Heartbreak
We all have gone through some heartbreak in our lives, but all I hear is how impossible it is to let go. Why is that? I mean, if this man or woman loves you, then why would you seek to destroy your chance at real love/a future? It's like that person would rather just stay in the past, never giving more than a certain percentage of themselves, making it impossible for the other person (the one who keeps trying) to love him/her. It is never-ending obstacles and so very tiring. What would you do?
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bloddy english ...
I do so and it works..
it literally feels like someone has ripped it out of you
you cant stop crying, cant sleep, feel sick, cant eat, constant head ache, a feling of emptiness, cant eat, just dont want to get up and face the day
but you can pick yourself up slowly, its trying to focus on the good things around you, remembering who you have in your life who loves you and leaning on them for support
difference is when you have truly loved and have had your heartbroken you find yourself wanting what you have lost, trying to replace that person is hard as you compare everyone to him, even though you dont mean to but you know your doing it and you just cant stop it, its mad
you build this barrier up against you so you dont let anyone close to you unless they prove to you their not going to hurt you which i hard for that person as they need to get close to you to prove to you that they care for you
its catch 22
they say it takes 6 weeks for evey year of being with someone for your heart to truly mend and to heal hence why the longer you have been together the longer you need to give yourself time to heal
One of the blogger is right...Our hearts can't be broken..but it is our EGO that is broken,,,bec when we don't get that expectation/the way WE wanted our relationship to be!!!our ego and our subconscious mind works overtime...That's why We do the "PITY ME" sad storeis...GF's everyone of US get heartbroken, if that's what WE call it...But WE mend it in no time...Just keep busy doing something meaningful, igf you don't have jobs!!1then volunteer yourself with ppl that You can make a difference of their, and they will appreciate You.. happy Holidays...
You know the reality when you break a glass it is broken.And then you can collect the pieces of a glass one by one.Than You stick all the pieces and you can use the glass again but the glass wont be good as the first shape before it is broken.So never break a heart.And never become so easy to forgive.Because everybody has an honour, prestige and loyalty.Dont forget this...