could I be a wonder woman ?
I have 2 things important...more than a week I out from this room and hide my profile, to push myself to focus in one thing... but then I had to keep the other thing aside as I was so sure that the other important thing could be compromised after this and wait.
but the result... I almost succeed on the 1st thing that I was handled but I lost another important thing...
, even though till now I dont lose my faith and still I keep a hope on it.I just human being... I could not do 2 things in the same time when its required my full efforts.
when we are faced 2 important things between
1. future for my family
and
2. personal matter
which one should it be in the 1st place?
last week, I decided to put point # 1 in the first place... but I guess I was wrong... I should put point# 2 in the first place then point# 1.
now someone told me that I was egoist bcos I did not think about point# 2.. I did apology but it did not work...
then I am thinking...
why should I keep hiding here? even thought I am still struggling with point# 1, and I will try to handle point# 2 if I have a chance. I really wish I get another chance...
Let see.... whether I could be a wonder woman...
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1. future for my family
and
2. personal matter
which one should it be in the 1st place?
In my view non of them should not have a place.. personal is personal and future is future.
Future for your family if you are talking in sens of Job or financial issues then yes you need to focus on it deal with it solve it and get over with...If you are talking personal matter don't know what.. so hard to say.
last week, I decided to put point # 1 in the first place... but I guess I was wrong... I should put point# 2 in the first place then point# 1.
No I dont think you did wrong. Don't blame your self for anything.
now someone told me that I was egoist bcos I did not think about point# 2.. I did apology but it did not work...
If that someone complain like that ... then someone cannot be included in your future either. begin with a complain never end with no complains... ask that some one to find some one else.
then, that is what I am thinking...
why should I keep hiding here? even thought I am still struggling with point# 1, and I will try to handle point# 2 if I have a chance.
Just ask your self listen to your self what is more important. Talk to your inner vision.
after what happened to me in the past.. I dont care abt personal matter... just last 5 months I try to ... maybe from now on I have to learn to pay more attention to that matter. and I have to learn to handle 2 things in the same time..
pls dont try to understand ... but I thanks for your attention to me..
Mimi... my dear... I miss you too.... kita bicara lagi nanti, aku cerita deh...
Hope things will go better for you.
talking abt personal matter, or else... I appreciate your opinion with many thanks..
to me when someone complain.. I listen the complain and I consider it. moreover if complain coming from VIP.... I could not just ignore... but I will take it for the good of relationship.
what I can do only hope to get a chance and keep my faith...
like I put this blog... I only want to blow what I feel since I could not talk with wall.... I cant keep myself confuse. but now is clear..
no body knows about what points I am talking abt... all of you just guessing ... so let it be..
I just agree with Welela that to be too strong is not good... crying is sometimes needed to blow up emotion... maybe I need it too...
world is not ended yet.. Life is not only 2 things that I am talking about, life is so much more... I promise.
yes... I feel better now. as all is clear to me now..
I dont confuse anymore, I know what I have to do...
some comments helped me to realize that life is not only 2 things but much more... and I did right thing that future for my family is more important... and I dont want to be a selfish girl by putting personal matter in the 1st place... as it should be able to compromise...
Sometimes when our thinking is clouded, we have to step back and look at the whole situation. Most times that will tell us what to do first. It sounds like after a lot of soul searching you have done that.
God bless you!
Actually my responsible is only in marketing department, but since we lost our boss, so temporarily I have to take it over..
anyway forget it. for sure, many things I learn from all happened around me.. wish it would make me wiser...
but I noted very well for your comment.. thank you very much
Richard D says good here!
good to see you back!!
Looks like you have find a solution for your matter. Thought still not meet your expectation. But, still wish you all the best...
GBU, my dear friend... Have a nice week end
Mei.... tomorrow is Sunday.... what time will you be free dear?
Lunch or Dinner for meeting is fine for me... just tell me.
The idea of being a wonder woman is a nice one as long as one likes the work combined with this. There were times I felt to be able to pull out trees for my sons, but even though I only succeeded in half the work on that I enjoyed every effort.
If you like your efforts try to find a way to gain more energy. You have this energy, be sure! We have much more energy in us than we are aware of. But if there are tasks you don't enjoy reduce them to those which are in your responsibility. And you should be the only person to decide this.
any time is fine for me. I have sent a message to your CP.
Meet you on then...
I am not able to contact you, and I would like to clear the air.
Cheavy