Romantic liars

Just wanna share my experience on this site.
3months ago I met a guy on this dating site. He's iraqi but a citizen in NZ
and now works in AUS. I was hesistant to answer his mails during the first week
but as time flew we started exchanging emails, texts and he even calls me all the way to PI.
He calls me everyday on viber just to see whereabouts I am. I also take the initiative to call him, check where he is or what he is doing. We skype 3x a week. He promised
to visit me in my home country this year, he spoke to my parents and said nice things to them. That
continued for 3months. Then just last week after i mentioned that my flight back to NZ would be moved to
december, he became cold. He didn't call me nor texted me. He even deleted me on facebook
and blocked me on skype. i texted him and asked if he still wants me but he didnt answer.. So i moved on without goodbyes. I just can't accept the fact why some men dare to hurt someone so nice, so caring.

So girls out there, just a piece of advice ..save your heart for someone you deserve..
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it seems very strange that he would do that.
i guess he must have a good reason, although i can not think of one.
But
one door closes, and another one opens.

take care.wave wave
His Wife would be home by then!!!doh laugh laugh
comfort bouquet wine wine
Sorry to hear Katrina! He obviously had some agenda and when it got impossible for him to realize it, he cut off with you... Unfortunately such people have no mercy and don t respect family, feelings, nothing.

Allow me to tell you that I find you extremely pretty which is a great advantage but also attracts all kind of men, not all of them decent ones. Be careful and good luck! thumbs up bouquet
Thanks ariel28 for your lovely post.

I feel sorry for myself for believing and trusting this guy.
And after everything i will be careful next time. It's a lesson
learned from now on.
Not too harsh pretty girl. He just didn't communicate for a week. Maybe a bit mad, sad, frustrated since he might be planning something nice and big when you return as previously planned. You know some people who do things at the height of frustrations. Give a little more time if you're really unto him. If a month passed by and still no word from him, then find another. It' not really meant to be.
Katrina. So you are in the philipines i presume?

And he was looking forward to see you soon ay.
Then in the slam you just happen to mention he will have to wait another 3months, right?

My question will be: 3 months ago when you started talking did he have a clue it could be that long until you would return out to the island?

And secondly: how did you preent it? Did you present it as the bad news it was or did you pop it in a bi-sentence like something he ofcourse should be ok with?

Two questions there. Thank you.
sad but true..wow! i never thought it only happened to me.
Katrina, you should be jumping with joy that he showed his true colors now rather then after you met him. I hate to break it to you sweetheart but you more then likely weren't the only one he was skyping with. He wasn't serious about meeting you....he was curious and he didn't have anymore patience to wait longer.

As far as what Morgen said about telling him right away that you would be moving. In your post you said "just last week" so you didn't know three months ago that you would be moving.

Katrina, believe half of what you see and none of what you hear..professor
U talk BS.
If u live in NZ why do u go back in Dec?
Guadal read the blog again , then you will see you talk BS...... you don't even understand what you are reading...FW ...DG ...... SH.......CSMMFI......
In the internet dating world (and also in real life), there are liars. He have reasons, and whatever those reasons he's the only one knows. Just be careful on trusting people esp here in the net. Do not fall too easy. You are still young and lovely, you'll have a lot of chances and opportunities finding a genuine, loving guy.
Get it.

If someone i hoped to see now said to me - 'ooops it will be december btw but that's ok right! - So how was your day?'

i'd hit the door too.

You should atleast sound like you dislike it also, and that you understand it may not be super good news for him.

handshake
very bad!!!
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