things that breaks us and makes us

My mom passed last year on my father's birthday, that was sad enough. For her passing anniversary i was planning on doing something to celebrate her life, Guess what? my dad called me today to announce that he is getting married, I think it was insensitive of him, parents should know that children still hurt no matter how grown up they are, now i find myself between a rock and a hard place as to weather to attend his wedding.
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Ring him and tell him how you realy feel , he may have thought you might of been happy for him as he wont be all ALONE
I think u should attend his wedding and congractulate him for forgetting ur mom!
@Dervish Dervish
... and now you really think it was witty you have written...doh
Life is for the living...keep your mom's memories close to your heart. YOU still have your dad-be gracious and kind and embrace love in his new wife with an open heart. Life is too short to celebrate death.
@Ashwina,how a man can forget his love in one year! dunno bluesatleast one should take a little time to make their children convince about the next marriage. doh
Callio life is for living that i know!but atleast a father should take a permission from his children for their new mom.btw happened so happened but if he is not made realised about what he did wrong than what is the probability of not doing any such type of mistake again.if she not attend the wedding than might her new mother will try to take advantage of it and if den attend the marriage simply then her father will not realize his mistake of ignoring the wish of his children,so little protest with right proportion of love and anger is needed.
@denlink I understand how you're feeling as it seems rather fast that he is planning marriage not even a year since your Mom passed. I would be hurt too. It is up to you to talk with him about it in a gentle way of course. Because there will be this uncomfortable feeling between the two of you. He is happy right now and may not be realizing how this is affecting you.

This is something you are going to have to accept and yes as difficult as it will be and no matter how much you don't want to go, he is your father and so I feel you should go to the wedding.

hug comfort
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