What are women really wanting?

I am hoping that someone can answer this question for me because I'm confused. Woman say they are looking for true love, but base their search of a guy on looks, money, current living conditions, and age. The handsome guys turn out to be cheaters, well-off/rich guys turn out to be controlling and sometimes abusive, and the guys they figure are a certain age are the only ones who are mature but turn out to be big kids wanting to play house. The when "mr. right" does come along, the woman in question puts in in the "friends" category or ridicules him for things that other guys have done like its his fault.
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She'll be right Pal!!! Has your Hot Rod got a Back Seat in it???rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
cheers
Reassurance, gratitude, certainty, love, told they look pretty and smell nice, notice their new shoes or hair cut, manners, compassion, calmness.....

Yeah, I had to look it up.
Kcrash, I'm not looking for true love, I already have that from my God, age is just a number to me, so that doesn't count in my books, money is something that I work for, not to be taken away from some man, and all men are a Mr. Right for some women out there. And I have never blamed a man for what another has done.
Nor will I judge a man by what he looks like.
Cause in the end, are we not all just human beings?

teddybear
they look for truthful man that they can depend on him. but i think it is their right to choose their partners as it is ur right to choose ur partner also. and believe me god give them something in their heart something can discover the truthfulness of the man. so keep looking and u will find ur soulmate.
Btw. am not rich and not a good looking man but i found a girl here in this site and guess what she did not look for what u said before so keep looking and u will find someonecheers cheers cheers cheers
Kcrash -

negative attitude = negative vibes professor

Rich: In Monaco, I'd be a pauper
In some other countries I'd be rich.

Better to be happy with what you have and find someone that apreciates you for being you.

In employment and dependable.


Looks: Pretty ladies with a nice personality are more attractive than beauty with a cold heart.

Just talk to folk and make friends - see where it leads.

z wave
does true love really exist?

and what are MEN really wanting?

Somebody answer these questions for me, please. grin
Well, I dont know, I guess a good decent guy in a womans eye, is someone who has money and a decent job. And an indecent guy is the one that doesnt have a good job or money. When in actual fact, its the opposite. Bad guys get money and good guys get none.

Talking about judging a guy, cause of what other guys have done, yes, I experience that. My friend who is a girl, now hates me, cant even look at me and I sort of feel that she is trying to avenge me somehow, cause of what her boyfriend does.
Everytime he beats the hell out of her, she treats me like I have done something terribly wrong to her.
I guess its a physicological thing, that she cant avenge her boyfriend cause she loves him, so she avenges other men.
First of all your right rainbow13. It is a psychological thing. Since her boyfriends beats on her so she is afraid of him, but EVERYBODY has their limit. Right now she is venting/lashing out against other dominate figures so she can obtain her sense of personal security back. If she doesn't vent in the right way she will obviously push the right person away, and eliminate the actual problem herself, even if it kills her.
Majed82 I agree with the fact that people have the right to choose who they want to be with. And I'm basically asking this question to understand why a woman will complain about the last guy she was with or is currently with, when the guy she is almost 100% compatible to is staring her right in the face, but she won't give him a chance cause of what he looks like or his age or income just isn't what she expected.
Hope this help ya:

Stability, love, afectiune, respect, trust, understanding if a man can have all this then he's the best man.wine
In my experience it is difficult to bunch all women together and say that they want a specific set of things from a partner. They are individuals and vary widely in their expectations. This is part of the joy of dating and getting to know women. Finding out about their personalities, their styles and their needs and wants and how they perceive you for your needs and wants too (which varies from man to man).

Many women (not all) are still happy to maintain a relationship with a guy if he provides her with 'security'. Whether she prefers emotional security or financial or both is again, up to the individual. Some women specifically don't seem to need any type of security at all. Some just want a boyfriend for a friend. Some only want a physical relationship. There is a really wide spectrum out there and you need to remember that it is heavily influenced by her age, outlook and cultural considerations also.

In short, no easy answer I'm afraid. But can be alot of fun finding out the answer yourself.
I'm just looking for a "connection"....no other way to explain it other than that.....oi.maybe I'm just complicateddunno ....oh yes...I used to live in Ocala for 2 yearslaugh wave
You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly
ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy.
- Erica Jong
brainy guys is a correct answer ...angel
This is what I want from a guy......its how he treats me, its how he makes me feel, its how we are together as a couple. I don't want to be clingy or desperate. I want us to be together because we both want o...not because we have to or need to...or because we are lonely or we think we can't do better.

Yes I want to be attracted to him & be attractive in my eyes. Does money matter? I don't want him to be unemployed & homeless...& not too rich as I don't want a workaholic. To me its about chemistry & compatability. When mr right comes into my life I will feel it with my heart.

Do I treat guys I've been with like my exez...I try not too. They aren't my exes so its not fair to them. I may have feelings that may come up that remind me of some of my exes. But I don't treat them like they're gonna hurt me....because not all guys will.

Also I've met guys who think I will hurt them or leave them because of what another woman did to them. I'm not like that I don't go around intentionally hurting guys. And to all men....not all women are goldiggers or after looks, etc. Just because some are it doesn't mean all are.
crash for me it was something i could feel it had nothings to do with how much money, looks or anything like that i guess like cystrial said a connection. when you meet a nice women that seems to have everything that you spoke of do you say this is the one or do you keep searching for that one that feels right?
crash we never know what will happen in our lives, in my opinion it speakes well of you that you aren't williing to breakup a marriage. but one never knows look at amy grant and vince gill.
99% don't know what they want and the other 1% just think they do.
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