Wonder why some people do what they do.

I've always wondered wjy some people are able to cause so much conflict and maddness. When the things there trying to get me in trouble for, are exactly what there doing. Well guess the point I'm trying to get at is, step-mom tells me I'm not suppose to talk about a car wreck or something with my business, in front of siblings. But when the kids are right there at the bank with me, how you suppose tp not make it so kids don't hear things. I'm sure I've got people confused, this has just been driving me nuts since yesterday afternoon. Guess siblings won't be able to watch the news soon or something stupid like that.