starting over

Starting Over:

That's the thing about love and romance, no one can predict where it will take you.
love will fill your heart, break your heart and then heal the heart that's broken.

Well, we have been through it all. we have loved, we have kissed, we have won
and we have lost. all in the name of love. poets have compared it to a ride at the
carnival, a trip to the heavens and back, and just about anything else you can think
of.

The one thing everyone agrees on, though, is that no matter how painful, no matter
how crazy and no matter how confusing, love is still what makes the world go' round.
Many of us reads chapters and thinking to ourselves, "That's it, I am through with love.

"We have all felt this way more than once. we have all felt that the pain is too much.
and it just isn't worth it. If we all feel this way, we will soon change our minds and be
ready to love again. In the meantime, use this break to nourish ourselves. use this time
to hang out with friends. make new friends.

Do things different. make a change in your life. enjoy your freedom and use it to become
more of a whole person. use it to get stronger and healthier so that when the next one
comes along you will be ready.

Most importantly, use this time to heal. Let your heart mend, and encourage it to stay soft.
Many times when love or the lack of it breaks our hearts, we allow our hearts to become
brittle and hard. Whatever you do, we do, don't let this happen.

Each new love that you experience will bring you joy and happiness. The amount of love that
you can feel, thought, depends on the openness of your heart.