lovelyliza Blog Comments (42)

RE: Define love

Love- is what makes the world go round...if there's no love the world will be flat..no colors and no music..So I define love is what it makes you wanting to live every minute in this earth...

RE: NO expectation NO dissapointment

no worries Hanie...you're too young..plus this is not a place to find the right guy for you...this place are full of dishonest ppl...When i was your age, I don't worry about boys/men...They follow me...and my priorities was to finish my schooling...Good Luck..

RE: How to handle Rejection.

I just asks my friends to party... go shopping, going karaoke..dancing..hehehehehe and all the fun stuff...

RE: how? love

John, you said you love women from the other countries... If you have such no luck in this country..why? don't you explore to marry a woman from the other countries...In fact, I have 3 filipina friends that found their husbands thru dating sites, then came over with their kids and marry American men...And have one American guy who met his wife thru dating site, then brought the woman and her 2 kids here...4 of them that I know personally have successful story...

but, i do understands your point of view..that it's lonely to be alone...but some of Us were happy with their love ones..but i take my life in finding the right person a stride...when God have the right person for me, then I will accept it whole heartedly..if not I will accept it to...i believe there is someone for everyone...So just wait for the blessing...

RE: how good is this site ??

it's good for me... At least I can talk to other ppl all over the world...plus it's free...but I am not lucky yet to find that right man yet...but the world is still young..so I keep on looking..

RE: respect your elders

still respect your elders...afterall, they're the one's that care for you to become who you are today...when they were wrong and your right!!!You have the opportunity to explain to them in a good way...

RE: Relationships: The World of Contradiction

that's what the realization comes to play as the ppl get older...As we age, and reach forty/40 yrs. old...We/ppl slow down and think about what really matters for US!!!..either could be a family, a career, a belonging what we are here for on this planet earth...Our sense of purpose, where we heading, and sense of self-confidence, self-worth...and fulfillment...As You know when we're young..we/ppl most of US were struggling of that notion about what might ppl think of US...What we can contribute to the society...to those ppl that stigmatized with consciense of uncertainty, and acceptance with others..and so on, and on...I been through all that pattern how to be good, work hard, get acceptance with others, and somehow competency...either it's materialistic, idealistic, education, and values/belief..

As I age, all of that was come only in few things that matters the most nowadays..1- is survival in these uncertainty of this free world we live in...2-is about values, that my parents instilled for me,,,then I pass it on to my 2 sons..but it's hard when you lived in this technology age..that communication is rear bec of online messaging, texting, and so on...It becomes to have a wall and isolation in a lot of the ppl. somehow, there's a big barrier in our society nowadays...but i have to focus on how I can keep my family safe and secure...

RE: Would like so much to move on........

I am feeling sad too...I broke up with my bf 3 months ago...but no fault of our own,,,it's the distance and the nature of our lives...But I believed that there's someone for everyone out there,including me that awaits for us to meet someday...You're still young and beautiful...so I'm sure there's special man for you...

RE: No More nice Girls

Same question..Is there any more nice guys left for me???

RE: FAIL YOUR WAY TO THE TOP

@ Carlitos,,,
I think your just jebberishing the topic...Pls. I know how to understands your English...TOO much yak-k-d-yak... Your mad bec I said something that you don't like to hear....

RE: FAIL YOUR WAY TO THE TOP

@ THE OP...
WHAT EXACTLY YOUR POINT???..DUDE...IT SEEMS TO ME IS AN ENDLESS LIFE STORY TELLING..MEANS, A "RHETORICAL QUESTION" THAT DOESN'T NEEDS A GOOD ANSWER... Cool ka lang "PARE" hehehehehe...can't read too many info/TMI..but there's NO meaning...So what? if "JESUS" don't have a proper schooling...HE don't need to..because He was the "POWERFUL ONE"...the creature of the UNIVERSE>>>do you know that in your elementary School???...I'm guessing You don't have any some kind of religion, and despice ppl that got famous without proper schooling, but they worked their way up...YOU..I presumed has a lot of jealousy and hatred towards civilization....

RE: Unconditional love is a choice not a feeling

To Blogger,
You're right about that...the only LOVE that is unconditionally are for our families (parents, brothers/sisters, and our child/children)...God is more unconditional to me, more than Spiritual...bec I declare God's name, thank HIm everyday and night...Loving someone that I only dated for a couple of months to a yr.. don't really fits to my unconditional Love...

RE: Your Advice Can Help Someone

that they're not worth of your time/nor my time, if it happens to me...matter of factly, it did happened to me few times...when my ex-husband fooled around...Yessssss...I took it seriously...but the pain healed as the time passed...Few of my so called BF...that I dated for 6months,1 yr. to 2 yrs...yesssss..that's affected me when we broke up..but I somehow managed to lift up myself...Yesssss,,,you get hurt now, cuz it was your ego that was hurt...but let it go...if she really meant for you, she will come back but beware that she would play you out again....I never take anyone back for the second time...one's someone hurt my feelings it don't be the same...but can be mended...take care...

RE: Another year gone... Another straight ahead....

Yep, it's been good in here/CS..a lot of ppl were friendly..this is the only site that I know...been for 10 months...good luck to you my mr.senteddy...PPl helped me a lot to past time when i was hurt...Wish you good health and happiness.

RE: DEDICATED TO THE DREAMERS...

my dreams are: to win that $125.000.000.000 Mega ball jackpot last night...but I don't got all the nos. and to go to that palce in Paris/France... and serenade me while I'm riding on a boat...heheheheeh..but that video of yours was very calming effect...Happy New year....I wish everyone the best of the 2011, and peace on earth towards men/women/children...

