ok so....

I have no Qualms with you sweetheart,so far you have not told even one lie..Splendid job..Keep it that way

I honestly think women hide more and say less than men.

Some men don't like to play games but instead like a woman to be upfront and honest about everythingif you are not answering their questions then it is you in fact that is the one who is playing silly gamesThink about it.

I understand where everyone is coming from in the sence that women don't mention things but in the situation I'm refering to i try and be upfront about everything and but i think once they realize that they try and use that against me.knowing I'm not perfect i give ppl the benefit of the doubt a lil too much and it always ends up what i was fearing is true. Then when i act the way they have been acting its a like someone crashed their brand new beemer.they go crazy...for example a guy can have as many female friends as he wish calling or txting him,come over for drinks (without there singnificant other being there) and lend their car to them and its cool but if a female so much as get a text or a phone call everything is over. Is that a guilty mind cause they have been doing wrong or? ??????

You are going out with the wrong guys! These guys are possessive, controlling and manipulative (also selfish). You also give them TMI about yourself supplying the tools for them to play their evil little games.

Getting to know a person first before you reveal yourself to them completely is not being dishonest. Take time to learn about each other and enjoy the quality that that reflects on your relationship. You would not buy a book and skip the last page to see how the story ends. It is the same in a relationship, each chapter has to be written with care and forethought.

Take heart you will know when he is the .1. until then, keep dating