Shallow women and why there flakey only towards av

Yes very true but sad, i cant wait to get at least half a nice body like you just to get attention :(

Not all woman like that, some of still wanna find the true one not just cos of physical only.
well maybe those woman who like you before just looking for physical only.

Best luck with you search now,

Why is my comment deleted????

Welela i didn't delete your comment you have few comments on my other blog i think both my blogs look the same lol

put your shirt on would be much better... well, it depends on what kind of relationship you are looking for... if only just for fun, do not expect too much instead of physical thingy only...and if she drop her choice just based on "the looks", no need to regret if 10 years later there would be any possibility for her to change her mind...

Okay, and why is that???

Nessa7 i was never picky i wrote chubby women to, i wrote 1000's of different women through out the years on here and facebook and other sites
lavina thanks :)

Cyn_Real & funxsinia i dont think u understand my point, im not complaining that i get lots of replys, im upset that i only get lots of replys if i look good, before when i was little slightly chubby with shirts on no one hardly wrote me, and yes im looking for a serious relationship only, im telling guys that if they want women to stop being flakey then they need a nice body to get replys sad but true

Welela your comments are on my other blog, both blogs look the same but are different lol no worries

i write lots of women am a true'ly nice man, they write alot 1st day show lots of interest then next day on up i hardly hear from them, i wish i had nice body like you so women will write me alot or often

funxsinia lol, i understand his point to its such a sad shallow world we live in, i been on here since september 2011 and facebook, i must had wroten over 2000 women all flakey never put effort into writing me, if someone likes us if were interesting to them they'll iniciate contact to write us often, when there always unavailable hardly write especially when it happens all the time its to fustrating, i created a fake account 6 pack abbs guy just to see how much replys he would get, alot of replys yet i wrote all same women never any luck

Yep, I lost weight years ago and I did notice that guys treat me differently nowadays. I see that different than you do though, I find it shallow, looks in a man is not a priority for me. If I notice that someone is interested in me mainly because of my looks, than I'm not interested in him.

I understood your point... thats why I said : it depends on what kind of relationship we are looking for... If we only seek less than 5 years relationship/t, then do not expect too much instead of physical thingy only...

Best of luck with it Ray, if it makes you feel better/healthier go for it.
I don't think that you meet less flaky people when your looks changes, I think you meet more shallow people.
Taking care in your appearance as in being groomed and choosing clothes that compliments you is good, but in general feeling happy in your skin and being confident is much more attractive to me than just a pretty body.
We can't change other people's preferences, looks does help to a certain degree, but it doesn't guarantee you happiness or finding that special someone that is compatible to you.

It's obvious you want to be noticed now by putting up this thread and also can I ask you what's with the bare chest A nice tea shirt casual dress would look good and make you look very handsome. How you come across to me is shallow Hal yes you are a pretty boy but that is external but back when you carried a few pounds wouldn't it have be better if only one or two genuine ladies contacted you because they like you for who you are then rather then heaps of shallow girlys now comming after you now.

But! I am older woman so maybe I don't get young gen these days. But I do know love comes from within which is what makes real people beautiful inside and out Good luck in your search

One last Question are you any wiser now you have heaps of chicky babes comming after you other than your ego! I'm not trying to be smart asking you this just curious what is really going on inside of your head now JMO! only

I was chubby too, and belive me men did not look at me much and wasnt nice whit me, when I was of that way. I lost weight and I dont know what to say, they threat me diferent. Not all women are shallow, as I wait not all men be. whit all respet that you deserve, I dont feel atracttion for muscles, i prefer someone average.But I cant denny that i feel amazed about your own effort and will strengh, because lost weight costs a lot. Maybe you attrack the wrong women type, all depends of how you manage your personal presentation in front others, if you show your best cards ( Could be your body) in the begining to play, and not in the final, I can assure you that you can attrack the easy ones... Use your history as inspiration to motivate others, to care theriselves and lost weight for a healthy life in mental and physical body... Dear, rotten apples are in the floor and are easy to pick.. in what level you will put... If a woman, shows her body and dont let nothing to the imagination, she will attract the wonrg kind of men... All depends...