Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman?
We had a debate yesterday night at our favorite restaurant, friends we meet nice a week, boys and girls, talk and laugh...so conversation led us to this issue.
Traits Men Find Attractive in a Woman? So I could resume some out the conversation.
Depending on a man' personality, there are a lot of things that he may find attractive in a woman. It is important to understand though,that men can look at women from two different points of views. The first being a woman to have a temporary love making relationship with and the second to have a woman as a life partner. Depending on these two points of views, men can look for and get attracted by different aspects in a woman. It is easy to understand that when it comes to a temporary love making relationship, men look for a good physical structure, especially nice breasts and back. But when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship is different!!,so i placed some points for them and asked them to choose which one of these men look for and get attracted to an entirely different set of traits.
1.) Smile of a woman
2.) Feminine and delicate Nature
3.) A woman's voice
4.) Sense of humor
5.) Un-materialistic attitude
6.) Strong personality
7.) The eyes
8.) The Woman's Hair
9.) Physical Structure
10.) Comfortable and Confident
Last but not the least, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident. Woman who laugh at their jokes, woman who supports them in and outside and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open.
So these were important traits that swiss men find attractive in women. But again, as I said before, every man has his unique taste.
Now you guys would you like to add some thing and what is the most important Traits in the whole list. as for you ladies not to forget The above points are common to most men but not for all. For every woman there is a man out there, so just relax and look out for him.
One of my young colleges came to office crying today,and could not start work. We all were worried a bout her. By mid day I asked her what happened, and as I expected, she answered it is my boyfriend he has been playing with my feelings and dating other girls too! So I felt sad for her, deep in me I was saying *welcome to real world*!!
Later her boyfriend appeared .so I called him aside and asked him, *why have you been playing with her feelings, she loves you so much, we were getting ready for your wedding party*?
So he answered, some one else played with me before too and hurt me badly…!!
Now I face a tough decision as to whether or not to put up a wall. Do I want to get hurt again? I feel like I'm always the nice guy and getting hurt. So should I continue to risk opening up to these girls just to be burned again? How and when will I know a girl is serious? Maybe now that I'm afraid to get wounded I will run from commitment.
Now what comes along with the fear of commitment? The fear of finding the right person. How do I know I found her? I thought the first girl was the one. Wrong. I thought the second girl could have been the one. Wrong again. So how do I know?
There is only one thing I can do now. I will date different girls and see which one is the right one for me. I will let the girls know that I am only dating at the moment. That means if I meet a girl I think I might be attracted to I will ask for her number. Yes, I am dating other girls, but I am dating. I am not playing. It is there choice to stay in the situation or not. If a girl leaves and I think she was worth keeping I may have to make a tough choice.
Now I choose to tell the girls I am only dating. Other guys may choose not to say that.
So guys what do you think? Who is right and who is mistaken??
After attending an exhibition in East of Switzerland for a long week, and in the way back today I shared some casual conversation with colleges,infact 10 of them,younger than me, and had a good laugh ,so one of them asked me where did my first boyfriend took me for the very first date? I smiled and answered I really do not remember,cunningly, so I can lead them to talk and I learn more from them as they are younger than me
I escaped and told them,{ No matter where you go on a first date, always exercise common sense by choosing good place}, so few of them, answered as below and conversation carried on with laugh, good and bad memories..
1) A museum is an excellent location for a first date, and they're generally inexpensive.
2) A casual restaurant or a coffee house is also a comfortable first date environment..
3) A park is a perfect avenue for a first outing. Walks that turn into picnics are laid back affairs where two people can feel comfortable out in the open.
4) Outdoor concerts cinema,also offer another possibility for pleasant initial dates. Two people can talk in a relaxed atmosphere, and the outdoor arena lends itself to comfortable unrestrictive clothing, which in itself will take some of the dating pressure off each of you.
So guys share your funny and happy places you took your girl-boy friend to? Where was it, was it a success or a failure? And was she/he happy or surprised? Let us share and learn, perhaps have some laugh!!As i had today.Thanks
I was reading some of the blogs in which some of site members have written and I decided to write a bout it as this was center of my conversation several times with friends around, when I used to feel lonely, heart broken and unhappy, not wanting to go back to my cold bed .so here are some responses my friends gave me.
One said rain makes me happy, other said, my friends, lots of hot coffee...and I am one of them as love coffee! A smile of a baby, flowers blooming, my animals, A LOOK OF ADMIRATION CAN TURN MY BAD DAY TO GOOD.SOUNDS CORNY, BUT IT IS TRUE, when I can see the guy that I love, catching just a pretty good glimpse of him makes things better, but if I get a hug or kiss from him my day skyrockets through the roof.
