Thinking as i do..
Im curious as to why we have a specific type in mind when looking for the right one....is there such a thing as the right one???I, myself, don't think so, I think its more like a needle in a haystack where u accept the inevitable of knowing we are all different and its a case of accepting the differences...
People here and various other places, are wanting a soul mate, someone who knows them completely, knows they have connected and thats all that matters...thats not the case is it...??
U find that soul mate or so u think and then what...changes happens, they accepted u for who u were to begin with then slowly roll out the changes they want from you to make u perfect....
I am no where near perfect and i would not expect that of my kindred spirit...perfect is boring and high maintenance...i prefer less than perfect means u can be urself all the more and not have to put on airs ....
Just saying is all :)
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Becca,
How a re you
I have asked myself this question in the past.
After watching years of romantic movies and sitcoms, i too wanted a "perfect soulmate" , so whenever i would meet a girl,
instead of appreciating the qualities she had, i would "judge" her against my criteria of the perfect "one".
See the thing was, because of the fact that i was looking to find that special someone, i was failing. But its not about finding the perfect one, its about meeting a genuine person who loves you for who you are and is there for you and you are there for that person, this itself makes it perfect.
That said, even perfection takes work, although not as much when the couple is naturally in sync with each other, but it does take work. Take care! :)
Kind and intellectual are perfect for me.