Are good deeds dead and gone?

Is helping thy neighbor or doing a good deed a thing of the past? Just wondering because I don't see to much of it anymore.
Is it due to the economy and having to work longer hours and having no time? Is it out of fear that we no longer allow others to help us out when needed? or is it really that we as people no longer care for others needs? I remember aproaching a elderly couple at the grocery store loading their groceries into there trunk while I had just finished loading my own into my trunk and asked if they would like some help since it looked to me like they were having some trouble lifting there gorceries out of there cart when the man and his wife replied no we're alright with a sound of fear in their voice then later turned to me and said thank-you for the offer though. Later I over heard the man say to his wife as he closed the trunk that you don't hear someone offer their help like that anymore. I just wonder is good deeds a thing of the past?
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wave HeartFeltMale

In such the hectic world we live, ppl do not stop,,
It seems that basic manners have been forgotten doh

The world I live in pple cross the road to say wave they say wave when I enter a shop, they come when I need help and I to are there for them hug

It seems i am lucky to live in such a world

wine beer cheers handshake hug
it never happen to you only,,,guess now people are just aware of strangers,psecially now a days,crime is too high and dont get me wrong here dear,,cos even me as a woman who just wanted to help an old couple put myself into something very crude situation...i just want to help to carry there heavy stuff to cross the road while they are holding each others hand,,but i was accused of ,,,want to steal their stuffgrin doh well,,what can i say,,nice sharing though,,,nice blogcheers handshake
I think there are times you can help and people would not give it a second thought. For example helping a lady carry her pushchair/pram up/down stairs on the underground/tube in the city or stopping a toddler running out of a store because the parent can't keep up loaded with shopping. I know my neighbours and they are in general helpful but hear tales of people who never know their neighbours and even sadder cases of people dying at home alone and noone knows for a long time. wave
Its allways good to help people!cheering cheering applause
I believe that people in the cities are just too busy chasing the almighty dollar and keeping up with the Jones to care much about what goes on outside of their own lives. Social engineering has had a lot to do with this. Women working outside of the home and children with playdates and soccer practice, ballet class etc. Who has the time?
Now that I live in a tiny Southern community it is very different. People do care and are very helpful. Very nice but sometimes can be stifling.
hi

may be after reading these few linesu would say sthn I m expecting,but here is it :
wether people belive it or not;deathe is a proof of an ending of ur deeds and automatically rewrds.there is a reason for the creation.
actual life is going harsher coz its coming to its end.

good deeds will never disappear as long as good people are there until the jugement day. by the prophet mohamed(PBUH)
its still here, the good deeds its not in the past, it just that people nowadays got busy with them self n forgot to look at others
To heartfelt,
I adore You being that kind of personality..bec, there were not too many people now a days that offer help in an instant...But helping others/doing good deeds never be in the past....I do that too!!doing some volunteering jobs as an "OMBUDSMAN"-looking for the elderly in Nursing Homes if they were taking cared for..bec my job is caring for the elderly in Private homes, and Nursing Homes...i am always eager to help someone when in need...Don't get hurt for that couples reaction, cuz that was normal...Those old couple showed that they can take care of themselves(it's about their independence, plus thier ego)...I understands, and you're kind of disappointed when they turned you down...But keep that good quality bec. it's very rare to find nowadays...You must have a good heart my friend!!!comfort
I appreciate all the feed back each of you have given me, and each of you have a good point. I am, and will always be one to offer my help to others though they may not want or need it, I feel it never hurts to offer or asks others if they do need a little help now and then. I think honestly we could all use a hand at some point. Anyway, thanks again for the feedback from each of you. Kellyheart wings
The same thing has happened to me when I offered to help. People don't trust strangers I guess. Don't let it stop you from lending a hand. :)
Hi HeartFeltMale,Funny how you have gotten women to respond.Well you should already know why things are the way they are.confused But as far as it depends on you..whatever your hand finds to do...yay ..Do it unto Him
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