RE: men

To SWISSBLUE
Thank you for depending in behalf of all women out there...You're absolutely right...I did encounter that kind of species... that until now..he keep saying he misses me, and love me but he don't call,,nor come here anymore...so I just play a guessing game... happy New Year to you!!and all...

RE: !!!!!!LADIES BEWARE!!!!!!!!!

Hollyberries,and all the nice ppl in here..I just wish guys a Happy New year, and peace on earth...



Holly, how are you??? how's your grand children>>how's your x-mas...my friend!!!..

RE: !!!!!!LADIES BEWARE!!!!!!!!!

Mary,
I hope this man, was not the man that I been talking for a 3 weeks...His profile said; from HOuston, Texas...45 yrs. old...an Engineer, and traveled to MAlaysia to build a bridge...and Dec. 10th, he was asking me for money, if I can send Him money to finance his business... I told him, i don't have money, and i don't send money to any person that i didn't know...then, he said what about your CC..."I said NO..i don't give my credit card to anyone esp. with You!!cuz i don't know you?" I was mad @ him..then I told Him that I will report him...then I checked his profile....He is originally living in UK.... He was mad @ me..and called me a lier...I knew ppl write "lier" were from that country and neighboring nations...until now, he still pop once in a while in my yahoo...even I deleted him...his CS name is c_donald75...and he was also talking to another woman from the same state as mine....SCARY..THERE'S A LOT OF PSYCHO...

RE: A Man between Two Women

I think you're wrong...keeping two women-is only good for your big 'EGO"...If I we're on your gf's shoes...i would leave you long time ago...heheheeh...I don't tolerate BS....bec. i don't do it in my part....that kind of personcalled a two timer...there's 'KARMA" on that....habit..

RE: christmas wishes

Same wishes to You john...I like that garden as a back drop...wish you and the whole world...peace on earth and good will towards men...

RE: need advice

SWAN,
Merry x-mas...How is everything girl...I don't know if you remember me..when I post on your thread back on October...Anyway, have a joyous holidays... New Year New dear....heheheheh

RE: Never Thought I'd Be Here

Well, I must say that, it is unfortunate for US women who lost a good life that once WE had experienced....but that doesn't mean it is the end of the world for US/women....men go through the same path we're heading(some men) that WE were a victim of a selfish, self-centered, arrogant, despicable person once that we loved....WE thought that they would grow with US together till death do as part...but the SOCIETY change all that notions...esp. in a world today that WE live in/technology age...it is easy to delete an individual in their life if they see/find another person more appealing to them...They don't care if someone's get hurt as long as they get their ways....That happened to me 10 yrs. ago, when my ex left me with another woman..but i showed him, that I won't die without him...but the pretty part of the story was!!!, the woman that he replace for me died after 2 yrs. that they were together... that's called "KARMA"...and they think i VODOO her...It was going to be a bittersweet, but i don't laugh in someone's misery...Now, I am still here.with my two grown up boys..and finished my degree...that's it..don't mourn too much with the guy that they don't care about your feelings...CHEER UP..AND MERRY X'MAS...

RE: christmas boo

John,
Merry x'mas to you in advance...I have to asks your guardian Angel will be coming your way... and bring you that gift you wanted(which is a family),even just for the holidays....Chin up...John...

RE: my mail keeps on disapearing

don't get desmay!!bec it happens to me all the time before.. esp. whenyou neede someone to talk to...

RE: Heartbreak

To spnglish,
One of the blogger is right...Our hearts can't be broken..but it is our EGO that is broken,,,bec when we don't get that expectation/the way WE wanted our relationship to be!!!our ego and our subconscious mind works overtime...That's why We do the "PITY ME" sad storeis...GF's everyone of US get heartbroken, if that's what WE call it...But WE mend it in no time...Just keep busy doing something meaningful, igf you don't have jobs!!1then volunteer yourself with ppl that You can make a difference of their, and they will appreciate You.. happy Holidays...

RE: I have found him!!!!!!!!!!!!

TO Livin,
I guess congrats is in order... @ least there's someone find happiness...

RE: Are good deeds dead and gone?

To heartfelt,
I adore You being that kind of personality..bec, there were not too many people now a days that offer help in an instant...But helping others/doing good deeds never be in the past....I do that too!!doing some volunteering jobs as an "OMBUDSMAN"-looking for the elderly in Nursing Homes if they were taking cared for..bec my job is caring for the elderly in Private homes, and Nursing Homes...i am always eager to help someone when in need...Don't get hurt for that couples reaction, cuz that was normal...Those old couple showed that they can take care of themselves(it's about their independence, plus thier ego)...I understands, and you're kind of disappointed when they turned you down...But keep that good quality bec. it's very rare to find nowadays...You must have a good heart my friend!!!

RE: bipolar

TO JOHN,
BIPOLAR-is a chemical embalance in the brain..that the SERATONIN levels is low...well you can google that subject...There's high and Lows for the person that has the disease...I don't want to go through more details, bec this is the type of work that i do..and it's not fair for them if I reveal a lot of info.. but your friend needs a lot of people that are understanding, and compasionate....so, be a good friend with her/him...Oh!!you have several friends who are BIPOLAR???..Oh!! OMG!!

RE: Why????????

Good Advice...That's how I do it too...I seek advice to my family and friends.. but I still weigh their advice and my own opinion, but at the end of the day, if my poinion is right...I will go for it..But somehow..i am on your subject

RE: Quick message for today

thanks!! for the warning...But sometimes that's how you learn from Your mistakes...Like the saying says; "FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON YOU, FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON YOU, BUT FOOL ME 3X SHAME ON ME".. he,he,he