Why do I bother???!!!

I know I'm not the youngest or most beautiful woman in the world but I still have feelings. I've been trying to make a connection on this singles site & all I get are scammers & disrespectful downright mean messages. I can't post them here but I've been called names by men I don't even know & have never talked to. Am I the only one who is going through this. I'm a good person & that is all that should matter in the scheme of things. Just because I'm not getting any younger, we are all getting older, doesn't give anyone the right to say mean things about the way I look. If you don't like the way I look you don't have to look at me or even talk to me. Now I look at myself & thinking maybe they are right & that's why I can't find someone special because I'm not pretty enough,young enough, or I'm wrinkley is the way one man put it(not very nice). What happen to respect for a lady, no matter their age. Again, why do I bother???
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Hi Miss lsantis, I don't know why people take their frustrations-out on the innocent. That has happened for years online and has happened forever before computers. I've typed the following several times here at Connecting Singles: Seems like dry-spells last forever, but when it rains, it pours. It just takes time. Just focus on only dating and if it's right, love will follow. I know it seems like you're the loneliest person in the world, but more than a few feel the exact same way. Hang in there. wine
Mysst Said it for Me!!!handshake thumbs up thumbs up .

comfort hug bouquet bouquet bouquet wine grin
You bother because your worth it .
Don't let them get you down. Keep the faith, you only need to meet 1 right person and your off. Don't worry about the rest.
OK Isantis!

We man have spoken. Take heed. There is nothing wrong with you and the remedy to all those bad guys is to stick with us good guys on the blogs!

Just delete and blog the losers that are mistreating you!
More then likely the ones who are saying these hateful and mean things to you don't feel good about themselves and are very bitter people.


They think by making someone else miserable it's makes them bigger but to me they only appear like a smaller person.


Don't let some bitter person ever stop you from trying to make a connection.


I'd just block or delete them and if they ever send you a threatening mail report them to the mods.
but make sure to leave the pic with the pooltable in... Thats a major pluspoint for many guys.. unless they might fear you could beat them at the game
Evryone has a right to be here so just ignore them ,Im sure there are many who like your pics
"I am beautiful no ,matter what they say.... your words can't bring me down"... That's me singing for you Ms Isantis. Cheers!!!hug hug hug
I think your hot and got a nice figure.
there will be ones that hate and critisize you always, and ones that think otherwise.
Humans are cruel and jealous creatures, so just pretend they arent here.
You can do that, they online. not like in the real world, where its a punch up etc.
You have got beautiful eyes
Beauty = 55% it means stupidity...
dont get why u should bother shacking ur head for something like....
laugh laugh
Grufti will be one year older in a few hours (52), means ME, but, I still like what I see in the mirror. On some days more and on some days less but I am
still content with what I see, no matter other peoples opinion, as I have to live with myself. As you said; if you don’t like, what you see / hear, turn round and close ears. Just be self confident in yourself. First of all, you have to live with yourself and have to love yourself. The rest is a gift to people who cross your life and they should first respect you in your personality. If they can’t do so, keep on walking and don’t stop, where it seems to be lost time.
Whether online or in real life, there will always be the dissatisfied, the unhappy, the poisoned people.

Leave them alone to their misery, and you just continue to be you.Be strong, continue to be a beautiful person and dont let any of the negative people or their attitudes bow your head.
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