So the list goes on and on. then I turned to an older friend of mine who works at Un Head office in Geneva, and asked ,and you ,what little things makes you happier even when you are lonely and divorced? and please do not tell me your work as I hate this answer!!! he looked at me and replied. Noticing the little things, how many of us pass by a tree full of blooms and flowers and we do not pay attention to it. Many I said,
Well my dear, only you can make your self happy by sharing life’s beauty with other and having the confidence in the change you desire to achieve...
Stop complaining of being lonely, start acting, do mix with others, write, dance, eat and drink and believe in your self. And if can find some to love and be loved nothing can make you ever feel lonely again... Those are the secrete of happiness as I learnt. So try the change. For all of you what are the little things which makes your day???
Hello,
I was chatting with some of my work colleagues over lunch today about Personal Relationships and the way in which perceptions of physical attractiveness are influenced by personality. I found out that individuals – both men and women – who exhibit positive traits, such as honesty and helpfulness, are perceived as better looking. Those who exhibit negative traits, such as unfairness and rudeness, appear to be less physically attractive to observers.
So I asked one of them. Do you think this guy is attractive? I was referring to one of the handsome guys working with us.” Perceiving a person as having a desirable personality makes the person more suitable in general as a close relationship partner of any kind,” said my college, that proofed to me, a positive personality leads to greater desirability as a friend, which leads to greater desirability as a romantic partner and, ultimately, to being viewed as more physically attractive.
Funny to know, most of them repeatedly said regardless of how “attractive” the individual was initially perceived to be, Physical appearance and personality is an independent source in predicting attraction. So we all laughed or deep inside some of the girls wished to have had a committed relationship with a physically attractive person first!! Despite their saying that this, may change over time due to their positive or negative traits!!.
My today’s conversation provided me with positive thinking, by reminding people that personality goes a long way toward determining your attractiveness; it can even change people’s impressions of how good looking you are, Do you want to look attractive? And have you had such experience in which personality won against physical attractiveness?
In my effort to better understand how men think,i reached to some simple and can–not-ignore points , that your, guy isn't the only one whose clueless behavior can trip up your love connection. While we girls may be vigilant about the stuff we care about--like showing affection and including him when making plans--we have a way of letting the stuff that bugs him slide. And that hits him harder than you'd think.
The little things can add up, says psychologist Noelle Nelson, author of The Power of Appreciation in Everyday Life. Some behaviors can drive a wedge between you two and, she says, possibly lead to a split if they remain unchecked.
So guys how to avoid letting mindless mistakes seep into your relationship and create cracks--even craters--in your bond. And what are the five romance-killing habits?and how to keep Your Love on Track?
Why do men fear rejection by women?
In traditional terms, the rejection men experience is an active rejection, whereas what women experience, is more a passive rejection. For women it is one of being overlooked, not being approached
The arising superficial feelings resulting from an active rejection, is normally a feeling of anger in men, and in women, normally that of helplessness. But those are just cover feelings for the core feeling, which is a feeling of a lack of approval for who you are.
If we feel confident in who we are, we would not react to a rejection personally, or feel wounded by it. We would rather ask ourselves whether a) Did I use the wrong bait b) Wrong time, wrong place c)There is a better person, opportunity waiting for me d)What can I learn from it to improve myself .
In every other aspect of life we acknowledge that we do not all have the same tastes, so we do not feel bad because someone does not like the same things we do, so why do we not accept that the same applies in the search for romantic relationships? Yes, we may be rejected by most people, but there will be someone out there, even though it may seem impossible, that will be able to relate to you. In seeking romantic relationships we are looking only for the approval of one person, not heavens forbid, to be the most popular, or in demand. Guys share your experience...
How did you handle rejection at this site????
How to Treat a Woman like a Queen
At our office today, i have many colleges whom they are younger than me in their thirties,as it happens we listen to music while working , so by chance Bryan Adams was singing today *Love your women,*you love a women tell her she is lovey#..ECT...to the end of the song so one those guys said to me [I never understood how to treat women, my girlfriend always tells me make an effort and treat me like your queen!]!!
SoI wanted to share with all the people whom they want to know how to treat a women like a queen...what I have told him..
Many men say that they treat their women like queens, but if you asked their counterparts, the response would not be the same. Learning how to treat a woman like a queen is a process that should be individualized, because all women are different. Taking the time to get to the end goal properly is important. If you know a woman who is deserving of the royal treatment, here are some angles that might work for you.
