NEW YEAR's BREAKUP LETTER
NEW YEAR's BREAKUP LETTER : I think you're a great person, I just don't have space for you in 2013. My year is already booked with success, happiness, joy, freedom and achievement of my dreams.I have NO VACANCY for anymore hurt, pain, heartbreak, frustration, anger. I'm not perfect but... I know I deserve more. You do too! All the negativity, the drama, the confusion, the frustration, the anger, the merry-go-round, the up-and-down, I don't want it.
I don't need friendships, relationships, jobs that keep me going in circles on a giant Ferris Wheel. I'm sick & I'm ready to get off. I was thinking of my life kind of like a bookshelf. A bookshelf should be lined with valuable books only. Well, I'm done with this book and this chapter is closed. I have finally reached THE END!!! I got the lesson, but I NO LONGER NEED THE BOOK!
I don't want to turn this into a Hollywood movie and REPLAY what was said and done. I pressed MUTE and watched in silence as I realized something was wrong about the story all along. I have no regrets. It's just that, I don't want this book, I don't want this movie, and I don't want this play anymore. I need a New SCRIPT. And my bookshelf of life needs space for new books, new chapters, with happy endings.
I know LOVE may be permanent, but relationships can be TEMPORARY. So there's no need for us to continue pretending like 2013 will be any different than 2012.
THIS ISN'T CINDERELLA.
WHEN THE CLOCK STRIKES 12 YOU'LL STILL BE YOU & I'LL STILL BE ME.
You're still you, no matter what day it is!!! And you is not who I need.
Please don't get me wrong. I don't regret a thing, I just think it's time for us to move on. I HAVE to LET GO. Because if I HOLD ON to THIS, I'll LET GO of what I deserve. And If I let go of what I DESERVE, I'll be holding on to YOU but letting go of ME.
And all that spells is me being UNHAPPY.
You might disagree, but if say these same exact words to me... I will understand because it's time for us to set each other free. If it's meant to be, it will be. But right now, I chose to be free and I chose to be me. I love you. Please let me be. It's time for me to be HAPPY!!! Please set me FREE!!
Comments (5)
Just an observation - you say you don't like the repeat nature of behavioural patterns and going round in circles, but in you blog you've done exactly that. Perhaps being concious of this in yourself and developing new strategies, or skills may be a goal for 2013.
Also, you've started off assertively, stating your needs and future action and then you ask to be allowed to do that at the very end. This may be another reason why your communications don't move forward as you would like.