friends after lovers?

i say it can be done indeed!

Can b done only q is is it wanted u know it depends on the feelings dont want them to be hurt huh

Yes .. One can become 'friends' after having been lovers. However, it took two years of apologising to my friend for initiating the break up between us because I discovered that I did not fancy her!

I had been on my own for a number of years when we met, and I gave in to the temptation. Hardly surprising you might add after being celibate for so long!

Thing is, my best friend now has a new boyfriend, and he was all over her like a rash the other day, when we three were out having a pizza.

She got all uppity and defensive about his behaviour when I mentioned that I felt discomfited by it.

And that I would never have done that in front of her with another girl, particularly if she had she still been on her
own.

David. Bath Spa./U.K.

Give it time. A relationship dying is very much like a relative dying. You go through the same emotions.
Why do you feel a need to be friends with your ex? Some form of compensation perhaps? Let her be, she has to come to that place in her life .

I'm sorry, very long tongue, I have to take long time to reply. I saw your name in pink color (it means woman) and then when I read your blog I found out "my ex girlfriend". I thought for a while, uh no some while. I must have a short memory.

Here we go.

Well, if you end up the relationship in a good way, you both can still remain as friends but this is very rare, especially in woman and woman relationship. Both of you will put emotional things when broke up.

If you want to remain friends, just try. Maybe one day both of you will talk again.


Summer

Thanks guys no I don't want to b friends with my ex toooo many feelings and no it wasent a very good breakup but not a lot are good are they just was thinking back 2 what she said n the beginning she said we will always b friends I knew better than that I was first women she had messed with other than wn she was 13 she's 34 know

I think it is how both parties see things. It can be done, you don't find long lasting friendship everyday if it is sincere.

Mmm generally I don't like it. But yes I am friend with... let's see... 2 of my lovers and I get well with my ex-husband!