryan_adams_have_you_ever_really_loved_a_woman.htm



One of these days, I am going to pick up my guitar and learn to play this song!! banana banana boogie boogie elephant elephant
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Natasha Bedingfield - Soulmate

Incompatible, it don't matter though
'cos someone's bound to hear my cry
Speak out if you do
You're not easy to find

Is it possible Mr. Loveable
Is already in my life?
Right in front of me
Or maybe you're in disguise

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Here we are again, circles never end
How do I find the perfect fit
There's enough for everyone
But I'm still waiting in line

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

If there's a soulmate for everyone

Most relationships seem so transitory
They're all good but not the permanent one

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone

Who doesn't long for someone to hold
Who knows how to love you without being told
Somebody tell me why I'm on my own
If there's a soulmate for everyone
If there's a soulmate for everyone

http://www.connectingsingles.com/profilevideo.aspx?user=rubendario&typ=529713&v=4518
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Climb a Mountain

This last Tuesday, after a 12 mile bike ride, I climbed Sleepy Giant Mountain in Cheshire Connecticut. I went with a young couple here on vacation from South America.

I have climbed this mountain before and the hardest climb is the blue trail, the steepest and most challenging. This climb always reminds me of life in general. It reminds me of how sometimes in life, things can be a big climb(obstacle) and it seems like you will never get to the top(over it). The upward climb is hard and tiring, but once your over the top and start climbing down, it becomes easier, you feel happy that you have succeeded and that you overcame the obstacles on the way up.

I felt good about keeping up with a couple in their late 20s to early 30s. My friend was complaining during most of the climb up, it's too steep, I am afraid of falling, what do I do, when will it end. He was in a battle against his own mind. Isn't that what we do when we feel that life's obstacles seem overwhelming? His girlfriend is a physical education professor and she followed me right up the mountain without hesitation and soon realized it was a mental exercise. The climb seemed at times to never end, it took us 3 hours to complete the entire trail and a good hour and one half was the steep part of the mountain itself.

I suggest you try something like finding a mountain to climb. Break it down into steps, climb right up, over come what you see, pace your self, overcome and adapt. Once at the top, you'll be able to see for miles and appreciate the beauty of our planet and also challenge yourself with the lesson, in mind over negative circumstances or situations that appear to look like mountains or large obstacles.

Good Luck and God bless!!
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Oleta Adams - Get Here (If You Can)

Lyrics to one of my favorite songs.

You can reach me by railway, you can reach me by trailway
You can reach me on an airplane, you can reach me with your mind
You can reach me by caravan, cross the desert like an Arab man
I don't care how you get here, just- get here if you can

You can reach me by sailboat, climb a tree and swing rope to rope
Take a sled and slide down slow, into these arms of mine
You can jump on a speedy colt, cross the border in a blaze of hope
I don't care how you get here, just- get here if you can

There are hills and mountains between us
Always something to get over
If I had my way, then surely you would be closer
I need you closer

(interlude, then repeat bridge)

You can windsurf into my life, take me up on a carpet ride
You can make it in a big balloon, but you better make it soon
You can reach me by caravan, cross the desert like an Arab man
I don't care how you get here, just- get here if you can

I don't care, I dont care, I need you right here right now

I need you right here, right now, right by my side (yeah,yeah, yeah, yeah)

I don't care how you get here, just- get here if you can

Link to the song:
http://www.connectingsingles.com/video_5990_1/oleta_adams_get_here_if_you_can.htm
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Words of Encouragement

If I may be so bold as to encourage you not to spend another moment in despair, in feeling depressed or lonely. Use this time of solitude to look inward, to get to know thy self, and to build character. Take this time to meditate, to tune into your inner self, and the divine. Take this time to organize yourself both inward and outward. Exercise and tune into your body, read and enrich your mind. Think of yourself as a butterfly within a cocoon slowly growing, improving in body, mind, waiting to burst open to fly and spread your wings.

Open your eyes and look around. Open your eyes to the beauty of the world, plants, animals, and all the human races. Can you see the beauty in all it's complexity? Your on the Net! The entire world is open to you, can you see the beauty of the yellow, white, brown, and black skinned man and woman? Can you see the beauty and appreciate their unique facial features, their culture, and their distinct manner of dress? Can you appreciate the men and women with children and how they have sacrificed. Can you appreciate the less fortunate both physically, mentally, and financially?

Build depth of character and spirituality. If you fail, fall down, make a mistake, feel rejected and turned down or make an idiot of yourself, brush yourself off, re-focus, and try again. Don't give up, it's just like a game, the more you play and try, the better are your chances of scoring, succeeding, and becoming triumphant. Open your mind, your heart and your soul. Let go of your old limiting thoughts. With 6,706,993,152 people on the planet, there is someone in this world for everyone, just open yourself up to the world and see it in all it's beauty.

This post is dedicated to those whom have encouraged me, their seeds have taken root and have sprung forth fruit in abundance – Good luck and God bless!!

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11 useful tips for how to use The Secret !
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The Gabriel Method

I would like to achieve some muscular definition and want to lose a couple of pounds. I came across the ad for The Gabriel Method here on CS. I am curious about The Gabriel Method. Does anyone have any experience using this method or have read his book?

This is what I found on the net;

The Gabriel Method is a diet-less program that taps into your body's own logic to determine how fat or thin you will be at any given time. The way to lose weight is not to struggle or to force yourself to lose weight, but to understand this internal logic and work with it so that your body wants to be thinner.

The Gabriel Method also incorporates Jon's extensive background in biochemistry into this 252-page book, which also comes with a guided imagery CD. It has been highlighted on the television show Entertainment Tonight and it is endorsed by the American Holistic Medicine Association.


I don't like taking any kind of pills and prefer the holistic approach. I am honestly curious and want serious feedback. I am not promoting this product.
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