Where are the ladies.

she will come to u when u least expect it i suppose....besides ur not alone searching ....

Where are the ladies.
by: Michael195

try looking in the in the womens profiles,, there's plenty here Bonne chance

Thanks for your comments, I know im not alone just down on myself I suppose. Its awsome to have two ladies from different parts of the world blog me.

Dont despair,they are out there somewhere.You will find someone.Keep cheerful and optimistic,have faith and hope.x

Have you tried using the Forums?
It's a good way of getting to know a lot of fun people.
Best of luck, mate!

After I viewd your profile I can see where part of your problem is..It says your in your late 40's but your looking for females from 18 to early 30? Seriously in my opinion too many men go on these sites without being very realistic.. I posted a realistic profile to get decent results..I also dont understand how a man can think any good looking girl who is 18 will be interested in a man older than her dad?
Unless she is very unattractive, has no job and is looking for a man to take care of her, I just dont think its gonna happen.
You have 3 kids and most 18 year olds are gonna also want a man whos either got no kids or only maybe 1 and is closer to her own teenage years.
Also I would recommend you look at yourself and see what level you are on in looks, employment and availability..Then pick a reasonable age bracket, looks level and employment.
You might have better results.
I would never go on a dating site expecting to meet a 25 year old who is also above me in looks and employment because I think it would just be ridiculous for me to think someone like that is going to settle with a woman much older who makes less than they do..Why do people post unrealistic profiles then complain later about it? I'm not bashing you..Just giving some real advise and not patting you on the back giving you false hopes..Good luck to ya..

Ok I noticed you just changed your age group to 28 to 38 and even though thats a bit more mature age than 18 at least it still is a age group where the females can still have children and seeing you dont want anymore, it might create a problem if the women are wanting children..Plus at your age of 49 it still is a 20 year age differernce for a 28 year old and i would guess most of them wouldnt date a guy almost 50..You put on your profile you just looking for some fun times and alot of women including older ones are tired of men going on dating sites looking for just fun..You said on your blog you wondered where all the ladies were and thats in my opinion asking whats up, so I thought I would just put some of my own female opinion on here to respond to that question..

i agree , you need to be a little more realistic, ive seen this with so many men, those younger girls are usually independant, want no ties, hang out with people in their own age group and though they may think oh an older man would be nice they will end up not hanging around .. your values and lifestyles will be different her friends will end up having more fun than she is and she will miss that... sweetheart reality hurts sometime but the shear truth is go for a lady your own age you will have more of a chance of finding someone who is sincere and wanting the same as you.. i wish you luck and the others are right you are so not alone .. so many of us out there looking for mr or miss right.. chin up sport it will happen...

Michael you are getting some great advice here 2day , time, time is your friend with 3 kids you will need time to find someone for long term and if not pour yourself into your children and go where other single parents hang out ,,game rooms arcade, restaurants with game rooms