Loneliness is hard to bear. It's truly painful.

Maybe you've recently moved to a new city or neighborhood, to a new college or school. Maybe you've left or lost a love relationship. Maybe it's just time for some new friends. Whatever the reason, you're ready to - you'd like to - meet some new people. Good. That's a very human thing to do. We are, after all, social beings. Even if we appreciate solitude, we also like to be with others - especially compatible souls. It helps us to feel more alive - to enjoy life more - to have fuller lives. Having friends is definitely good!

If you consistently have trouble finding or making new friends for yourself, perhaps there's a problem within you that needs addressing. Try to recognize the patterns in your life. Perhaps you're too busy with work or other responsibilities and need to make more time for friendships. Perhaps you have a problem with shyness that needs addressing. You may need some help with these kinds of problems, either from a wise, supportive and insightful friend, a counselor or pastor, or a professional therapist.
If you don't have a special interest, hobby or talent (you probably do but you might not have discovered it yet), just go and do whatever activity sounds like fun or pleasant to you. If you're especially shy, there may even be a support group for shy people like you, not too far away! But you've got to take action and find it.

I Do remember, i am not alone. Whatever my beliefs and interests and problems, there are others who share them - possibly many people - and probably not that far away. The challenge is to find them, so we can befriend one or two.
I have joined the world of you love through this web. & i am really feeling Loneliness. Welcome you all......