Step1
Learn her individual likes and dislikes. One of the biggest mistakes in giving a woman the royal treatment is assuming all women like the same thing. For example, every woman doesn’t like roses, so if you like buying flowers, find out their favorite flower. The same approach can be applied to almost every situation. The more you can individualize your selections, the better fit they will be for your queen.
Step2
Go out of your way. After finding out her likes and dislikes, you should focus on acquiring them. You to do what she would want.
Step3
Think and move a step ahead of her. The majority of women love good surprises. The best thing you can do is to not wait to be asked to perform a task that you already know or can conceive that she would want done
Step4
Pay extra attention to the little things. Details are what make moments special, and when giving a woman special attention, no detail should be left out. Be sure that the little things are always in order. Being attentive to details will make memories last forever, and that is your goal.
So try out and tell me. Good luck to all.
Could a man and a woman be “just friends”!? Can it be so, or is it mission impossible?
Nowadays men and women are interacting very actively at work. They have common hobbies. So naturally, the question arises: “Is it possible for a man and a woman socialize without s*xual attraction, tension, passion and stay in platonic relationship?
Yesterday i was lucky enough to attend an old friends gatherings, and during our conversation, i initiated the conversation of our live with purpose to some friends whom I knew well, they spend long hours working and leave their partners complaining about not having quality time together .So I asked some ‘’what would be your preference in this life, work or love ?‘’ and looking at the bright side, seeing the surprise in their faces, wishes, regrets Ect.... I asked them ‘’if we were given an opportunity to plead our case for a second chance at life, to come up with all the reasons that could possibly be compelling enough to have our wish granted. If we had more time on this earth, what would we do differently?
The reason at the top of everyone’s list wasn’t to work harder, make more money, or have more things—It was to love more. Some people wanted more time with their families, some wanted to treat their wives and children better, and some still needed a chance to experience real, true, soul mate love.
If you were given a chance to live your life to the fullest every, single day, how would you live? What would you change? What would you do? Well, guess what—you do have that chance. Every second on this earth you have an opportunity to live your life to the fullest. So the real question here is: Why aren’t you doing it now?
While I enjoy reading blogs at this site, some times I feel unhappy by reading some women blogs...so sad...so negative and so depressive!!And unattractive, so I think to my self
Why do some people enjoy life and others don't?
What i found is that if someone is happy with life, he is more popular. We all like hanging around with happy people, they are also more productive, healthier and live longer. Every positive you can think of, they come up trumps, so it has to be an aim worth having.
If you're optimistic and you think life is going to get better, it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy, you will involve yourself more, you'll put yourself forward more, you will take more care of yourself. You'll figure that if you do more exercise and not booze as much, life will be better.
But some of us are just not natural optimists. What are we supposed to do?
I believe optimism can be learned, that we can teach ourselves to see a half-empty glass as half-full. All we have to do is spend time mulling over all the things that have gone right for us, rather than dwelling on what has gone badly. Research on depression shows that one of the biggest causes of depression is ruminating about something that went wrong in the past .What happens is you look into the past and think about some event and keep turning it over, saying, I messed up, I messed up, and you let it hurt you. You keep feeding it the oxygen of attention and the flames keep burning you.
But just as dwelling on negative events can lead to depression, dwelling on things that have gone well can help pick you up.
You have to thank your lucky stars about what goes right on a daily basis. Whenever you get the feeling of being negative about things, just take a moment out and remind yourself of the stuff that has gone well. It could be anything from a conversation to your garden looking nice, or that it didn't rain on you when you were out on your bike. It's an extremely powerful technique. So be happy life is beautiful. And please do not write sad issues. Let every smile and enjoy happiness.
How do you pick the right blooms for your blossom or your bloke?
Rose
* Romantic individuals, full of passion and drama in love and life. Strong opinions can sometimes lead to conflict but they always find the beauty in life.
Orchid
* Deliberately private, orchids have an air elegance and mystery that makes them highly attractive to others.
Tulip
* Often the domestic type, a tulip finds great pleasure in an organised and well-kept living space. Loyalty and family values are strong characteristics.
Lily
* A passive and friendly personality, lilies are generally considered to be shy, but are characterised by elegant and classic tastes, so they often have a greater impact on those around them than they realise.
Iris
* A classic beauty, there are many layers to the iris and this complexity can often lead to an emotional, rather than intellectual, response to problems and issues.
Gardenia
* They display a marked leadership ability intuition. Often seen by others as aggressive and powerful, they also have a certain grace, underlaid by charm.
Best way to know what to offer ask her/him what he /she likes..then good luck.
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