i feel sorry for us

i am not new and appreciate your kind words. there comes a point though when one realizes that you will not find your "soulmate". hate to burst bubbles but it is what it is.. think existentialism.

ya same here.

I'm sorry but if you stop looking is like saying that you are giving up on life. Trying is the key word...everyone must try until...there is never an end....you must continue until...So if you are saying that you are giving up on your search then you are giving up on life. NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP! At least you have tried and that's what is important. I will continue trying until my life is over, and I'll know that, at least, I tried, you'll never know until you try.

Hi AShley854

Not really , not everyone is lonely here, I am not lonely and I have so many interest to do beside this cs. We all have friends in real, isn't it? there are many things we can do to make ourself happy, such as singing, dancing, drawing and many other.
CS is one of the place to let us passing the time,we can read people's blog and making new friend if we are clip. This site also have movie, music for us to spend the time. so how can be lonely?
Lonley is yourself let it slip into your insdie. Think in other way, we just here for passing time,by the way give ourself a chance to get our desitny. Love always happen, but happen without you notie it. however if you only counting the day and upset why you haven't find your love then you make yourself upset and hopeless then you would feel lonely.

Me always think we can learn lots of thing from the net, especially the human being. too many kind of people here, learn from lives and cyber lives too.

Don't let the lonely draging you but tell yourself. " If I don't create my destingy myself, fate may just slip away from me".

I don't have too many friends in real but I have true heart friend in real though only few, my social circle is narrow so I have to create chances on the net so I have hope, maybe it is only 1% chance , but when? how long? I don't expect and let it goes naturally........but At least I have hope,better than no hope, right?

I only know If I don't on the net searching, Then I not even have that 1% chance

Hey, we don't try but we "do"" , Well, " do without expecting, then no any disappointed you would feel"

Cheer! merry christmas to all of you.

RLM- thank you, very true

Green- yes, you make very good points.

I did that very thing your suggesting a couple years ago, works very well indeed, seem to have a lot more friends now than before and once in a while I even get Lucky

We all have are days when we may feel sorry but that party ain't going to last long and I know I will find love again not a perfect person because I am not perfect and If it takes 2yd or 10 yds I will still be hopeful