friends?? think so??
according to wikipediaThe value of friendship is often the result of friends consistently demonstrating the following:
1. The tendency to desire what is best for the other
2. Sympathy and empathy
3. Honesty, even in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth
4. Mutual understanding and compassion; ability to go to each other for emotional support
5. Enjoyment of each other's company
6. Trust in one another
7. Positive reciprocity — equal give-and-take between the two parties
8. The ability to be oneself, express one's feelings and make mistakes without fear of judgement
i agree , but lets face it ,men's friendship is not the same as women's one.
does women to women friendship have the strong bonds of a mens one???
why so much jealousy and competition between girlfriends????
can a females friendship reach the levels of a relationship between men friends???
why usually on an infidelity, the adulterous is the best friend of the deceived??
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It might, however, make you question the genuineness of some of these "friendships" between males or females. See how many of these 8 qualities of friendships are not actually present in these "friendships" that have jealousy and competition.
definition of friendship is well attributed by wiki
the friendship among women has not the same significance as the one of men.
too much jealousy and hipocrisy and lack of trust cant build a healthy relation
To my friend,here is your
Blue,
still waiting to see ur new blogs .its 1.10 am here , and i will pass the coffee , for now lol
Men are friends untill they fight for a gal, aren't they?
no need for her to find out about their deal
If they however should go for the same "target" simoultaniously ... well let the best man win! Simple.
Best would be then if one back out early.
There's plenty of fish. I'm also thinking: if she's best with him and not me, well then i'm best with someone else then her!
So all good.
Here it also matters the rule.1 in OP's list.
Wanting the best for each other.
When it comes to exes it's a different story.
The one who first was there first will be respected by the good friend who simply will avoid any exes of his. Most guys support(and practice) this rule.
Me is abit more flexi on it and only require an approval of the friend (if this seldom situation should appear).
So what i'm saying is: if thay are good real friends, a girls should normally not be able to come between.
If she do they may not have been so good friends in the first place. This ofcourse is the ideal. But it exsists and it is MY ideal too.
Ok, a long serious reply there to a not so serious asked q,
i know ... but i had nothing better to do...
well said my boy , but i still prefer sharing
bring the girls
zweets blog is in the limits , dont worry
when i was much younger , being too much sensitive , my best friends were girls and believe i .............. know
Morgen...I read that you think I hate you. Sweetheart, where did you ever get that idea. I think you are the cutest thing since the lightbulb
ur similes r killing me
s...thank u
There is just no nonsense there,I just speak of the honesty and friendship/bond that we share. The fact that we are able to be so honest with each other that we have made each other cry,with the understanding that what ever hurts that we have had to bring to surface whether it be in regards to men or what have you. Good friends don't mind hearing the painful bits,because then we know we have done a good job. We are just of the opinion that no man is worth fighting over either. Maybe our friendship too good..
glad to hear u r better now. u and ur girlfriend r the exception to the rule, but if u r indeed , u r very lucky
if i'd choose to think that people get what they deserve, then i must be awesome