Relationships and the "Valentine Vampire"

Have you ever been in a relationship where they shower you with praises,complements and gifts? They are also calling you all the time on the phone or your email has so many attachments that you feel you better look at all of them because you know they will ask? Then the next thing you realize is that all your energy is drained because you have to re-assure them constantly that you are interested in them, love or committed to them or you will get the "silent treatment" or the reminder that they love you and can't live without you?

It happens to "Guys" too. One time I had to stop volunteering to move them because I have a truck. It became a ritual every six months when their lease ran out. Also, I can weld,plumb,carpenter,a jack of all trades. I had to get real dumb otherwise I became their handy man. That's maybe why I got smart and went to school for Journalism. See, I still haven't learned anything. I just told you my skills and I have tools.

OK, my CS tribe and family, we are in the season for Valentine Vampires. So, get your garlic, crosses and stakes ready to place around your neck.

Happy Valentine to the staff of CS and to all you. I love you and this site and I cannot live without you. LOL :)
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I agree with what you are saying in this comment. I think that you will not find that 'soulmate / perfect - well you never get the full 100%) person until you are happy in your own skin. When you know yourself and when you feel comfortable with your own thoughts and feelings you will meet the people that continue to allow you to be just you. I'd love to understand the natural instinct in men to -as some one in the IEforum put it- ' feel their emotions and keep them in their bodies!" I'd love to understand this instinct because it is one of the things that creates problems between men and women in my opinion. Its the killer question - "how to you feel about etc. , and I never dare ask it because i'm aware of mens aversion to disclosing their emotions. Whats your opinion on this one stevenmagos?
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