What are women thinking

Here on this site I often here women say they are looking for a good guy and everything their profile says, but out in the real world I see them with the opposite guy. So what are they thinking. Do they know what they want or do they just make a bad choice in life. My and I are very different where here does not let his girlfriend out of his sight and even controls what she enjoys in life. In 2007 my x did not talk to here mom at all and I told her she should because a parent relationship is a must. I even told her to go and visit her out of state. At this point we began to have relationship problems. You see I never even called her a bad name or even fought with here. I refuse to fight that is just retarded. Why does a woman say the opposite of what she does.